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hi my name is Gabe I am puerto rican and very proud of it and i like to help people with there problems and i have also been knowen to give good adivce so u best listen up! lol but anyways i will talk to most anyone so if u got a problem and want someone to talk to im me on aim "Marrero12"

and yes i really and 15
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E-mail: alderworth1@hotmail.com
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BlueEyedBlondie725
Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
ur prolly goin to find this rude but it sounds to me that ur son is just a lil mac! lol but explain to him how thats bad

Gabe


ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good! (link)
just depends when they mature


i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o (link)
i understand ur decision for wanting to have an abortion i think u are doing the right thing cause i know i would rather we dead then growing up in a fucked up life style because u are so young but i think u should go to planed parenthood if u can get a excuse to go see ur doctor that would work to but u better act fast if u go to ur doctor make sure u tell them not to tell ur parents and by law they can't tell ur parents anything and if they do they can loose there license to practice medicine but either of those will work and forget all those ppls that are badgering u about this because it's ur decsion and i think u are makeing the right one.

good luck
Gabe


I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox (link)
ok all these people are dumb of corse u can whey would it really matter it'son the outside of ur teeth the only thing is it would hurt more if u drug ur teeth so yes u can and i can vouch for the fact that it wont hurt him

good luck
Gabe


hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
well i am a guy so my answer might be a lil diffrent from the others but i think u should just go ahead and do it just make sure it is under stood it's a one time thing anless u really wanna do it all the time cause i think it's obvious that he ain't just in it to get some so i guess if u really love him and u want to do it why not? but if u don't want to do it don't cause u will just regret it and that will just runin all the fun and could cause some problems between u two

good luck
Gabe


How old do u have to be to have sex? (link)
there is no really age as long as u have hit puberty but i would suggest waiting after that cause it would be kinda early for alot of people so i would suggest atleast being 15 atleast!

good luck


17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping?? (link)
yes i ain't really sure because u didn't really explain like exzactly how he was going about it but yes basicly thats what it is


when 2 girls kiss ( but the girls love boys, there straight), is that a wrong thing?

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i don't think it's a bad thing at all i think it is extremely sexy when girls do that

good luck
Gabe


This is for all the guys out there. Um..if you know a girl doesn't wear a thong then why would you change your opinon about her? just because her underwear isn't attractive? I mean if I was allowed to buy them then I would totally buy them but I'm not. I used to own alot anyways. And if you know a girl wears boy briefs or none-sexy underwear why would you care? (link)
a guy would change his opion about a girl who doesn't wear a thong because he is baseing his likings on looks and no offense to anyone but thongs are sexy boy briefs aren't as sexy (some people don't find girls sexy in them at all but i do dunno if thats weird but w/e)so that would be why he would change is opion but as far as i am concerned who cares what underwear they are wearing cuase if u are that intimante that ur pants are completely off then ur underwear will prolly be off to

good luck
Gabe


my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
tell him to suck a nut and fuck off cause even if u he does do u then they when u two are goin out he will only be in it for the sex so just tell him to fuck off

good luck
Gabe

PS: where did u find this dude?!?


my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
tell him exzactly that, that u aren't ready


Today i gave my boyfriend head for the 1st time ...and then I did it a second time and that time i like almost gagged! what should i do should i say anything...???


signed confused one (link)
ok well i have gotten head before and beleave it or not it feels pretty good when u choke or gagg so don't worry about that

but about the sex thing if u wanna do it figure out if he is like one of those people who wants to wait till marriage and as long as he ain't don't plan nothin i would whole lot rather of a girl just got on top instead of like asking her u wanna have sex!? cause that would be werid

good luck
Gabe

if u got any more ?'s don't be affraid to ask


my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
u could just be like what does it matter it's not like ur wearing it!


Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
u now all these other people are talkin like tell u mom that u think it's time and stuff but if u mom is like mine she wouldn't care so just when u do it don't let her find out about it! i mean i am sure after u have done it it would be all good to tell her jsut when u do it be nice about it not like when ur fighting or somthin cause then she will take it like if the only reason u did it was cause she told u not to but anyways

good luck
Gabe


ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!? (link)
if ur mom does u prolly will eventualy get them but i would beleave the part about the sleeping with no bra but the moveing ur arms in a circular motion that wont make ur boobs grow it will make the muscles under them go bigger to give them the apperance of being bigger which is all good for lucks but if anyone trys to touch them it would be kinda odd and plus it wouldn't help u that much of very fast for sure if u wern't even useing weights

Good Luck
Gabe


okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
well what do u need to know like how to physicaly do it? cause thats simple when the guy gets a erection he puts a condom on and inserts his dick into ur pussy and moves it in and out and thats pretty well the basics of how to do it and as far as things to do that is pretty much up to u assumeing u are a girl cause u have say over what to do and what not to do if u are a guy then u just fallow the girls lead

Good luck
Gabe


is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
yea i guess so i ain't a girl but i do know alot of girls who do it


my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
no i don't think so because in this day in age implants aren't that sexy anymore cause anyone can get them so it's way more sexy to have a girl who is all natural even if they are a lil less then average

good luck
Gabe


There is this drug called "wet". People say it is made up embalming fluid, which is used for dead people or whatever.. I read that it is made with embalming fluid and PCP. My question is then: What exactly is embalming fluid made of? And what exactly is PCP made of?

P.S. I don't do it. But I want to let someone know how many messed up things that can get put into thier body. (link)
well embalming fluid i dunno whats it's made of i just know when people die they put it in them to preserve the body till after the funeral then

pcp is is also known as "angel dust" it is what i like to call the pureset form or crack

so i would suggest you not ever trying this "wet" drug


Hey, your favorite topic is sex so i thought id ask. my bf wants me to give him head. Ive never done it before so i dont really know exactly what to do..do u suck the whole time or what do you do??? tips please (link)
well the first time i had it done it was done really good by my g/f and what she did was bleave it or not it feels really good when it hits ur throat so like when u choke it is really good but i would suggest trying to imcorporate your hands into the whole ordeal but thats about all i know to tell u but to every guy somthing else feels diffrent but that was wat felt best for me so just do what ever u think seems to please him most and never know but maybe u will get somthing good in return lol (wink wink)

good luck




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