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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???

You can tike midol it really does help or maybe ask someone for a massage that always helps! Or you can lay down with a heating pad on your back!

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

well some people bleed and some people dont it just depends on the person. BUt he might not of fully popped your cherry so maybe thats why you didnt bleed!

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Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?

hey you should wait alil bit. Maybe hes just bein shy and doesnt want you to think hes using you or movin to fast!! maybe give him signs to keep going

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How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering.

YOu can buy them from the grocery store and just take it at your house. They determine if your pregnant by peeing on a little strip things that tests it.

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Some of my friends are really scared to kiss a guy! They don't know "how." What should I tell them??

tell them go with the flow and follow the guys lead! tell them they are worried over nothing b.c it really does come natural!!! just dont think about it!

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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!

HEy! yah itz normal they will grow outta of it! they usually stop growin like around 18-20 depends on the person! but they probably arent fully developed yet soo nooo worries!~

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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.

hey yah thats true! if your ready then go for it!! Humans are humans and make mistakes no ones perfect. Yah that is true- these days its hard to wait until marriage.

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i lik this one kid but i dont think i have major feelings for him i just wanna like kick it wit im if anyone can give me any moves i can make to give him some hints please tel me and no making out or anthing i just wanna hint him in thnx for reading write back as soon as possible

Flirt alot with him and make eye contact! that will hint to him that you like him!

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

YUp its perfectly normal. Most people differ on how long they have their period so you should be happy because you only have it for 3 days!

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

hey he shouldnt wear 2 condoms! They will break after a while. Its more safe to just wear 1. theres always a chance of getting pregnant but even you take the right precautions then everything should be fine. you can get the spermicide condoms for extra protection. but just make sure your ready and that you really do love the guy!

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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

No not if you wore a condom and did everything right and he didnt cum in you. Having sex also sets your period back up to a week or less or depending in the person even more. So theres no worries

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper?

WELL there is a pretty low chance of it since he wasnt there for that long and he barely went in. Its possible but not likely. The risk of Getting pregnant from precum is low but it can happen if yah get enough. But honestly i really wouldnt worry about it because it sounds like he didnt get that much in- or possibly maybe there wasn't any at all since he was in there for a short while!

-KAylYN-

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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

He WAnted you to go down further- thaz why- juSt dont lEt Him FoRcE yah!

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my boyfriend and i tried to have sex .. but im to tight .. he and i dont know what to do .. any ideas?

Hey Well thats Normal but you could have him finger you alot to make you looser and then just try doin it again and youll get looser once you have sex the 1st couple times. But thats about all you can do! hope i helped yah

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HELP!! A few summers ago I grew a few inches and gained a significant amount of weight, and now I have so many stretch marks, and they're making me SO Self concious!! My boyfriend of 6 months always wants to run his hands up my shirt to tickle me, and I always make him stop and blame it on tickeling.. but it's really I just don't want him to see my stretch marks!! They're on the front of my stomache, my sides, even on the sides of my breasts.. and I don't know what to do to get rid of them. I've read about them and they're caused from the lack of cologen or something like that, when your skin stretches, so it makes the marks. Does anyone have any home remedies or products that work efficiantly and aren't that expensive??? PLEASE HELP ME!

WoRK OUt yOUR boDy- every morning and night do crunches and sit ups to work out your abs- and run at least once a week- this should clear away your stretch marks and tighten up your stomache if yah stay on Top Of your workouts!

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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..

Yah thatZ perfectly Normal happens to everyone- Dont be embarassed of it tho- your bf is just messin w. yah- but dont take it personal and dont worry bout it!

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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol?

HAHaA- HE WAs Askin IF YAh Have an ass- lol

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where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic)

A nice restraunt- or dinner @ the beach- then oUt to the movies-

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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question

IT comes natural- the guy usually leans in and then you just PUt Ur lipS togetHEr ANd Go w. tha flow of the guy- itll come natural to you when it happens tho you wont even have to thinK!

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

Nah yoU You cAnt Get HIV FROM KISSING!!!

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