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I have been wondering for my whole life what boobs realy feel like and i was wondering if you had any ideas what boobs really do feel like? (link)
haha well i do have boobs, so yes. it really isnt that exciting..just like..some skin ha


Well, I've asked many questions about masturbation, and people say 'it's healthy'. Then why do I feel so ashamed? My hormones are taking over my life, and I'm stuck in between telling my mom and either masturbating or not, or not telling my mom and masturbating or not. I know it's a very personal decision but I'm not swayed easily by a couple of 'it's healthy' or 'don't do it' or 'tell your mom and she'll tell you not to', ya know? I just need it flat out - what should I do?


Thankyou in advance! (link)
flat out..you don't need to tell your mom anythign what you do to your body is personal..and she doesnt have to know unless you feel it is harmful to yourself..masturbation like you said is perfectly healthy and natural and it can't get you pregnant lol so why not go for it


hi I am a girl and i shave down there... i know that you are suppose to shave down then side ways then up but it still hurts and I cut myself doing it. Is there a specific technique i can use to still be completely smooth without so much pain or something other than a razor that I can use? (link)
just use a lot of soap or shaving cream and don't shave to quickly otherwise you'll cut yourself also don't shave too frequently bc the hair won't be long enough so it will be harder to shave


17 female and i've been doing cyber sex online without my parents knowing of course and I was wondering if i've been doing cyber sex did i lose my virginity?

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no hun don't worry..you've only lost your virginity when a penis has entered your vagina completely..cyber sex doesnt include that, so you're fine :)


if you use a condom and it doesnt break, u cant catch any stds can you?

and how common is it to catch an std while doing oral? (link)
most likely not..there is always that small chance though..oral is easier to get an STD if there is no condom..if there is a condom the chances are lowered..but there is less of a chance of a condom breaking during oral. The mostly has to be careful


i really wanna please my girl, whats the best way to make a girl cum? (link)
mmmh..i guess every girl is different..and certain things really turn them on so maybe ask her..it'll really turn her on acutally..but basically..touch all the right places if you kno wat i mean ;)


i sweat like all the time! it's really emabarresing to have these huge sweat stains in school. i don't know what to do, i mean deoderant and antiperspirant just don't work. i went to the doctor and there's nothing wrong with me, i just need good deoderant and/or antiperspirant. does anyone know the name of a REALLY good one? thanks! (link)
certain dri!


Everytime I makeout with my boyfriend I try to go further, so I start with kissing his neck. Everytime I do this he is like "Wow you really like my neck" and then just starts making out with me. Why doesn't he get what I'm tryint to do? What does he mean when hes is like "Wow you really like my neck?" (link)
aww maybe he is just nervous and doesn't kno what to do..maybe try a different aprroach if he reacts in a similiar way..then he probabl isnt ready to go further yet..if you guys are comfortable with talking about it, you can be like are you comfortable with going farther with me? its ok if ur not..and see how he feels


whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate
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sex


me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday, and since then, my vxgina itches realllllllllllly bad. is this normal? helppp!! (link)
maybe razor burn..i bet ur fine..but get tested for crabs or someting just in case


ok so this might sound gross but i have had my period for like 2 years now and i am 13 and so well always after my period the WHOLE month till it starts again i have to wear a thick panty liner cause it all comes out like the goop does. the white goop. it dosnt smell or anything though please help i rate high (link)
that's fine, it just just discharge. it often comes before your period..if it seems like an extreme amount go to your doctor.i think you're fine thought cuz usually if its a bacteria it smels and looks off colored.


im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
aw don't worry at all hun! When you get your period, its only a small amount, because it starts off pretty slow. It wont' be like gushing out of you lol, and if you feel like you might get it sometime soon, lik you have cramps, or you feel like your breakig out a little more or someting, put on a panty liner so you won't get it on ur underwear..and your doctor is pretty accurate most of the time so im sure you have plenty of time.


hey guys, alright one question.

i last had my period october 30th, and right now i have my period. at least i think i do. i'm not sure if its my period... or if it's cause i "had my cherry popped" or something. do you bleed alot when that happens? cause i think i have my period. but i'm really honestly not sure.

answer, please?

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hmm..it could be your cherry popping..depends when you got it popped..and do you mean octobor 30th or sebtember 30th? Becuase if its september..then it is possible that you could have your period again..when you get your cherry popped you do bleed, but not an extreme amount from what i've heard.


I like this guy and we've made out a couple times. Now im thinking of going further and jack him off and finger me..im just so selfconscious about my hair..i can try to trim it but theres just a lot of hair..and forget shaving..i get these red bumps no matter if i use lotion and stuff...so what should i do? trim? just not do anything? he would probably be turned off if i didnt do something about my hair right. : / be honest all you guys if you answer
thanks (link)
hmm..a lot of guys i've talked to acutally dont mind the hahir..but i think that the best and healthiest thing to do is just trim it, and maybe shave a little bit? If you want the red bumps to go away, use pimple cream..the clean and clean acne spot treatment is best. I think that he probably wouldnt mind if he fingered you and you had hair..most guys aren't really turne doff by it..but it really varies..Hope i helped


I am 14 years old and me and my friend were ''playing'' around w/ this guy and after my friend gave him a blow job he fingered me. I would like to know how many days until I can take a pregnancy test and what are my chances of being pregnant. I am very worried because I am very skinny from anorexia and I'm afraid I will die if I am pregnant. (link)
you can't get pregnant from him fingring you , dont worry hun.


i found a note that my sisters boyfriend wrote that was saying that he wanted to give her a jollyrancher. what does jollyrancher mean?

* i ask you b/c i think that you give good advice (link)
hey im not really sure, im sry..i aksed around and no one knew..maybe try askin sum of ur friends..im guessing a hickey mabe? sry


okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
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wow, thats really serious. I think you have the right idea with brining the convo to the guidance counsler. they could say that they had an annoymouse request to talk to him from a teacher or something. I think that he really needs profesional help from a guidance counlser or therapist and that he would really appreicate if you did it in the long run, you could save his life.


Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused.. (link)
I personally think you should wait, because even if yo do think that you love this guy..sex might make things akward annd at some point there is always that possiblity of you both breaking up, and then it wouldn't have helped the relationship. I think your best bet is to not do it..but do whatever you feel comfortable with.


i just started growing hair around the (u know), do u have any tips on how and where i should shave? (link)
well..just shave it and see if you wanna keep doing it..cuz if u do it once it will grow back more than beofre.


ok im really confused about my sexuality (im a 15 year old girl).... i think i might be bisexual but i dont know. I've hooked up with a girl in the past but that was cuz we were drunk and i did it to kinda like impress these guys that we were with. and i do find girls attractive, but i dunno if i'd date a girl. I'd hook up with a girl again but it'd have to be under the same circumstances (not sober and to impress a guy)... does this mean im bi? Give me your thoughts on this. (link)
u cud b..if you're willing to hook up with a girl again..but then again you were drunk so maybe not. U cud just want to be doint it for attention or wanting to experiment..if you keep wanting to do it you cud b bi.




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