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Q: Most people say once you have sex it means your not a virgin anymore..and some people say once you had been fingered and not had sex means your not a virgin either is that true?
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you're still a virgin, unless it involves penetration.
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Q: My boyfriend has fingered me before but this time he used two fingers and it was a little painful and I bled. I know that's normal. But today when I got up I noticed a big bump, like it it swollen on the outside of one of my lips. Do you think it is just swolen from a scratch or cut??Like from his finger nail?? i think its just swollen, but what eles could it be?? Pelase help me.
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it might be herpes...
im not saying you have it, im just throwing it out there.
Or a cut. Whatever.
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Q: female 16
Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.
How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You.
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Q: I've just started to make love with my boyfriend, and I have a vague recollection from my sex education classes at school that when you become sexually active you should have a check-up, examination etc. Is this the case? Thanks!
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Q: One of my friends has tried to comitte suicide twice before and i am afraid she will do it again it terifies me what should i do.
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o god this has happened to me b4. seriously go to the police or somebody right away. i mean like now...not later...NOW cuz later it might be to late. take it from sum 1 with experience pleez
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Q: omg so i thought i was pregnant and i put the form in my wallet and i left it out in my living room and my mom found it..shes coming home in 15 mins now and said she wants to talk to me abuot something and i looked though my wallet and the pink form was gone....omg what do i tlel her???? im soo scared
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tell her it was your friends
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Q: ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?
P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)
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if she loves you and you love her, then i think that you should talk to her and tell her that youre not ready to do anything like that. tell her and she will probably understand. tell her you love her very much, but you dont feel that the time is right.
hope i helped
=) martyna
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Q: im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m
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thats the sweetest thing ever i think its really good when guys want to wait until they get married. that shows that you have a lot of respect for women and girls.
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Q: OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's
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i dont think its that bad, isnt it better to know what the sex with a guy is like before you marry him and commit to him forever, maybe its not good with him, i donno thats what i think anyway.
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Q: is it just me?..or do other people think like me, that they hate themselves, that theyre not worth living. Because there are so many stressful things in life, school, personal life, friends, family..so on and so on....im stressed over so much stuff, and all i do to make myself feel better is to cry. i keep my emotions up inside of me, and all i have to let my feelings out is in a journal i keep and write my deep thoughts and feelings in it. i dont think there is anyone in this world that i can tell ALL of my feelings to. is it just me?...is there anyone else out there who thinks just like me?...how do you solve your problems?...
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a journal is a very good idea. i think a lot of people think like u, they just dont wanna admmit it or they end up really commiting suicide. its a hard thing to talk about but its not just u...dont worry.
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Q: I was just wondering...are there any good tricks or tips to having an orgasm?...Im 15 and all i have done is finger myself... I have no clue what a G spot is...When i was fingering myself...i found a sofy spongy spot...i think thats my GSPOT...im not sure. Help? plz?
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no clue
very sorry
very nervous
wierd question
sorry
look it up
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Q: my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me
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i think its ok, you can do it
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Q: 13.f
alright. for about two years i have been cutting myself. and at first it was very innocent (little scratches with saftey pins... butter knifes, things like that) then one day i ginaed access to a really sharp razor blade and cut extremely deep. and for a year and a half thats how i have been doing it, because it is so addictive. more than once a day, and so i can go to sleep at night. most of my friends found out, one way or another and eventually my best friend got me to tell the guidance counselor. my dad now knows, and so does my psychiatrist (whom i have been seeing since I was 8 and my mom died). but i know he doesnt want me doing it, and niether do my friends. so latelyt i havent. but things got worse. im always pissed off at everyone, and lash out. also, i have been thinking about suicide more and more. i always considered it before but never like this. but when i talk to my friends, all the do is beg and pleed with me to stop. I CANT. when i was on the bus, i started tasting blood in my mouth, and noticed I had been bitting a chunk of my lip off as a pain reliever involuntarily. last night, I cut again and felt SOOO much better. but im so afraid someone will find out and be angry. im on medicine, and everything, it just sux. snapping rubberbands, and all that doesnt help. I know this is long, but im so upset with myself, I just dont know.
I rate 5s.
Manda.
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well, i dont know what to say, really because i was never in a situation like this. my friend was though, and i understand that you just cant stop it. i think you should get help from a profesional person or somthin. thats the only way you will be able to stop. i dont understand it though, doesnt it hurt??
if you want, you can talk to me on aim if you have any further questions or somthin....
xxpolishbabiexx
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Q: i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
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well, i dont think you have to worry about it, cuz it's not like you do it. people might think it's cool then or they might even be pressured into it.
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Q: help guys please!!! ok i havent had sex at all this month and i had my period last month and every motnh before that.....but this month i am really really late....im nervous but then again i have nothing to really be nervous about right??? please help me know whats going on..please!!! oh and my boobs arent sore and i dont have morning sickness....
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that happens to a lot of girls. u have nothin to worry about. even if you dont get it at all this month, nothing's gonna happen. just wait till next month and then ull see.
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bio
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I'm Martyna. Ask me crap. I'll try to answer it to the full extent of my ability. k? k! k.
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Burbank. Occupation: Queen of Peace high school student Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: February 24, 2005 Answers: 170 Last Update: March 23, 2006 Visitors: 11769
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