I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?
I think you are just going through alot.
Your letting their deaths interpet you whole life.
You feel alone and you feel you need to end your life because your love ones have died and you feel there is no one else to be there to comend you.
That isn't the best thing to do.
I suggest you go to a therapist.
You shouldn't kill yourself that will not help at all, maybe you need to get out more and have fun.
Try to get over the past and look into the future..
Im sure your mother, father, and best friend are in a better place.
How would they feel if they found out you killed yourself??
Try to go out and do things that make you happy and make you get over what makes you so sad.
Im sure their spirits still resides with you.
Hope i helped
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14/F. okay so i dont no what is wrond with me. i used to be so happy, then i started cutting myself, idk why, and then on everything has just been going downhill from there. nothing ever makes me happy, and my recent mood change has made all me friends mad at me, and i can't tell them what's wrong because i dont even no what's wrong. im always tired and i never want to do anything. i dont laugh anymore and im never happy. depression and bi-polar run in my family, so im beggining to think i have one of those...i dontg no what to do and all i can think about is getting home and cutting and thinking of ways to kill myself. idk what to do...if anyone can help in anyway, that'd be great. so i'd like to no mainly if i have depression or what. thanks.
First and foremost, Do not commit suicide.
Try to talk to your friends, they will really understand what you are going through.
Let them know your are in a depression stage and you need someone to hold you and make you feel alot better.
Cutting yourself doesn't solve anything all it does is make you shed blood and leave a terrible mark. Im pretty sure your parents don't know what's going on with you either.
Try to see someone like a therapist or physcologist and try to get HELP IMMEDIATELY.
I really do not think you should be acting this way at such a young age, think about your future.
Think about your family; and how they would feel if you commited suicide.
They would really be devasted and also would be very upset that you let depression take advantage of your life.
I'm hoping you reconsider in cutting yourself and thinking about killing yourself.
That is not the route to go.
What would JESUS SAY"My child went this route??"
I'm here in prayers and in spirit.
Do what's right!
Hope I helped
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are you supposed to shave before you have sex?
Sweetie, you dont have too.
That if you choose to.
It depends on if you wanna shave down there, or if you dont wanna risk the embarrassment of him not liking the pubic hair down there???
Maybe you should ask him if he likes that.
hope i help
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does anyone have anytips on good kisses like to turn him on a little...
When you and your man kiss your supoose to feel some type of sensation or vibe. When you kiss its suppose to be magic..
Like if you wanna spice it up with a kinky side, I say go in with a huge BANG.
Grab him by his shirt, nibble on his ear, moan lightly in his ear.
Tell him he could have you right there.
Then first gently lick his neck and go up and up to you reach his ear and kiss it.
Then you kiss his forehead then his cheek.
He would be in bliss.
Close his eyes.
and push him onto a couch or bed.
And succeed into climbing onto his leg or lap.
grab his chin softly and give him a soft kiss.
and stop and look at him, then kiss him again softly this time do it twice, the next time go in for the make out...
rubbing his back, and the middle or his legs.
lay him down further and get on back..
Be the one to take control.
He should want more and more..
hope i helepd
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i hate my life so much. just everything about it im always mad or sad never ever happy except with my friends which is only like every other 3 days. everyone of my friends have had a time they need all of us and now its me but nothing helps and im only happy with them. my parents dont let me express anything at all. so when i get mad its hell then im grounded. in my life everything bad happenes to me and my friends try to keep me out of it. they can tell out of everyone i am deppressed and what all happenes to me. so when i am with them we go scream till our lungs give out then im fine for a day then im mad enough to kill myself and they say ill end up suicidel. i have to wear pink and brights when im not with my friends. my mom thinks im deppressed and going gothic. no duh i have been for almost a year. and its not getting better they make it 10X worse. im crying my eyes out now. i canot get a therepist what else can i do.
Well suicide is not the answer to a personal problem. Why risk going to hell if your a religious person you should know that in the bible it states thou shall not kill.
meaning yourself or others or your not going to heaven.
I suggest you take your stress out on boxing that helps alot of people take away stress in their life.
Or you can become more active in a sport.
I suggest you have a personal talk to your parents no matter what they say dont back down say Im really having a hard life and Im always in pain and that I want to become more and more better then becoming gothic tell them they need to be more understandable about your feelings and need to have more respect for you when your trying to get a word in...
If that doesnt work talk to a school counselor and they will schedule appointments with you every 2 weeks to see hows life going
I hope I helped :]
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.
even though you are going through a phase you just want to die you need to fight it!! You need to get your life back together! first by getting your life together you can see a doctor to fix all your promblems then get back in the game and later you will never feel like killing yourself again
please don't try it remember you can go to hell for doing this it an't worth killing yourself!!
please don't kill yourself!
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how soon can you get pregnacy symptoms ?
soon you have sex you might get some symptons if you are pregnate. that how soon you can get them hope i help
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what is an orgasm and how do you know if you had one?
i am a female.
An orgasm is when you get wet{cum} from a pleasure
It doesn't even have to involve sex you can cum from someone touching you in a sexual way
depending on your own body
Like fingering yourself, using objects, someone eating you out, sexual contact, and etc
hope i help
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my boyfriend & i have done it about 10 times now..but i wanna know if there is any like fun things to do before or during sex. and differnt ways of doing it.. for both of us to like.. please help!!
Oral sex..
Trying new positions
In the shower
In a car
On top of a moving washing machine-great!!
On a water bed
Doggy styles
Upside down
sideways
You on top
standing up
talk dirty
Cum in your mouth
beat him off
he finger you
hope i helped
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i have had sex with one guy.
and i think its incrediable!
is it bad that i like it so much?
Naw its not bad at all that you enjoyed the sex that givin was givin to you thats normal...
Just dont go to any dude and say wanna fuck me...
But its not bad nor nonnormal...
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when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time. will i bleed? and if i do. will he be disguisted?
:(
Well im 99% positive that you will not bleed you will only get wet make sure that if he does do it the first time that you are confortable and that he does it slowly because its the frst time you experienced this happening to you..
And if he pops your cherry or break you hymen I think you may bleed everyones diffrent but you may just have a a very milky discharge Oh and make sure you wash up before him doing this so he wont have wat they call a stinky finger
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I didnt exactly have sex withmy boyfrind but we were about to and he only put the head in for about 10 secs then the comdom ripped but he pulled out right away and we didnt do it again afterwards i havnt gotten my period at all this month i was supposed to get it around the 21st this happened the 22nd and no sign of it. I tok a pregnancy test and it said im not pregnant but what if its nto accurate. i have another one and ill wait 7 days to take the test again and if my period doesnt come i want to ask my doctor but i dont want to tell my mom becasue she would jump to conclusions and i know i would never be able to see my bf again
A delay doesnt always mean your pregnant may be its just stress over the possiblitity of being pregnant
hope i helped
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You may find this weird, but I really want to wait till I am married to have sex. Temptation is all around, and its really hard to resist, but i always have. What are some "things" you can do with your boyfriend without actually undergoing sexual intercourse?
you can kiss him or make out but not trying have sex make out just the romatic kiss make out thats the best thing to do and to tell its 1 percent less better then sex but
its sure DAMN GOOD!!
hope i help
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I'm a 23 year old girl
This is important ,...I love my bf with all my heart but it seems like I completley lost interest in sex .
To be honest I never was interested to have sex with any one ,....I do love him but I just don't want people to get close to me ..I DON'T LIKE THAT.When he is on top of me I get sick and very uncomfortable and sometimes want even to cry ....But I never told him nothing
I hate the fact that I can't satisfy him ,since I always has an excuse or come home very late just to escape from the occassion....
I want to stop feeling this way ,.....The problem is me not him
Tell me what to do ....,
Tell him the truth if he was your love of your life he will understand.If he don't understand why that mean he is proubably useing for sex but hopefully hes not so tell him the truth. thats the best thing to do trust me on this one.
hope i help :}
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14/F
okay, so everything in my life has been going wrong recently. I used to love volleyball, but now i hate it and i can't get off of my team becuase it cost so much, and that would be a waste of money. i used to love playing my clarinet and trumpet in band, but that's not any fun anymore. My friends don't seem to want to have anything to do with me. My grades are slipping. (2 A's, 2 B's, 1 C, and 2 D's) and im usually a straight A student. I don't have a boyfriend (i never have) and i don't think im pretty. My food allergies have gotten to the point where its super difficult to eat anything. i keep getting sick, which is causing me to miss school. my homework has been getting harder, and ive been getting more of it. my home life is miserable becuase i keep getting yelled at for not cleaning up
Its good that your not suicidal because then you would have taken you stress on your self and harmed yoursel. But the only way to not get depressed is to not try to let the small things make you mad just take a yell as a life experience and worry about grades and boys later..
and gain self-confidence because your lacking it big time just look in the mirror and say im beautiful leave it all in Gods hands
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i have sex problem. i can not take long time with my wife. what can i do now
they have pills 2 help u last longer
I suggest u take viagra to help you keep your speed and last longer I guess you have taken old age and their are other products out like a penis increaser found in the drug store on online..
hope i helped
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Ok, so im 18 and my boyfriend is also, we've been together for almost a year (11 months). We were both virgins when we 1st had sex with each other in march 2006 and have had it casually like every other month since then. It seems as though i have a discharge all the time like im going to have my period, its white, and a little pasty and sometimes mucusy but i dont kno if that just my body getting used to having sex...will it go away? becasue its been like this for like 4 months, and like twice it has been very itchy on the inside of my labias and when that happens the discharge is more brown pasty. I havent had a fever or feel sick at all and my boyfriend says he hasnt had anything wrong like itchy or discharge or anything that on his area.....????
No, I believe that happends when your getting used to having sex, Unless your bf has a disease and didnt tell you and gave you the disease if not its natural I belive it a discharge but to make sure I suggest you look it up on the internet Im really not that sure it seems pretty normal to me because some people bleed during sex(popping the cherry) to make sure please go to the doctor and ask him/her if you are negative of any diseases
hope i help
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15/f
is it wierd that i like porn? like i know a lot of guys that look at porn, but watching other people turns me on. is that natural?
Yes its natural!!
lol your going through teenage years and your hormones are going to be running wild and your going to be horny alot and porn also turns lots of people on its just natural for anybody to watch porn!!!
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Alot of guys Ive noticed tend to cross their arms and put it over their waist ,kinda by the zipper of their pants.
Im starting to think they are trying to cover up a boner, but im not sure.
How can you tell?
You cant really tell unless its so hard that it is being seen through his pants most dudes do it for several things some to stop from getting hard, some to get hard, and some because they like to play with themselves
cant really tell unless your right next to them
hope I helped
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wow.. so i've tried to have
sex with my boyfriend 2 times already
and both times he failed to get
hard. so we never finished the deed!
i feel like its my fault.. i dont
know what to do.
what can i do to get him more
excited?
This may sound wierd but jerk him off then ride him hard
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