Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)
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Age: 18
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if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman. (link)
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I think your paranoid. He might of gotten those tips from his friends or from watchin "movies". It depends how long though if it was anything more than 2-3 months then I would say you will have to ask him if he is. If you have been with him for a while and if he a trusty person than he will tell you the truth. Hope this helped!
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15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!! (link)
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I say, don't tell you recent boyfriend. Wait untill you know for a fact if you are or if your not, if you think if you told him that he wopuld get scared off. Seeing your only 15 your period might not be on its regular cycle. Or maybe you have become more active. If your stressing over this too then that could cause your period to come late. I agree with your guidance counselor though if you don't have it by thursday which is today then you should try a pregnancy test yourself. Those will work if its this late. If that coems out positive tell your mother. If it doesn't come out positive give it a few more days then tell your mother. Hope I helped! I just don't want you to get introuble for having sex at 15.
*Laci
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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I had sex when I was 15 but that doesn;t mean everyone should. You should do it when you feel liek you are ready to and you are comfortable with your partner
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My bf and i have been together for about 7 months
and weve talked about sex he told me that his penis is small i told him that it did'nt matter
but he is quite insecure about it im not sure what to do i don't want to amke him feel bad
what should i do? (link)
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Well, first off, haven't you seen it already? If you haven't given him a handjob or head yet don't have sex with him. It all adds up to it. It doesn't really matter too much if he has a small penis or not if you love him. If you love him its just something your going to have to accept. If you haven't seen it yet it might not actually be too little he might just think it is. Talk to him about it though telling him it doesn't matter the size. Hope I helpled!
If you need anything else just drop me one!
*Laci
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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Ok, first of all you shoudln't be having sex with your boyfriend if you think eh is going to leave you. He's not worth your time. And your parents will find out eventually. It's better to tell them without them having any suspection that you might be pregnant, you know what I mean? They will be proud that they have ano open relationship with you that you are able to discuss things like this. You should tell you parents and boyfriend first. Don't go around telling your friends because rumors will go around. Specially if your parents make you get an abortion you wouldnt wnat everyone coming up to u in the halls and everything asking you, or whispering. That's only for you personally. I'm not sayin your not pregnant but some pregnancy tests will show up postive if you have a yeast infection, bladder infection, or kidney infection. You basically have to tell your parents.
Hope I helped & keep me updated!!
*Laci
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hey girl guess what im not preg..thanks for makin me feel better ur the best:) (link)
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That's awesome that your not pregnant! Have fun, be safe!
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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him. (link)
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You can do MUCH better! He's not worth your time if he is going to treat you like that and do that to you. Sex is just sex, you could find someone else that treats you better and could be better at sex. I think you def. need to forget about this boy because he seems to be nothing but drama and hurtfulness!
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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You have to tell your parents and your sister. If he's doing it to you, chances are he has or is going to do it to someone else. Regardless, if he is married to your sister or not. You got touched when you were not aware of that, thats wrong and against the law. You will feel better after you tell them!
*Laci
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Laci, I just wanted to say thank you for the advice. I really am going to take it and confront her. Thank you again (link)
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No problem! I'm alway glad to help people out!! :-D Hope my adivce will work for you! Goodluck
*Laci
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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..? (link)
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Condoms protect around 98% for not becoming pregnant. For extra protection you can use birth control pills.
Hope this helped!
*Laci
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
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hasnt he done anything with u before? If not then u probably shoudl do that first before you jump into sex. Ans make sure that its what you want 100% percent!
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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
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Until you feel like your ready! Don't do it unless you feel like you are 100% ready!
Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any mroe questions you might have!
*Laci
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my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
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No way your only 16...they will grow
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My bf and are are 17 and when we went to have sex his penis went soft after a few minutes i gave him a hand job and it took a few minutes for his penis to get hard again is this normal? He's a bit insecure about it What can we do about it? (link)
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He might just been really nervous. When some guys get nervous that happens. Or when guys are on something that will happen sumtimes! Hope this helped! Lemme kno if you have any more questions!
*Laci
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
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7 does seem like a lot but who am I to judge? Theres really no ballpark for people to be considered a slut. You could be a virgin and people could still be callin you a slut. Its just people that want to put down others to make themselves feel better. Its not wrong to enjoy sex! I think everyone here that has had sex enjoys it!!
Hope this helped! Always here for you to ask any questions!
*Laci
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i like 2 cum in girls ears is that normal (link)
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That's weird! Not really normal I've never heard any1 else that likes to do that! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any of your questions!
*Laci
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umm im a lil scared becuz wen i jerk off i think of guys does that mean im gay (link)
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No No No, it doesn't mean your gay. Many people have fantasies that turn them on. Some people just don't act on them. Hope this helped!
*Laci
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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Don't have sex unless you are 100% ready for it. If you don;t think you are ready then tell him that. A lot of people are scared of getting pregnant, so your not the only one! The only way you can be 100% sure is if your on the pill and he wears a condom but then I'm still not positive if its 100% or like 98%.
And for your second question...the condom can break at any given point for numerous reasons. The condom might be old, might of been in the sun, but condoms break and wear down due to the friction and heat of going in and out.
Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any other questions you have!
*Laci
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ok i am 16/m and i am really horny i have never done anything with a girl besides making out and feeling up how do i get a girl to do something with me i mean i have a huge respect for girls and i dont like to pressure them into things this is why i never asked a girl to do something like that i dont have a gf right now and i know some people might say to drink with them but i dont want to take advantage and is 16 to young to have sex? (link)
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Age isn't a matter to have sex. You need to feel like your ready for it. If you don't think you are 100% ready for it dont do it because chances are you will regret it. DEF. DO NOT drink with a girl if you have the intentions of fooling around with her. Many of my friend sthat are guys ahve fooled around with girls at parties when the girls have wanted to but then the next day they regret doing it and they sat they were drunk and the guy took advantage of them. When the time is right it will just happen. Don't rush it
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