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My name is Kimmy. I live in Parma, Ohio. I have black hair, brown eyes, glasses, I weigh 100, and I'm 5'3. I have my bellybutton pierced, my ears pierced 4 times each, my nose pierced, and my eyebrow pierced. I also have a tattoo on my lower back, and on my shoulder, but I'd like to get another one someday. I love helping people out, so if anyone ever has a question to ask, please feel free to leave a question in my inbox, or you can just IM me or email me if you'd like. I love meeting new people, so if anyone wants to, go ahead and IM me!!!! I'd love to talk. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I'm here to help people out!
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Where can you buy vibrators and all the other masturbation toys? Can you get them online? Oh, and I really want some toys, but what if my mom found out I was ordering things like that. Boy, i would be dead. So, any advice?
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Hello. You can go to Sunseterotica.com They have a big variety of things like that, but it's very pricey. As for your mom finding out what you're ordering, they ship it in a box that just says fed ex. So it's extremely private. You can just make up something, and tell your mom you ordered something else if she asked you what it was. Hope I helped :)
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Okay so me and my sister both want our belly bottons done. My mom says we need to be 18. Liek alot of my friends are getting theirs done. How could I convece my mom to let me get it done. I mean I have to be 14 to get my ears doubled! I mean her rules r so stricked! So help me and how to convince her!
xo lauren ox (link)
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Hey hun!
I have my bellybutton done, my nose done, my ears 4 times each so far, and I have a tattoo on my lower back. I got my bellybutton done when i was 12 or 13! My mom is really great, so she really doesn't care about any of that stuff, but I think you should just do a lot of nice things for your mom. Show her that you and your sis really want to get your bellybuttons pierced. Maybe you could clean her house up a little bit, do some laundry, or wash dishes or something. Make a deal with her and ask her if you and your sis will be able to get your bellybuttons done if you guys do things around the house for her. You could also just try doing really good in school. When you get a really good grade on a test or homework assignment, show her! Maybe she'd give in. After showing her the assignment ask her if you can get it done. She'd be in a good mood, so it'd be a good time to ask her. I'm sure you have friends that have it done also, so you could bring one of them over your house one day and have them try to help you convince her to let you guys get yours done. Alright, I hope I helped you out hun! I'm so sorry this is so long. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. A lot of people have already answered this question, so I hope I didn't answer it too late already.
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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high (link)
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Hi hunny,
If he's pressuring you into doing it, I don't think you should be with him. You do that when your 100percent ready to. I really don't think he respects you either if he's pressuring you into doing something you're not wanting to do. You are too young also. I hope I helped! x3
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Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!
I rate 5's on every one
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Hey hunny,
Wow, sweetie this must be so hard for you. Having a baby is a very serious matter. You know that he could get charged with rape. I'm totally against abortions, but if you know that you cannot take care of the baby, then you should really either have an abortion or give it up for adoption. You really need to tell this guy. Talk to him and see what he says. After that, you need to figure out what you want to do. If you want to have the baby, you need to tell your parents. Don't be scared. They love you no matter what, and will always be there for you. Now, if you don't want to have this baby and don't want your mom and dad to ever find out, you should look up planned parenthood in the phonebook. It's a clinic that will do all of that stuff hopefully for free since you are young. They handle all of the stuff and they don't tell your parents. Then, they would also give you birth control if you wanted to be put on it. It would be of course free, without your mom and dad knowing. I'm sorry hunny but that's the only info I could give to you. I really hope everything works out for you and the baby. x3
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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance. (link)
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Hey hunny,
Awww, you are the first guy I know of to actually care about that. Your girlfriend is really lucky. No, don't stay out of the way. For me, I'd drink tea, and some stuff my ex did for me, was let me lie down, while he got my medicine and made my tea. He understood and listened as well. He tried making me feel as comfortable as possible. Just having a guy around who cares and is willing to help with whatever she may need help with is a lot to a girl. I think with what your doing right now is just fine. I'm sure your girlfriend likes that a lot. There really isn't that much you can do besides listen, maybe get the medicine for her, and just let her relax, and don't take any of the mean stuff seriously, if she gets like that. Right now you're doing great with helping her out. x3
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i'm 14/f i got my period when i was 10. i kno thats young. these past few days i've been getting LOTS of white stuff come out of my *area* and i haven't had my period for i think 1 and a half months? my boobs are getting smaller too i think. i'm not sure. i'm a virgin. i don't know whats happening anybody know? (link)
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Hey sweetie,
It is ok to skip a period. This could be caused by stress. Now the white stuff, that is nothing to worry about. Discharge is normal and everyone gets it, no matter how much it is. I hope I answered some of your question! x3
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how old should you be before having sex. (link)
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Hello hunny,
There isnt a certain age to think or have sex. I feel that it is something that someone just knows. It don't matter at what age you start thinking about it, but my opinion is that you shouldn't have sex unless you are serious about the person, and have the right mind. If you're young looking to have sex with your boyfriend just because you guys have been going out for a few months and you think it'll make him love you,no its not a good idea. You could get really mentally and emotionally hurt so you have to be careful. I hope I have answered your question for you x3
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Hi,
My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.
I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.
I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.
I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.
I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)
I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.
I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(
If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.
One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.
Thank you very much! :-) (link)
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Hi hunny,
You are such a sweetheart! Ok sweetie, first of all I think you are doing a great thing to help her out, but if she's cutting herself you really need to talk to someone else, like a school councelor or her parents. She does not have to know if you were the one who told someone. She really needs help and more than what you are giving her. If she means enough to you, you should really do it before she does something worse like suicide, and then you'd be left with guilt knowing that you never got her help. Please take my help! Good Luck and you really are a great friend to her. x3
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is there anyway i can like my my vagina better for when i get fingerd....like not to make the guy grossed out lol (link)
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Hi sweetheart,
I'm sorry to say that there is no way to like or make your vagina better. No guy will be grossed out over your vagina. There is nothing wrong with it and I'm sure that it's the same as every other girls. I don't like mine either. There is nothing down there to make any guy grossed out. Everyone has the same thing hunny.
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My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral? (link)
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Hi sweetie,
No, I really don't think it was weird at all. He might have been really depressed, and needed something to take his mind off everything. It could've also maybe been where him and his brother used to go and that's where all the good memories are. I hope I answered your question. x3
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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Hey hun,
There are alot of precautions you need to take if you're planning on having sex for the first time. First of all you need to make sure that you are old enough and ready to do this. It is a very serious thing and you need to be careful. You could end up getting really hurt in the end if something goes wrong like a breakup. Now you also need to make sure you use protection. You should get put on birth control now. Also use a condom, because birth control isn't a hundred percent effective and neither are condoms. So try using both if u can. I'm sure you're not ready for a baby yet or any std's.
Ok, now it depends on who you are for whether or not it will hurt and how bad. Sex for the first for most people will hurt, but don't worry because the hurting won't last very long and it's not that very bad of a hurting either.
Depending on whether or not you use tampons depends on whether or not you'll bleed. Sometimes the balloon type thing will pop if a tampon hits it. Don't worry because it's not filled with that much blood. Please be careful on whatever choice you decide to make!
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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
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Alot of people aren't ready when their 13, so I would say wait. You need to feel that you are ready, and not just be doing it to try and make the person your going out with stay with you. Alot of times, relationships might seem like they'll work out, but they really don't. Any person should wait until they've found the right person. Noone should just have sex with someone, because they want to make the other person happy, or their afraid of losing them. If your really ready, and you know all the consequences of having sex, then I'd say go for it. Bye hun! Hope I helped ya out! I'm sorry if I didn't.
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
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Hey sweety! I think that sometime when you guys are together again you should tell him that you want to talk about it. Just come out and tell him why you've been avoiding the question. Tell him that you were raped when you were 13, and you felt bad about it and didn't want it to ruin your relationship with him. If he's a great boyfriend, and he loves you, he'll be able to understand. He shouldn't just break up with you because you were raped. It's not your fault you were raped. Just tell him that your not a virgin anymore because of that, and you hope that it won't interfere with your relationship. If he breaks up with you, then you can find someone alot better! He should still love you no matter what though, because like I said, It's not your fault!!!! Don't think that it's your fault. Just bring it up to him sometime or tell him the truth when he asks you again. Lying isn't good at all in a relationship, but honesty is very important! Think about if it was the other way around... If he was raped, wouldn't you want him to tell you the truth, and not lie about it or avoid the question. Alright hun, well I hope I helped ya out! If not, then I'm so sorry but I try my best! Bye! Good luck! If you have anymore questions, you can email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them.
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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good! (link)
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Actually, guys start getting perverted at all of those ages. I've talked to some guys that are 12 and very perverted before. Even an 11 year old! Some guys will be very perverted, but some guys wont. It just depends on the guy. Well, I'm sorry this answer was so short! I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun!
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hi. okay this is really emberressing. i kept clicking on random columnist until i found a girl because it's easier for me to ask a girl then a guy. well i'm ready "metally" to have sex btu i wanna make sure i am "physically" too. well here i go.. do guys like it better shaved down there? i no i should ask a guy but idk? what would YOU say? don't tell me to ask my boyfriend or anything because he's older then me and he might think i'm stupid or smothing. if u were in my situation would you or not? thanks so much i rate!
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Yes, guys usually like it shaved down there. Most of the guys I talk to like it when it's shaved. If you think that your boyfriend would like it shaved down there, then you should shave. I'm sure if it's not he'll understand. I don't think he would mind.If you asked your boyfriend I don't think he would think your stupid at all. If he thought you were stupid, then he wouldn't be a good boyfriend at all. Well, I hope I helped ya out! If you have anymore questions that I could help you with then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com. Bye hun! I'll try to help you with any questions that I can.
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What would you tell a friend that you were talking to online that was going to die in 20 minutes because he/she just stabbed themselves in the stomach? (link)
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I would tell my friend that I love them very much and that I'm going to miss them so much. I would hate that if I was talking to one of my friend's and they said they were going to die in 20 minutes. I would kill myself right after they died. I would want to go over their house and see them right before they died, just so I could be with them. My friends are very special to me. I would hate my life if my friends weren't in it.
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