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HEY!! U can call me Nikki Im from that little water state. Im fifteen and a sophmore. I can connect with most teens and their problems but also i think older people need to be open to advice from younger minds as well..so give us a chance. =] I like helping people and giving advice is the one the best ways to help. Ask me anything, i may not always have an answer but ill try. I put in thought and time on the question being asked, something id like people to also do for me. So tell me little pieces of your life and ill see if i can try and put them back together. ;]
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my gf asked me if i masterbated and i admitted that i do. When i asked her if she did she said "no". I dont believe her. I guess what i want to know is if most girls my age do it or not.
Well I cant say that "most" do, because I just wouldnt know, but a lot do. and theres also a lot that dont, so she could be telling the truth and of course she could so be lying. If shes lying its just because shes not comfortable telling you, girls are more private with that stuff than guys.
theres this guy i really like and i want to know what are some ways to seduce him haha like how can i be more sexy and make him really want me?
Well the most obvious thing, you could just sit on top of him and make out. take some clothes off, touching, and things just work out from there. Or if your not at that level with him yet then just touch him nicely, like on the shoulder and flirt alot.
So when i get erections if im around a girl i find semi attractive i always find myself trying to make it noticable to them. So my question is do girls find it arousing if they can see you have an erection?
haha definitely do NOT make it noticable. In my opinion its very like awkward and sometimes creepy. It makes me think damn why cant he control himself. Its just pervish especially if you just met or your just friends or something.
it's been about a month since my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. i did have my period but it was about a week earlier than normal and it only lasted about two and a half days, and it usually lasts 4-5 days. My period is usually very regular as well. i've been getting nauseous more easily if i eat or smell certain things, and i get carsick a lot easier. I've looked on the internet and i'm just not certain, could it be time for a pregnancy test?
17/f
please only answer if you have advice, i don't need opinions on protected sex.
Thank you
if you have to come on here and ask if you should take one then you should have already taken one.. you dont want to waste time developing a baby if you are preggo..
Ok I just turned 19 this past October and my best friend turned 15 this past November. Anyway over Valentine's day weekend we ended up do everything and I mean everything even a couple times we didnt use a condom. Anyway im madly in love with her and she loves me so is this wrong or not.
lol thats illegal hun. you should end that and yeah just end that quick, if she ever decided to tell her parents they could press charges against you which would equal jail time.
yes i have been posting a lot about this situation, im sorry to keep doing this but i just dont know who to tell anymore..
this guy that i met a while ago yeah we talk online and ive seen him twice and ill probobly see him at my friend's in a few weekends but anyways, first he pressured me into sending him pictures which i didnt do. now he is pressuring me badly and keeps asking me to give him a bj. ive said, no sorry i dont think thats gonna happen , tons of times. but then he makes me feel so bad. and no i dont want to, and i wont. but its almost like i feel like this is sexual harrasment. the way he talks to me now..its like he doesnt even care about my feelings or what I want. its only what HE wants. he keeps on saying things like, yeah so just suck it. or, oh yeah your a good girl who doesnt give bjs, i forgot.
this is pissing me off and he is making me feel stupid and bad about myself, really bad. like im only good for one thing for him. i am being so pressured by him. and last night after I IMed him. [usually he IMs me but he hadnt talked to me since saturday night and i didnt know why] anyways after i kept saying sorry but i dont think so [in other words, no] yeah he was on for two hours today same time as me, never IMed me. why not. i know im paranoid but..ugh. i dont even know why i want him to talk to me. i wish i didnt care so much and could just get over him. he doesnt even treat me nice, at all. he orders me to do things for him. and then whenever i try to stick up for myself in a nice way, he just says k. or basically doesnt give a shit. or he just makes me feel dumb. like the whole picture thing? saturday night he was begging for pictures. and..i didnt know what to do..i said, would you be mad if i didnt send any..and he goes, um yeah kinda.
he is mean. doesnt even treat me fairly. i cant do this anymore. and then i have to deal with him going on and off with talking to me. i wonder why he does that..i know that he likes this other girl who lives in new york who is obsessed with him [seems like it] an writes on his wall I LOVE YOU. dont know what thats supposed to mean....
someone please help me
First Id like to say your smart for not sending him pictures. If you sent him pictures then he will only try to go further with you and if you dont want any of that than what you did was right. Also did you know that it is illegal for teens to send other teens pictures that expose themselves and you can be arrested. Him pressuring you and not taking no for an answer the first time, shows that he truly does not care for you and only wants to use you. I know sometimes your heart can tell you one thing but you really need to listen to your head and not talk to this guy. Dont im him, let him im you, and if you want to talk then okay, but I wouldnt want someone like him in my life.
i been on the pill for a couple months now.. i miss my pill on saturday its now sunday i took saturdays pill and sundays pill today (sunday) tomorrow im going to have sex (unprotected) what are the chances of me getting pregnant
If your not trying to get pregnant, then try NOT having unprotected sex. If your trying to get pregnant than try again cuz if you keep taking the pill all this week and today then u wont get pregnant.
i had sex the other day and im supposed to get my period.. but it was unprotected, so im scared. he said he didnt cum in me so if i were to get my period in a few days, would that mean im not pregnant? or would i have to wait for next month?
if you get your period your not pregnant and no need to wait.
I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!
Nope. What happens if you get pregnant? You shouldnt take that risk until you know you can. If your ready and willing to then I guess no one can stop you, but you dont want to do this and then have everyone know and think bad things about you. So think it through, and make sure this guy likes you, but overall I say no, your too young.
all the boys here is a 34A in boob size big for you in a 14 year old girl thanks a lot.
xxx
34 double A .. no way is that big. Thats small. I would say normal size is 36B. So your kinda far from that. Give it time.
I made a site dedicated in remembrance to my girl Shaina who commited suicide last march... How can i get people to add the profile and express how much she means and how much she will be remembered. I know if she were still a live she would love it.
this is the site..
www.myspace.com/shaina_xx
hey sorry about your friend.
she was young and thats such a horrible way to go out. God Bless