ask Lena



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Feel free to ask me ANYTHING****
and if you put in yer feedbak.. please tell me who it is.. and like what question or something cuz i wanna get back to you.. but idk what to do cuz ya'll didn't leave me ne info to get back to on! lol sry if its really wierd.. but hey! i wanna get the info to ya A.S.A.P

what i have to say:
Sometimes you'll have bad and good days but someitmes there will be a mixture, but as you grow up you'll have some unforgetable memories that will always be with you... The friendships you make come and go, but as you look at all the flash backs there's always something about eachone you can't forget... You'll move on in life, parents will seperate and you'll feel pain the you didnt know even existed... You'll leave old friends and make new, leave ur house you lived in yer childhood and become something you didnt imagine, but now that you can see what its like, just remember nothing last's FOREVER-- thank you for listening to me!


Website: my picturetrail!!! sign my guestbook!
Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Occupation: Ha.. you wish ;)
Age: 16
ICQ: Nopppeee
AIM: xfruititootix
Yahoo: Ask me!!
MSN: Ask mee!!
Member Since: August 5, 2004
Answers: 366
Last Update: April 3, 2007
Visitors: 29753

Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Friendship
Love Life
View All

Favorite Columnists
Solaris
HollyAnn2282
xxoBriannax
pinklemonadestand
liddylflirtx3
HAYBABY104
hotcherry
Babyzee
moltueffers00
awwshucks25
tommiegurlie23
more...
I what to have sex (link)
then do it?


ok..im 17 and i have a gf who i have been dating for about 1 year and a half...i think she wants to have sex but im not positive..what is the best way to ask...online?..phone? or will it just happen

i rate high (link)
uhm well i guess just ask her but ask if she would want to take a step further in the relatonship if she's comfortable.. only if shes comfortable though :]


douchebag (link)
something girls use to clean themselves


what is camal toe..and what does milkshake song mean in the son milkshake..? ill rate really high =) (link)
um, prettymuch a wedgie in ur vagina? nd..think about it ;)


Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex? (link)
yes go for the nerds :)


Ok, i have really big boobs, i mean they r pretty big. well i have dated like 3-4 guys in the past mounth, and had sex wit them all. it turns out they only dated me cuz i liked havin sex and my boobs. i feel so used. i really need help. what should i do? o yea im 15. (link)
well i think you should put your foot down and tell them to date you.. for you and not for sex or your boobs


okay..well *blush* every time i go to change my underwear..theres this white stuff and its SO sticky...what is it..what can i do to stop it.. (link)
you are about to get your period.. its discharge


If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..?? (link)
cuz there perverts :P


Hey, I'm 21 years old and female. I have a problem. My boyfriend of 4 years (5 October 3rd!) and I havent had sex yet. He is really not that kindof guy to ask for sex or anything. He's really patient and all we have do is makeout. We were best friends for 2 years before going out and he really respects me. I am ready to lose my virginity to him, because after 5 years of going out shouldent it be time to have some fun? lol I have been on birth control for 2 months just incase when I do ask him if he wants to have sex, he will say yes. I want to tell him I want to lose it on our anniversary but I'm really scared because how am I gonna start the conversation of sex? And since he really respects me and cares for me I think he wouldent want to. But I'm not 16 anymore, I'm a woman and I want to do this. I love him a lot and I just dont know how to ask if he wants to do this! We are talking about marriage so should we just wait till were married? Help! (link)
if you are that kind of girl that wants to wait.. then wait! :) but just if u wanna have it on yer aneversery then just start taking each others clothes off or something.. just make sure YOU have a condom incase he doesnt!


Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong? (link)
your just uncomfertable around the subject.. i dont think you are ready.. just tell him your not ready for sex yet... or you guys should sit down and have a talk about it


me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
i dont think your pregnet.. but if u have the pill or something iw ould take it..


I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is? (link)
just leave it as it is


Im 15 and my penis is not real big and im a bit worried ive been seeing my girlfriend froa few months and im not sure what she'll think
does it matter to girls? (link)
well i dont think it really matters.. like i could care less..but it matter to other girls.. =) i doubt it if she loves you!


Umm i juss wanted 2 kno .. wut is a lap dance? (link)
umm dancing on a guys lap


For cheeries ... how long do they bleed for?? (link)
varys.. but not a long time


This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
when ever you are ready.. but i wouldnt til 16, thats when i did


the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
its not worth it if hes gunna have sex with you first, dont do it, he wouldnt go out with you after probably, believe me, its ALMOST happened to me.. you'll find someone *BETTER*


okay um im 14 adn when i use the bathroom theres always this whiteish goo stuff on my panties and people tell me that its cuz im about to get my period but i got it like year and half ago (link)
well...hmm... only thing i could say is its discharge...or cum? x3


Im sorrie to bug you, kuz i dont know you or anytihng but i was reading your columns an you have helped alot of people out, so i was wondering if you could tell me if i did the right thing here....I lyked this guy for a relle long tyme, an we were koo friends buh not anything more...we saw eachother lyke every weekend an stuff..an then he started lyken mai twin sister, so i stopped lyking him. well the middle of this skewl year he transfers to my skewl, an we became closer friends, an i started lyking him alot. me and him were always together an everyone would ask about 'us' and if we were a couple or anything, an he would be lyke yah this is mai lady an stuff...then he started going out with this girl from another skewl, an i was relle bummed...so i juss gave him his space, buh lyke we became closer an stuff kuz he'd always kome kikk it wit me lyke after skewl an stuff. he always talked about me 'sharing' him wit his gf an i was always lyke no ur either mine or ur hers u kno? well he finally understood that, an after not talkn to her for a week thought she would get the point that he didn't want to be wit her, an told me that they broke up. me and him started talking, and i kind of new that she thought they were still together but it didn't really bug me. me and him were together 24/7 an to everyone we were a couple...well one day one of mai friends tried to commit suicide and i was relle messed up. i was talkn to him through text messages, an he told me that he finally officially broke it off wit that girl. it made things better, kuz he juss kept telling me how much he wanted to be wit me an that when we saw eachother that night that we were gon get together. well that night i was kinda all quiet an juss sitting with one of my friends kuz i was still sad about my friend that tried to commit suicide. he came over an asked to talk to me and with an attitude asked what he did and i told him it wasn't him. then he was lyke ok w.e. got up an left...well that was the last tyme we really talked...things were soo hard for me to watch him walk through the halls an not notice me anymore, buh i started to act lyke i didn't care. he started being really mean to me, an then one day it was lyke he was the nice guy i knew before...then he hooked up wit this girl, an i was really depressed about everything in lyfe so it juss brought me to tears. he came over to me an gave me a hug an ask'd if i wanted to talk about it not knowing its bekuz he had broken my heart. an i wouldn't talk to him. he kept trying to make me feel better throughout the day, buh nothing worked. he later broke up wit that girl and wanted to be all over me agen an i wouldn't let him...then skewl was over an i guess it kinda juss put me in a hole...the beginning of summer i was depressed all of the tyme. i knew i had to get over him, buh i always thought things would be soo much easier if i just had the ballz to talk to him. i tried to find the streangth to do so but never could. im sorrie this is soo long, buh i juss relle want to know what i should do...juss get over him completely, or try to talk to him!? sorrie for bugging you, an thanks for your tyme...
(link)
try to talk to him... but be his friend, you shouldnt go into a relationship if he really broke your heart.. at least not immediatly... dont let him be all over you, just be friends.. or how you were before ya'll went out and stuff.. I hope everything is okay with ya'll! x3


what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi? (link)
Tell them to back off and that you arnt ready and when you are you will let them know, just keep to your answer to "no" if you arnt ready, they will soon understand, and if they keep doing it and they threaten you or something tell them your guna call the cops...x3




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker