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Life all starts when you become a person of your own. When you become a member of a family, that has worked hard for your creation. My first breath was at 8:33AM, on September 14TH, 1991. New York gave birth to me, i was brought up there for awhile, then moved to Portland, Oregon. When I was at the age of four my family and I moved to Vancouver. Thats where I spent my whole childhood in. I've been living in the same house for 10 years. So i'm fourteen. Attending Mountain View HS. My life is currently perfect for me now. I'm not saying that i'm perfect, i'm just saying that life is GREAT, and i couldn't have anything better than this. I have the best friends, there my HERO'S they are always here for me, through the worst and the best. When i'm sadd, they lend me there shoulder. My family of both sides are the greatest. Were all so close it's pethedic. Half of the family is from NEW YORK and the other half is from GEORGIA. Yeh, i'm not full black. I have so much in my backround it's insane, i'm; AFRICAN AMERICAN, ENGLISH, INDIAN, GERMAN, DUTCH, SAUDI ARABIAN& CUBAN.When you first meet me, I'm kinda shy, and if seeing you for the first time theres a 50% chance i will come up to you and start talking. When you get to know me, the real me comes out. I'm different, and I love expressing my inner personality. I'm a loyal friend friend and i'm always there for the people i love and care about. When people tell me stuff that they don't want to get out, i keep it to my self. I don't got a big mouth, and i don't say shit. You can always trust me wit secrets. I am nosey; and i like to know these kinda things. I hate those kinda GIRLS that just talk shit for no apparent reason, it pisses me off. If your that kinda person, then i don't wanna hear any crap coming out of your mouth about me. I have an ADVICE LINE, so obviously, i love giving advice to people. Helping people makes me feel good in the inside. If you want the site it's located in my INTRESTS. I'm BOY CRAZY, just to let you all know. When i see a nigga walkin by lookin all fly and shit. Big turn on. Make me laugh, and i'll love you forever. It's easy to make me laugh anyways so i'll love you already.

advice

everytime i watch the movie thirteen my vagina starts like pounding. its really wierd. whats going on?

ohh,
it just means you're horny.
it's all good,
that's what happend to girls when they get that way when there turned on

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ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :(

alright,
well you are right,
you are only 13 and no "LIL" boy is gunna make you, have sex with him,


say no,
if you really don't wanna do it,
be the upper person.

he doesn't need to answer,
if he is that kinda person all he needs is a two word answer and that's "hell no."

only do it when you're ready girl.

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Do you think if A guy had sex with you [and used you]
must have liked you at one point?
Or thought you were pretty at least??

this didnt happen to me, i was wondering because it happend to my friend.

he could have liked you,
and he could have just used you for sex,

it depends on how he treated you.
think of thiss.

"how did he treat me?"
did he PRESSURE you into it,
or did he give you time.

and of course he thought you were goregous,
no guy is gunna get wit an ugly girl.

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ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

You really need to talk to yo man about it girl.
forreal.

you can't be doin that to y`r man.
he pretty much diserves much better than that.
he diserves the trust in his girlfriend.

you need to talk to him about it,
and if he really love/likes you,
he will forgive you.

but then on the other hand,
it does fuckin sound like you got raped.
did you?

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Hey you guys I'm a 14 year old female.
Now, I know that hormones can cause some teenagers to masturbate, and that it's healthy and releases sexual tension. But I'm not totally convinced, and I'm afraid its wrong. I'm also afraid that I'm backstabbing my mom by not telling her whats going on. She knows I've gotten my hormones, because I told her one night at 3 in the monring because I couldn't sleep. I know I shouldn't be telling my mom about this stuff, but I feel so ashamed. I masturbate about twice a day. What should I do?


Thank you in advance.

Masterbation is a personal thing,
and yes it's good and healthy,

you shouldn't feel ashamed to be materbating, because y`r not keeping anything from y`r mom,
theres somethings that you shouldn't keep from y`r mom and there others that should be kept from her.

it's not a bad thing,
i would feel really uncomfertable telling my mom that kinda stuff,
and thats all you gotta feel like.

it's okay.
forreal.

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I had sex about 3 days ago and yes it was my first time. I was bleeding after it but it kept bleeding so I thought it was my period. It's still bleeding now but I really don't think it's my period because most of the time it's bright red and just isn't like my period. Is it normal to still be bleeding? helpppp

15/f

It could be your period,
but most people do bleed alot for the first time,
because he may have popped y`r cherry,

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what are some symptons of getting herpes on the mouth? cause i gave head like 2 weeks ago and a few days ago i got a cold sore and then yesterday i got another one and it was like a blister but on the mouth and also smaller though..

yooh may have herpes,
because if you keep getting them over and over again,
then that might be a sign.

if they go away don't get yur hopes up,
because if you do have herpes then all there gunna do is come back.

so I would just go see a doctor and ask them for help.

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When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he tends to climax very early. Out of all the times we have had sex, the longest he lasted was 5 minutes! I need him to last a little longer so I can finally orgasm (I've never even had one). What can either of us do to solve this problem?

hmm,
ohh yuh.
have him wear a condom,
because it increases the climax time.

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14/f

ill just flat out say it. i cheated on my boyfriend. but here's the situation:

my boyfriend of 3 months and i are not allowed to see eachother at the moment. lets call him ian. he is 17 and i am 14. my mother doesnt approve, so we cant see eachother. before this mess started happening, we were having sex. dont prejudge us. back then we were both completely in love with eachother. now all we do is argue yet we're still together.

well i am in high school and he graduated last year. i met this one guy who i really liked. lets call him mike. mike and i kinda got caught up in the moment last night and had sex together.

right now i feel so bad about cheating on ian cuz i know he'll never forgive me. and i truely do love him. when we're together, its the best feeling in the world.

but my problem is, what should i do? i dont want to break up with ian and i dont want to tell him but i feel so bad. please dont call me a slut or a whore. please give me actual advice, i need it.

Cheating is not the best thing in the world.
It sucks when shit gets around because then girls and guys call you sluts and hoes.

Boys are only gunna wanna get wit you because they may think that you're easy to jump in the bedd.

If you were really inLOVE wit him you wouldn't have done that. Maybe you think you are, but you're nott.

If you really do love him,
if you believe then prove it.
Be commited.

Idk if you should tell him,
but then if other people hear it,
he wouldn't wanna hear it from someone else other than you.

You know?

But girll,
you need to choose.
forreal. you do.

Is it gunna be this boys that you loved for 3 months or some other guy that you may only have slight strong feelings for?

Which is mr. right NOW?
yu gotta pick,
only one.

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I was hanging out with my boyfriend last night and one thing lead to another and he fingered me.. to make the story short, afterwards my clitoris felt like it was throbbing and now it hurts very bad, even to the touch or my underwear rubbing against it. Why is this? thank you =]

the same thing happend to me,
and it's most likely because your not used it.

was it your first time?
because if it was then that explains it.
your body is just not used to it.

and or//
maybe he was goin rough.
hope i helped.

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Is there anybody on this site who can tell me their story about losing their virginity when they were young(12-15)and not regreting it? It doesn't have to be first hand accounts either, it may be stories you heard from other people too.

I'm 13.
I lost my virginty right after my birthday.
Well uhm,
I snuck over to my friends house.
And uhm.
He just started to feel me up && down.
I liked it.
It's not like i hadn't been through that kind of stuff before.
I wasn't prude or anything.

But uhm,
it was kind of like,
he was inferring that he wanted to have sex.
I guess it just happened,
we got under the covers.
The clothes came off && the condom went on.

It hurt.
REAL BAD.
At first.
But after he popped my cherry.
Everything was okay.
And it felt great.

Anyways.
uhm.
i don't regret having sex.
at all.
but i kind of regret who i did it with.
I guess i can't take it back now.

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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes

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ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?

Well,
haha.

I guess it just depends on how far you want to go at this age.
I'm also 14 and i've had sex.
I loved it.
like crazy.

but if you feel like you're not ready,
then you shouldn't do it.

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16/f

i saw the movie the 40 year old virgin, and at the part where that blonde girl goes in the bathtub and masturbates with the bath hose thing, it made me want to try it to see what it felt like but i don't have one of those in my bathtub. so i tried doing it with an empty bathtub and letting the water run normally out and it was the most arousing feeling i have ever felt. however, i have done this a few times now, and my stomach feels bigger. is it possible that the water entered my body and cannot come out? please help, i'm scared!

Haha,
samee.
i did that too.
it was the greatest feeling.

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this is a wierd question.. i know it depends on each girl but do you bleed ALOT ALOT if your still a virgin and the guy is big? like how much blood?

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what are the signs of being pregnate i need this advice well give me all the signs you can think of and can you be pregnate if you are a virgin.
and can you still have your period.
please help

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Is it normal to get pimples on my pubic area? Is this a sign of pubic lice?

yahh,
it is,
it's just razor burn just shaving.

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If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet?

lol,
yess,
that's how you get a woman pregnant by having the boys cum enter inside the womens vigina

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um im 14/f, && my boyfriend just started fingering me. sometimes he fixes his boxers because of well ____ something. anyways, im scared if he was doing it too me, and somehow when he fixed his boxers he may have gotten some sperm on it and then when he fingered me, he got me pregnent, only because i dont have my period, and i was due a week ago, and also i feel sick alot lately. PLEASE help, im begging you. im really really nervous. please help im really scared.

well,
it is possible,
its real possible,

so i would go to a doctor to see whatsup.
and the stomach problems..

hmm,
if it was your first time,
then it's because your bodies not used to it.
your bodies just like "whoa, you knoo?"

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how do i know when i'm experiencing an orgasm. like, when my boyfriend fingers me, it is the best feeling ever and i get really wet but i still don't know how i can tell. when a guy ejeculates he is having one, but how can girls tell for sure that they are?

yeah,

well you can just tell because it starts to plessure you, and you start to shake and get tired.

moan and stuff like that.

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