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Q: hey okay i know this is kinda gross but ive never had sex before and i masterbate and everytime i orgasm.. i get wet but like i never really cum .. why is that?

sorry but i dont really no how to answer this one. i dont do that stuff.. i had sex tho...

sorry

christine

Q: Hello guys, long time reader but first time writer here. I really need some advice.

I've had this best friend for about ten years now (ever since the second grade) and he knows all my secrets. He has been the friend I've been able to go to for all my problems for over half my life. He's always been a great guy, but lately he seems a little different.

He came up to me the other day and told me that he needed to talk to me after school, and of course I told him it was no big deal. Well, when I got to his house after school he called me back to his room. When I got back there he was completely naked and said that if I didn't suck him off then he would tell everyone about my issuses with my sexuality that I had confided in him. I didn't have any other choice, I can't let everyone now that I have impure thoughts about other men since I'm in a private Christian school, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He's really overweight and he has hair everywhere.

Now he's saying that I have to give him head everyday or he will tell everone about my secret desires, even my parents. I don't know what to do, he tastes horrible. I can't keep doing this.

ok listen hun... this same thing happened to me.. It was last year.. i was in the 8th grade and it was 1st pd. About 8:00 am

Okay well anyways... This kid i went out with all through elementary school.. he kept harrassing me.. i mean SEXUALLY harrassing me.. asking me for head.. hang jobs.. asked me to sleep with him... I went to him with all my problems.. he knows everythig about me.. I mean EVERYTHING.
Well he kept that up for about 1 1/2 weeks.. i went to my parents showed them all the notes he wrote me.. the AOL print out convo's. That went to the teachers at school the principals.. evry one. It worked out and we're still great friends.
So try talking to your parents and teachers.

I hope i helped.. if you need anymore help just let me know..

Christine

Q: This is a bit embarrassing im 14 and i have a very small penis just over 3 inches long its a bit worrying does it matter to girls? Will it get bigger?

Ok.. that's an odd question.. i never got one like this b4. But ok i'll try my best to answer this..
Most girls care how big a guys penis is. But hun dont worry it will get bigger.. Just jackoff a couple times. That'll help some. Or get a girl to do it. It helps alot of guys who want their dick to get bigger. Some girls dont even care how big it is. As long as they give head or a hand job..

i hope i helped. If you need n e thing else just ask away...

Christine

Q: during any type of sexual activities, how long is it supposed to take before a guy has an "orgasm"? i think i have a problem, because in less than a minute i already bust. whats wrong?

Sorry to say this but i think you need to calm down on the orgasms for a little bit. If you bust in lesss than 1 minute... TAKE a CHILL PILL!!!

Christine

Q:
I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?

hun sry to say this but.. They are sexually harrassing you. The same thing happened to me last year. This guy i used to go out with sat right beside me in my 1st pd. class. But he kept askin me for head and to grab him and give him a hand job. It was nutz. Then it all started on the computer on AOL. That didnt go too well. My mom saw all the notes he wrote me everything he sent me on aol... EVERYTHING.. hes still not allowed to talk to me or come near me.
What you need to do is turn them in and tell your parents b4 this gets too far. Good luck and i hope i helped.

Christine

Q: yesterday i had sex with mi bf.we have had sex b4 but we hadnt ad sex in about 3 months.he is quite big.it hurt when he entered me and after we finished the condom has split and the end had came off n gone inside me,im not worried about bein pregnant because i am on the pill but this mornin i went to the toilet and the condom came out and i was bleedin like it was mi period.i had mi period like a week ago so i dnt no y this is happenin.please can someone explain this too me.thanx.

i dont think anyone has had this happen b4!! this is strange!!I think you need to talk to a gyno!! Or another grown up woman!! This isnt a type of thing that happens all the time!!

Christine

Q: Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.

they might be having sex or your dad/ mom might be hitting one another at night. Most likely theyre having sex. Just listen to them at night and see. Maybe even try talking to them once in a while about sex. Bring those sorts of things up.

Christine

Q: so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

When a guy pushes your head down when your giving him head that means hes getting hard and horny fast... Or probably because Jizz is going to come out... And he probably doesnt want to burst in your mouth... Watch what you do

Q: Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?

hey there... heres what i think about your sitch. If you like him kissing your neck alot.. then thats one step to going and having sex. But if he took your shirt off. then hes way too obsessed with having sex. Talk to him about it. That may be all he wants from you..

Q: Hi i think your a GREAT advice columnist and you give great advice! I have a question for you. My boyfriend and i were here making out and doing our think and then he tryed to take my pants off! I stoped him and said no. I am 14 and I think i might be ready to have sex do you think that is a bad thing and i am too young? What should i do about me not wanting to have him take my pants off?

Signed
Confused!

Well thank you. Well here's what i think... If you think you are ready then go for it. How does he make you feel when youre around him? If you have weird feelings in your stomach like i do when im around my boyfriend then youre definately ready. Any one can be too young to have sex. But if you think you are ready go ahead.

Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

Im sorry there is no way of getting a free abortion without your parents knowing. In fact your parents kind of have to know. Something may go wrong and you may need a parent's advice.

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