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Q: Say you had so called friends mybe one real one and one accompliance with that person you d not like so much and they were talking about girls they thought were pretty and you weren't included but they all were would you still consider these people your friends?
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everyone is different.what would the world be like if everyone was like "paris hilton".their fake.
i dont know what you look like but you proberly are.even if your so called called friends dont think so.your friends dont seem much of friends to you when they think their all preety and your not thats so mean.talk to them about it.and if they say your not preety then just say back to them why are friends with me if im the only one that isnt preety.remember its not what the outside that matters its the inside of someone that matters.
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Q: So one of my best friends hangs out with her boyfriend 24/7 and even at school we don't even really hang. So I was asking her if we could hang out but since shes always with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend invites his friend who is my ex boyfriend. So then my best friend never invites me because she doesn't want to be a fight between my ex and me, cuz we aren't on good terms.
Then I talked to my best friend how I felt and she ignored me. She basically said that she thinks that her boyfriend will get mad if she says she doesnt want my ex to come when her boyfriend invites him, because she doesnt want there to be a fight. Also, she thinks that if she tells her boyfriend she doesnt want my ex to come, shes afraid her b/f will get mad and then break up with her.
But what boyfriend would break up with his girlfriend when his girlfriend wants to hang with her best friend that she hasn't hung out with for like 2 months.
Then the me, my ex, and my best friend got in a huge fight, abd basically my best friend said that she would rather have her boyfriend than me. Because she told me she doesn't want to lose what she has with her boyfriend. But it's not like they are going to be together forever, I mean they have been going out for like 3 months, and they still haven't hugged or kissed or anything whatsoever...So she's willing to lose her best friend over her boyfriend.
Oh, and my ex likes my best friend...and her boyfriend is my ex's best friend..
So does this make any sense to anyone?
Because basically my ex told me it was wrong to get mad at this whole situation, but i've been crying for 3 days straight, and I can't stop.
I just really don't know what too do.
Is it wrong that my (ex) best friend shoved me out of her life just to have her boyfriend because she doesn't want to lose him? Because I think they won't be together...
Please helpp..
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i think your best friend is totally wrong she shouldnt have picked her bf over her best friend.as you said yourself their not going to be together forever.just talk to her again and keep talking to her until she realises your right but make sure you dont have a fight over it with her.she will realise soon that she was wrong.
just to let you know the same thing happened with my best friend and i.everything will work out for the best.
xxaoifexxx
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Q: my friend is really annoting, and she thinks she's the most popular one out of all 7 of us. she thinks she is funny, when she isn't, and veryone loves her. i'm not jealus, i'm just annoyed! she is not funny, and she talks like a baby, which makes everybody adore her! it's getting on my nerves. what should i do? i've already talked to them. that made it worse. :[
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i think you should just ask your friend why does she think shes the most popular one?my bbf is the same way and i didnt talk to her about it and now we arent as close of friends as we used to be.just talk to her and ask her why is she talking like a baby?hope i helped,xxaoifexxx
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Q: One of my closest friends told me something about themselves, and it's like, really dark, most people wouls stop being friends with another because of this.
But, I accept it, she's still my friend, who i would do anything for.
She's afraid I'm lying about accepting it because her Ex-BF said he did then broke up with her a few months later, calling her an inhumane monster without a trace of a soul.
So she's afraid I'm going to do the same.
I've known this Person for almost 10 years now, she got me through some of the toughest times of my life, and for a logn time, we were each others only friend, I lvoe her like family, and I'm not sure how to tell her how much her friendship means to me, and How to convince her of the truth; That I still See her as an amzing beautiful person, And i'm always going to there for her.
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one of my friends are the same way.you need to tell her she is a beautiful person and she is the best best friend in the world no matter what her ex-bf might say.he is just a jurk.
you need to keep saying to her you will always be there no matter what.it will take a while for her to believe you but dont stop saying it.she will start realising your a true friend and you are never going to stop being there for her.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks...
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try talking to your bestfriend and see if you did something wrong and if you did then say sorry but if you didnt do anything wrong then your bestfriend isnt worth the trouble of getting upset.if she was your truly best friend then she wouldnt just not want to be friends with you anymore.just try to talk to her and see if ye can work things out.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Q: 14/f
Okey Same thing with almost every friend=/
okey.....
so last weekend my and my friend was suppost to go the this little teen club.
& thew my mom got sick.
& the thing was on a thursday/ no school friday)
anyways i askd my mom if i could go & she said NO!
& i told my friend i couldnt & she was like Oh well ya i gotta go. & hung up. see this happends with almost everyfriend of my that are gurls.
if i cant do somethings its like thay get mad & lie & say thay gotta go or just say ima let you go. i mean i nkow what your most of you will say its not my say if i can go somewhere its my moms
& i mean its no just that most of my friends dont all the much hang out with me.
am i not a good friend.
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to be honest its sounds to me that your friends arent truly your friends.its not your fault your mom said no and your friends should know that.and they shouldnt get mad at you over it.you are a good friend but your friends dont seem to be that good of friends to you.
i hope i helped you,xxaoifexxx
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Q: hey;
ok so, next saturday is my sister's wedding. it is going to be in the backyard of my house [huge] which is a couple of acres. so on all the invatations, they specifically put NO CHiLDREN PLEASE. however, since i`m her sister [i`m 13] i can obviously go. now, i`m thinking it may be a bit boring, so i want to bring my friend gabie. she`s my age. however, her parents can`t come bcuz they have nothing to do with my family & my parents just want close friends and relatives. they are allowing me to have gabie since i might get bored or something' WHAT SHOULD i DO?????
please help me! what should i do?
THANK YOU SO MUCH iN ADVANCE; HELP ME PLEASE.
i`m a raterr.
HELp!
thanks
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well first of all you have to make sure it is ok with your sister because it is her wedding.
just ask your sister nicely.
xxaoifexxx
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Q: 13/f
Tomorrow im going to my boyfriends house
And tonight im stayin up late
No exceptions
I am deffinatly staying upp late tonight.
So my cousin that's a dude is going to go look at a house like with his mom and brother and he wants me to come
But thing is i would have to get up at like 7 on a SATURDAY morning
I dont wanna go
But i would deffinatly feel wicked bad if i didnt
So what should i do?
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well i hate getting up early on saturday mornings it should be law to stay in bed on saturday but anyways you should just tell your cousin that your really tired after the week that is if you are
hope everything works out,xxaoifexxx
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Q: Okey well all my friends are all most the sam,
well when it comes two this.
okey so thay ask me if i can do something & if i cant ill tell them and say where on the phone & the`ll be like OH well i gotta go or just stop talking. or be like can i call you back later & never call me backk
im a a suckkyyy friend?
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no your most defintaly not a sucky friend.you dont have to tell them everything that happens in your private buissness.would they?
im just like you i tell my friends i will ring them back later sometimes i do but not all the time.they dont think im a sucky friend they just know i like to keep somethings to myself and if your friends are really good friends they wont think you are either.
i hope i gave you good enough advive.dont worry that you are a sucky friend because your not.
xxaoifexxx
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hi!im a 13 year old girl.i have brown hair and i am tall.
i am from ireland.
i love music and boys!
i play basketball and football.
i have two sisters one younger and one older.
my boyfriend dara is the sweetest thing.my ex-b/f rang me loads of times saying my b/f is cheating on me and he wants to go out with me.i asked my b/f and he said he would never do anything to mess things up between us and im like soo sexy so why would he cheat on me.im totally falling for him.
my friends tells me that i give great advice so if you need some i would be happy to give some.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: ireland Occupation: student Age: 13 MSN: hotmail Member Since: April 6, 2007 Answers: 56 Last Update: May 11, 2007 Visitors: 3337
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