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hi i have a friend that is WAyy to prideful of her backround. she like, bases her life on it. il use an example, say if she were spanish, shed make a sn that would be like spanishbaby or cutie spanishgirl and she has nicknames, real nicknames that are words in spanish like guapa or buena chichi chicana etc or some crap like that, and her whole family speaks it n shes always singing songs in it, and talking it to me. shel say something and then il be like what?? and shel say it in english, like "it means im so cool in spanish". and always wearing clothes that represent it, and rarely does she have friends that dont speak it. and her whole room is decorated in it, and she wears jewelry representing it, and shes always like "you cant speak it stupid" or she always like "oh shutup you cant even speak it" if i try to say a word, and shel just go up to random people and be like haha she cant read spanish. im not saying i dont like her i maen its just getting SO annoying, i wouldnt be so annoyed if maybe i spoke it too, but im just getting terribly sick of it. shes always talking it to people behind my back..laughing at me with another person, what do you think i should do?
my friends do the samething.. i just go... " You know where are in America.. SPEAK ENGLISH!" she should stop.. if she doesnt.. then just ask her to stop doing it around you.. x0x
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Well whenever my best friend is around her boyfriend she id relly mean to me and starts like changing what do i do?
Hey Babe! The best thing to do is tell her how you feel.. so maybe she'll understand and stop bein mean!! Another thing you can choose to do is.. not be around her when shes around her bf.. Also if u have a bf.. you can do the same to her.. she'll get that she doesnt wanna be treated like that so she wont do it!! Good Luck!! Anythin else just ask!! x0x!
Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp
Okay! Wow! This is really familiar.. My "best friend" goes to another skewl... and its hard to hang out cuz she has her things and so do i... But when we do hang out its like BFFL!! When i dont c her. its like yah! Nat your my best friend gurl!!.. Its annoyin.. I know.. you must feel like you should be there.. well thats how i felt atleast.. Well you can just ask her..straight up and be like how come on not 0n ur profile! but since i kno most people dont i want to do that.. do the same to her in your profile for a while.. then put her back in when she notices.. if she doesnt just b like brb updating my shout outs or sumthin.. she's bound to look!! Good Luck!! iF you need anythin else just ask me!! x0x!!
School has been going for about a week and things aren't exactly going very fast!
I am usually pretty populiar but now no 1 wants anything to do with me!
I dunno what to do cause i have like 5 friends out of 600!
What can i do to make it easier on me to make friends????
Hey Just always have a smile on your face!! Talk to people and be interested in what they like! Make them laugh!! x0x
This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!
Im sorry to here that hun! I think yeah you should go! Atleast you'll be able to say goodbye to him.
hey..! what are some good sights to get a welcome sign....scroll bar....cursor...and other stuff for your profile? thanx!
For the Welcome Signs and the cursor.. go to http://angelkizz.net/ !! http://www.dolliecrave.com/ has cursors and scroll bars also!! If you need anythin else just ask!! x0x!!
me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks
Hey I think you should just distant yourself from her!! And if she tries callin you just be like hi.. act like your mad.. and be like I have to go sorry bye! And if she asks you to do something be like.. I have plans already sorry.. Anythin else just ask! x0x
I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her?
Well I think that you should have her meet him if they havent already so then maybe she'll start to understand that hes a really good person.. And be okay with it. i think that you should explain to her that she needs to realize its not whats on the outside.. but whats on the inside.. He can be Purple.. It doesnt really matter. Also, I think that if your interested in him it shouldn't matter what she thinks.. Shes not the one who likes him. G0od Luck With Everything!! Any other ?'s just ask! x0x
ok well my friend **** is always hangin out with me but when my sister is with us (( shes 21)) it seems like she just hangs out with her not me like she likes her beter when shes with me( idk what 2 do b.c i dont want to lose this friend))
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Wow this sounds fimiliar!! lol. My friend does that.. Its annoying!! Next time you hang out try 2 stay away from your sister.. Life if your sisters home go sumwhere or go 2 her house. But since I know you cant avoid your sister around her all the time tell your sister about how you feel.. Im sure she'll understand how you feel!!Any more ?'s Just ask!! x0x
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I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?
Hey I live In Illinois too And a Small town!! W0h0o0! lol! I dont really live by the corn though.. Hehe!! But Newayz!! go shopping if u guys have a mall or w/e!! when me n my friends get bored we just walk around til we find sumwhere 2 go lol!! (hey u even get a work out of it lol!!) umm go 2 a fast food places and just eat n talk!! You guys should have a water balloon fight or sumthin.. Water gun fights.. Sumthin fun like that !! heehe. You guys could go outta town and if ur close enough go 2 the lake!! hMm!! I dunn0 if u want any other things 2 d0 just aSk!!
my friend always tells me im her best friend, but she tells everyone else that too. im never in her info on AOL or nothing @ all! in her xanga its all about these other people like how much she misses them and stuff. what should i do about this problem??
WoW!! i Know how u feel.. Well if it bothers u that much ask her why ur not in her profile.. im sure she'll add u! Do you guys g0 2 different skewls?? cuz if u do its probably bcuz u d0nt c each that much!
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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
Well you really shouldnt feel uncomfortable or guilty.. But if its bothering you tell them about it!! Im sure they'd understand!!
hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?
Well I think sumtimes.. u should help her not cuz shes on her period just cuz ur her friend.. But if shes asking u 2 do like EVERYTHING for her.. tell her 2 get it herself or that u dont feel well either.. She'll go do it herself if its really that important!!
Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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0o0o0 That sounds familiar!! lol!! Well just tell her that she needs to stop talkin about him.. if you can set her up with sum1 else mayb she'll finally stop talkin about him so you wont have to hear anymore of it!! When your on the phone with her and she starts talkin about it.. be like oh hold on. then bring up a whole different subject.. Or when ur with her.. and she starts talkin about him.. b like OHH U I GOTTA TELL u... lol.. she'll figure out u dont wanna hear it!!