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School has been going for about a week and things aren't exactly going very fast!
I am usually pretty populiar but now no 1 wants anything to do with me!
I dunno what to do cause i have like 5 friends out of 600!
What can i do to make it easier on me to make friends????
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mmm...u seem pretty nice and it sounds like ur the type who wants to hav alot of friends wat i would do is join more clubs so mi name would be known
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I don't think being popular is what's important. I would rather have a few really good friends than hundreds of not so good friends. Just be nice to everyone, be yourself, and you should go far. Don't change yourself to make friends, because if they aren't friends with the real you then they aren't really your friend. True friends like you for who you are, no strings attached.
Hope I helped!
Alyssa
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Walk around with lyk, a thong on yer head and a sign on ur bakc tht sez: 'im not popular nymore!!1...omg. Give me a kick up the rear 2 giv me a boost up da social ladder?'
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just be very friendly and open and outgoing
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Don't worry about being popular, trust me its not everything! But, to make more friends, just be nice and friendly. Smile at everyone so they dont think you're a snob or mean or something. And in every one of your classes, talk to the people that sit next to you. Try holding a conversation with them and do that in every class. And the friends you have right now, have them introduce you to the people they've met and so on. Just be outgoing and nice. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Ok take my advice on this one! Dont worry about being popular! Smile at everyone, talk to everyone even if they arent on your social standards! Everyone is equal and nobody is better than anyone else, remember that and you have 555 friends to make! :*:SaRa:*:
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It might sound kinda silly--but just smile and say hi to people...I bet you there are a TON of other people feeling the EXACT same way! even if you aren't successful in starting a conversation with everyone, I'm sure there will be people who will be MORE then willing to start up a conversation with someone new. Just don't give up....another thing....popularity isn't everything...sometimes it's the less 'popular' people who u'll find the best friends in...
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i had that same problem when i started highschool.. join a club or do a sport and ull meet people u like.. in class.. start a conversation with someone or wait till 2 people say something funny then laugh and get urself in and start talkin 2 them.. i got good friendships by doing those.. hope that helps
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Hey Just always have a smile on your face!! Talk to people and be interested in what they like! Make them laugh!! x0x
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