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Hey! its dede....i'm the one who is having a christmas party!! yay u put me in one of ur things!!!! yayhahhaayayya!!!!!!!!!!!
cya tomorrow...just so you no its 6:02 on wed night.!
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haha okay...=)
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I have a friend that i've known for a year or so and she's been my best friend but lastely she's been getting on my nerves. she acts like me and does things like me and it's bothering me. It's been getting annoying and i don't know what to do. please help me! Thanks.
Just tell her very nicely how you feel and what you would like her to do about it. if she knows how you feel she should act better.
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hey, im in sixth grade and i feel like my friends are ditching me. i mean, im considered popular but my friends are more than me. its like theyre just social climbers. they dont seem to like me at all anymore. what should i do?
first, i would just tell them how you feel about them ditching you. they will probably tell you why they are or why it might seem like that and maybe they will include you. if they dont, i really wouldnt want to be their friend. they dont seem like they would be good friends because they only want the people that are equal to them in popularity. if thats so not them, just try to work it out with words.
hope i helped youuu! good luck hun!
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i dont know you but i like in californa... attcaully where the oc is!! pretty cool... but anyways so i have a bestfriend and one of our good friends was sorta i dont know but acting weridly/annoying
so after a huge fight in the middle of it we both spit out we were bestfriends 2 her... now whenever i talk 2 her she always brings it up!! and its sooo annoying... oh god and i petty other gals with this problem its sooo hard! becuase its like back of!! u really want to tell em 2 but then u know they are probaly hurt... what should i tell her?
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xoxo megan xoxo
well i dont really understand this one too much so dont get mad if its not exactly what you want to hear, but if shes really bothering you just tell her how you feel. dont say back off or anything rude just tell it like it is. she will understand and you guys can work on what you can do to make this better (that is if you still want to be friends).
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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc."
dont hit or her or anything, just tell her how you feel and stuff. if she knows that it is hurting your feelings she will probably stop. if she still keeps talking about you then i wouldnt really plan on being her friend because she shouldnt talk about you that is toteli mean!
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okay well i used to be best friends with this one girl for like ever. and then we stopped talking for a little bit because we were both really busy and she got all mad and said that i was mad at her and she could never trust me again. that was a few months ago and were still not friends. well i was wondering if i should write her (she blocked me and she lives in another state so i cant call her). because i am just wondering if shes okay and maybe we can patch this thing up. should i even bother?
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yes def. write her. tell her how you feel (what you think happened, whether or not you want to be friends still, etc.) just spill your heart out. if she doesnt write back, dont fret its just her loss. BOTTOM LINE: i would just def. try to fix things they can only get better if you guys were that close.
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ok, well, today is Halloween, as EVERYBODY knows. and i'm 13/f and i'm going to go trick-o-treating. but my parents are making me go with this person i go with every year and she gets on my nerves so freakin much. so how can i get my parents to let me go with the people i want to go with?
if you go with people they know well and think are nice people that is a good way to start. just invite the people you want to go with over, and introduce them to your parents. just let your parents know that that person is responsible and nice and they would be safe to go trick or treating with. just ask and if they say no then just try to sort things out. if they really dont want you to go with them, then just deal with it even though it really would suck. or maybe even if you get to that point try to get to compromise like you'll go with your friend and the other person you go with every year.
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ok so here is the thing i have known this girl for like 8 yrs and she lives like 2 houses away from me. she loves to emaresss me. she does it all the time. we are on the bus and she is like omg timmy.. remember in 6ht grade when A***** like you and everyone knew? and i will be sitting right there. and lately this friend is like hitting me or kicking me for no reason and like i will say stop and she will be like but it doesnt hurt you, even when it does and when i hit her she gets so mad at me. so today on the bus, i was saying jokes like are we at a barbacue? No. Then why you all up in my grill and then she like pounds her hand down on to my head. then she is laughing and then she starts to kick me. how am i to tell her to stop doing these things like the embaressing hting and the hitting me
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Omg, wow , what a violent friend! anyways... first i would just say that you do it the normal way. talk to her and tell her how you feel, why, and what you'd like to do about it (the change). if her behavior still continues i would def. talk to her AGAIN and lay down the law. she doesnt really seem like she'd be someone i'd want to be around but if shes worth it to you make sure ya'll get everything straight
inbox me if you need more help...im here!
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what do i do if i think im too clingy? but my friend doesnt like it if i ask if im annoying?
if you think youre too clingy then try not to be. for example, for the people you think youre being clingy around, leave them alone for awhile. not that youre bothering them, just incase they think youre clingy 2 it'll give them some time too cool and forget about it. idk give it try and see if it works... inbox me if you want to ask something else hun!
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my friend goes on the bus with me and i told her i like this boy on the bus...boy was that a wrong thing to do. now everytime he leave the bus she says o mister boyfriend..but not that loud and i try to cover her mouth she is really pissing me off. how do i make her stop to save me from embarrasment ? p/s i tried to tell her to stop like i said "stop it" but i dont think it works and now its the weekend and i dont know if she will try to do it again on monday
Talk to her one-on-one. tell her how you feel & why you feel that way. She should understand and respect your feelings.
♥ hope i helped X0X0
i always feel like im gonna! so i have this really good friend and then a good friend but not as close... and know 1 can like replace my really close friend... lets call her sam... and the other 1 beth. ok so anyways... she sam and i have known each other like forever... or like a long time at least.. and i just became really close 2 beth in 6th grade... but ive known her we just werent friends... and so anyways we all are pretty good friends now but sam and i are closer... and lately if i tell her something and say dont tell beth, and then when im telling beth she says.. oh sam told me, and visa versa!!! and i feel like im being replaced this is my frist fight with beth and i dont know... i just... i talked 2 sam a little while ago but i havent talked 2 beth... and before beth never took me serously until another friend was being mean 2 me... and whenever i see them i feel like im outta it and they r talking about me... and beth said "YAY WERE TOGETHER AGAIN!" 2 sam when they were on the same team... and now i feel like there a team and i was liek last picked... or never.. (that sounds sorta lame but its true!)
please help me!
aww, well anyways it sounds like your feeling left out alittle and that sometimes the problem with a friend 3some thingy. i think what you need to do is make a time when the 3 three of you can just talk. call em all over to your house and just talk. tell them how you feel and maybe one of them feels the same way. just talk and try to figure something out where no ones hurt!
♥ hope i helped ... sorry i was a bit confused with the question!! x-0h
i have this friend and we are pretty close... ok really close... and lately i dont know im not annoyed at her... but she isnt really helping me... i havent had a great time in 8th grade so far and i dont know... what to do? i mean and should i be mad at her? and i sent her an e-mail it wasnt mean but it just told her what was happening and why i was so liek blah... and she was like 'no comment' and i really want 2 know what she thinks.. we've known each other liek almost forever... or so it seems so i wanna know the turth... like what she thinks... and i dont wanna tell her that.... what should i do?
thanks
Call her or talk to her in person and try to understand why you guys are on and off or atleast why it seems like it. Talking will help to see what the problem is and hopefully you can solve it. trust me, emails and non-personal things dont work! just try to sort it out the old fashioned way!
♥ hope i helped & inbox me for further help!! xoxoxo
i have had this friend... for a while but we didnt come close till like 6th grade... and im in 8th grade now so yeah we are pretty close now! lately she likes the same guy as me... and she is flirting with him infront of me... i do 2 but it doesnt brother her cuz i asked and she was like its cool... but what if i like tell her it brothers me and she is like same... but she said she didnt! what shold i do???
If you guys both say that then just make a truce that you wont flirt with the guy infront of eachother but you can do it elsewhere. you guys should also talk about what would happen if something was to happen between one of u and the guys. try to think of something together that would be fair and not lead you guys to getting hurt..or worse not being friends anymore. because if you guys are really good friends you shouldnt let a guy come between ya`ll!!
♥ hope i helped!!
so my friend has liked this guy like! FOREVER.... and everylike knows it for shore!! and like now i do... alot... and she keeps changeing her mind back and froth... i like him... i dont... i like him... i dont... ya no? and she gets mad at me if i do... and its not like its her terroty is a guy FOR LIKE SHORE!!! and should i tell her?
p.s. Babe- shes real senstive....
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Kay well what you should say is "I dont think we should be mad at eachother over a guy. Lets not have him come between us. But if something does happen between one of us lets not be mad." Ya know, kinda like a truce. jUST tell her however you want to that you guys shouldnt get mad! She shouldnt be hurt from that!
♥ hope i helped youu x-oh
My friends birthday is coming up ( and i have no idea what to get her. she likes abercrombie and aeropostale and preppy stuff like that but what could i get her??? her party is in 2 weeks!
Thanks for the tip of what she likes otherwise i would have really no clue! but you can try getting her clothes from that store. but if your worried she wont like what you pick out, just give her a simple giftcertificate. it works for everyone because they can get whatever they want at a store! other nice ideas are:
-a certificate to the whole mall not just abercrombie/aeropostale
-bath & body works kit thingy ( always works)
-if she has a iPOD.. iTUNES gift card
-cds
-a coupon thing saying you'll buy her stuff at the mall or take her out to the movies
-room decorations
-get a photo frame and fill it with a picture of you & her and give her other stuff
hmm thats all i can think of but im sure i will think of more later! if i remember i`ll edit it!
♥ hope i helped x-oh
Hey brianna! ok so i have a lot of friends at skool but when it comes to keeping a secret..well i'm not very good. i mean i tell ppl but i'm not gonna tell the whole world. so when my friends are talking about sumthing secret and then i come up they like stop talking and they never EVER tell me anything anymore! its so annoying! i hate it. they dont releaize how mean it can be! what do i do??
i might switch into ur TV Studio class for the 2nd semester
xoxo
haha i know whoo this is! love ya! anyways... just prove to them that you are committed to keeping secrets. if they say something and they dont wanna tell promise them that you'll keep it! soon they'll gain your trust back and it will be good as new!
and i`m sooo glad your switching!!
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i have a problem.i think am not shy and am more out going.but thats not what people say.they think am shy and very qiute.when am aroun ppl i just have nothing to say.so am qiute.i would love to get to no people better. come ouut of my shell and make friends.anyone have any help for me.i would like to make friends and make more friends.be outgoing.
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Well a really good way to make friends is join a club/after school activity. If you like soccer then try out for that and you will easily meet and play with the people that love soccer also. Same with drama, dance, photography, or any activty. Aside from that, try talking to people in your classes. Ask them for the homework or small talk like that. Its a really easy way to become friends after a while. Overall, just try to talk to people..but dont judge. Dont think..oh i dont wanna be friends with them because blablabla...you never know what theyre gonna be like until you talk && befriend them so dont judge just try to be friends.
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Hi I have this friend who went out with my ex a week after we mutully broke up. She's nice and all but I don't like how she would go out with him after I did! SHould I forgive her or not?
Yes, you probably should. After all, you broke so he is free (and so is she) to anyone. It might hurt a little, but think about how your friend feels. She likes him and she has a right too.
Hope i helped
♥// Brianna
What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?
People have different characteristics and ideas they have for a "best friend" but for me its someone thats alot closer than just a friend. One you can burp in front of, tell your secrets to, and your just really close. A friend to me is someone you talk to at school or wherever and you hang out sometimes but your not as close as a "best friend". But thats just my idea. Everyone's is different.
Hope i helped!
♥ Brianna
I have this friend that i became friends with about two years ago. The first year, she and i were best best friends along with two other girls. This year though, we all were split up. One of my best friends went to a different school, and this particular girl and my other best friend were in the same class. She and i grew apart a bit. She has very little to no confidence and always trys to act older. She's changed a lot this year. She also lies and talks about me all the time. How can i tell her gently that she's changed and that i don't like her talking about me behind my back?
Hmm, well simply just tell her "_____ I kinda feel like you changed over the past year and I dont know why." Its not exactly a question so she can comment in any way that she wants. If you kinda agrees with you and tells you why then maybe you guys can talk it over and try to get it back to normal. If she gets mad, just give it time i mean no one exactly wants to hear that.
I hope that helped a little...i wasnt really sure what to say!
♥ Brianna