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I'm Steph. I'm 18 and I live in Nevada. I love country music, cattle dogs, border collies, bicycles, dog training and guys. Probably not in that order.
I have a border collie/heeler, a heeler/greyhound, a goldfish, a betta fish, and a Colombian Redtail Boa.
Some other stuff, blah blah blah.
advice
Yesterday I ran away.
I've been ditching alot and I have plans in life with my friends and they are like everything to me.
I hate school.
I hated being home so much I asked my friend if I could stay at her house and my mom hates her. she said no because she didnt want the cops coming to her house.
She took me home and I stayed there for an hour and I cried and I stopped a realized I didn't want to be there
I live in las vegas so I pretty much walked 20 miles to my friends house and I stayed there.
I felt bad but I had nowhere to go and I just needed to be away for the weekend.
Well my mom found her number and called her and threatened to get the police on her.Well instead she told her to come pick me up at 530 and she did because I didn't want to do that to my friend.
I'm still so very miserable here.
What should I do? I'm just so confused I need someone to talk to
anyone
Deal with it. You've got a mom who cares about you. Friends that care about you. A place to live. If I walked 20 miles every single time I got frustrated with my family, I'd be across the country and back 3 times. You live in the most beautiful state in the world (I'll give you, though, that Vegas isn't a peachy place) Give it a week, you'll calm down. I promise :) If not, you can come 80 miles and punch me in the face. :P
Okay, there's Tim and Harry. Tim is really cold hearted, doesn't care about others that much, blah blah. In a cute way. Harry is overly sensative and over dramaatic most of the time. Well, they are both gay and they've been friends for a while and they're perfect for each other (in a friend way mind you)
Well, Harry told Tim something that he was apparently sad about and Tim thought it was funny how Harry was making a stupid incident so dramatic and laughed and told Jen who is a really good friend of Harrys. Then Harry goes and says "I can't believe you! You're laughing and telling everyone about a sad troy?!!" or something like that. SO basically Harry is mad at Tim and TIm doesn't care and thinks it's funny and now Harry is all not hyper and somber looking most of the time and he's ignoring Tim whom I am always with at school and so I don't get to wlak with Harry to classes sometimes now. The thing is Harry won't forgive Tim unless Tim says he's sorry which TIm isn't going to do anytime soon.
So how can I get them to be friends again?> How can I get Tim to say sorry to Harry? ( I already tired the--"But you're being so mean throwing away such a good friendship" and all that stuff and it didn't work on Tim)
Can anyone help me??? I'm stuck in the middle and it's a very awkward position for me..
Tim's being a jackass, and there's nothing you can do about that. He knows Harry thought it was important, and he's not sensitive to his friend's feelings.
ok well im wondering if i should get my ex boyfreind a christmas gift. we dated for a little more than a year, and we broke up about a month ago, and we're still really good freinds, every once in a while freinds with benefits...so i jsut dont know if i should or not? and if yes...what are some ideas?
Guys like video games, generally. Maybe a DVD? Get him something personal, you know the guy, you know what he likes :) If he likes sports, maybe get him a signed ball, glove, or jersey? A signed guitar if he's into music? It depends on what he likes and what you're willing to spend.
OH! If he has a pet he really loves, get a custom painting done by Jennifer McNulty. Google her, she's INCREDIBLE and has decent prices.
One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.
She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.
She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!
I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.
Am i overreacting to being upset?
Well, I tell you what. If I were in the house, at night, like usual, and things were like usual, I'd do it like this.
-Wake up.
-Notice the house is on fire.
-Say 'oh crap' while putting pants on
-Throw open the window and shove the screen out.
-Pick up the dog and throw him out the window.
-Go help the rest of the family.
Of course, my dog is a heeler, and those are tougher than nails, basically. But also he'd probably jump back into the window, and thus, the fire, to be able to see me. He may be tougher than nails, but he's also very needy. This isn't helpful in the least, I'm sorry.
for the girls
do u think boys that have long hair are hotter than boys than short hair
Depends on the guy, and the actual length, but generally, yes.
Well idk why but it seems like I have no guy friends at all. I have a ton of friends who are girls, though. I mean, I have friends that are guys but we never do anything outside of school. Ever. I'm too shy to ask them and they never ask me, either. When I do hang out with a guy it's only because one of my friends invites him. I'm thinking that's probably why I don't have a boyfriend, either and why I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years. Sad, right? And I know I'm worrying way too much but now I'm starting to wonder what would happen next year when I go to prom. I mean, who would I ask? I don't think anyone would ask me, since I have no GUY FRIENDS. If I don't have a boyfriend by then I'll probably just end up going alone or not going at all and that'd be terrible because all of my friends have boyfriends and they all have guy friends and they'd probably have a prom date haha. Okay so my question is, how can I get more guy friends to actually be friends with and hang out with, and therefore, possibly get a boyfriend? Thanks.
If the only reason you want a guy friend is so he can become your boyfriend, you don't deserve one.
Guy friends are a special breed. They're friggin' hilarious. They aren't catty bitches. They won't steal your crush, and if you get the right kind, you can talk to them about anything. But you have to deal with some frustrating stuff. They check out other girls, they like boobs, they'll probably try to "get some" from you at one point or another, and some won't stop playing video games. Among other stuff. They're so worth it though. You CAN take guy friends to prom, and it's way better and so much less awkward. You won't be like "OMG i wonder if hes going to kiss me!" (unless you're dumb)
Anyway, just ask the guys that are friends from school if they want to hang out after school. Entice them with something fun, like bowling or touch football or a bike race across town or capture the flag or if you're old enough, a strip club. Or video games. Boys love video games. Just hang out and be one of the guys and laugh and fart and do guy stuff.
See...well, I like my best friend as more than just a friend. I want her to know without making it so obvious. She does a lot of things that makes me think she likes me too. Whenever she does things like hug me or smile at me or say something really nice, I am always backing off and I don't know why! I want to be with her so badly, but I always change the subject or act like a complete fool whenever she says or does something really nice to me...I need help.
Know the feeling, unfortunately. Sort of going through that right now, but I know he's not into me. I know it's friggin hard, but bring it up. Maybe over a game of truth or dare. When she says truth, say like "what do you think would happen if we dated?" but maybe something sweeter and more articulate. Or over a game of chess, that might be cute. Be like "ok, so, here are the stakes. if I win, you have to kiss me. what about if you win?" Something cute and casual like that.