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ok i started cutting about 6 or 7 months ago and ive stopped inbetweensometimes but it seems like a cant stop for good.. i need help im scared too go to a doctor or to even tell my parents.. what should i do??

If you feel like you need help, then you shuold go to the doctor or tell your parents. But if you think you can stop, keep trying to not cut and just tell yourself that you dont need to cut. Its more what you feel is best for you, if you think that you'll end up cutting again then maybe try telling someone you trust. Hope this helped.

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i hate everyone
they hate me
i give up on life
never see you again
bye forever

Dont even say that, cause nothing is worth your life.

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okay so this could get confusing. Sorry if it is. So i have this friend, lets call her LG okay well LG and I used to be like bestfriends and we still are good friends, but not the best.okay well anyway she has (or had) this boyfriend,whose an ass, and treated her like crap. He always pressured her to do stuff, he even got a condom just incase something was to happen over the summer. Well anyway, LG finally caved in and he fingered her. well word spreads fast in my town, and alot of people found out and basically her rep. is ruined. Well anyway i am like torn becuase some of my friends are like ewww shes a bitch i hate her. but like i dont hate her. BUt i like my other friends too. What do i do?!!! help please. I hope this isnt too complicated. If it is try reading it over and over and break it down. =)

I get what your saying. If shes your best friend and you dont want to loose her and shes probably one of the best friends you've had.. then you should stick up for her. Im sure shes not really a whore or a slut and those other friends might be immature (depends on your age), but if that was my friend and other people were saying crap about her, I think I'd stick up for her. Say "if you think shes a bitch cause she got fingered once then you have no idea what your talking about". I think that you should stand for what you believe in cause if you dont, then other people will fill their thoughts in your head and you wont be able to think for yourself.. then you'll be like everyone else. And you should be proud to be individule. Hope this helps, need any more advice just ask. =)

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but see. i have talked to him about it and stuff but he was just like your my friend and you always will be. but see when he liked me his friends made fun of him. and then he went back out with someone and i cut myself 2 times in the likes 2 weeks. i need help !

Dont cut yourself. And just try talking to him, you cant make someone like you and you cant always get what you want. But if you talk to him about it maybe it will work. Thats alomst all you can do.

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ok so i have this friend. we used to be like brother and sister we were so close. but ever sicne he got his new girlfriend its like he doesnt even notice me. i feel like he is neglecting me. and i need help. so please katie help me out

Talk to him, tell him how you feel. Sometimes you cant stop from growing apart, but you can try. Just tell him how you feel, hopefully he still wants to be friends. Im sure he does, so just keep staying in touch.

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I drive the kids bus to school, first we will stop and shoot some pool, ill drink and drive while im taking you to class, and if you tell ill kick your ass.

Okay

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Enjoy

Oakie Doke. Thank you.

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ok so i have this best friend. and well weve been friends since maybe, 5th grade... and this year we meet katie. we ended up hangin with her and stuff and soon enough it was us 3 all year. now at the end of the year it seem like katie and my other friend are almost like best friends, leaving me out of alot- well not too much, but you could tell. Ive tried to tell them that i felt like i was loosing my friend that ive had since 5th grade-i know im not loosing her but i know them two are better friends. they dont think so, but they never tell me anything anymore and are always going to katies lake house and leaving me when katie says i should come with, but she never does invite me. it sounds kinda, i dont know, lame and pathetic. but i just dont know what to do. and im kind of sick of being the one always left out.theres kind of more to it but i dont really know how to say it. what should i do?

I think you should tell them this. No matter how badly you dont want to hear it, or think it.. sometimes people just grow apart. But that might not be the case. They might feel like they can't trust you so that's why they dont tell you alot anymore. If i were you I think i would just try and tell them that you feel like your loosing them. Maybe you should try inviting them to hang out with you. Or you could invite just one to hang out with so you wont feel left out, then the other one, then if your closer with both of them, you could try all 3 hanging out and see what happens. I hope this start to work out, and I hope this helps =).
Katie, ♥

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hey what should i do my bestfriends well they arent really anymore they never call me and like this past weekend we all went to kenosha like at a hotel and they havent called me once and like i asked them to sleepover never asnwered then they had one somewhere else-and i dont know what to do do you?

Try just talking to them about it. Sometimes you cant help people from spliting apart, but just try hanging around with them or talking to them more. Maybe they just need a week or few to get back to normal. Hopefully its just something they are going threw. Hope this helps ♥.

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heyy.
yeah so this might sound pointless but;
ok well me & my old "bffs" used to be so close. we would talk about everything & laugh about stupid random stuff. but then they all the sudden stop talking to me? as if they never knew who i was? & i didn't do anything?. i really miss them like you don't even know; but they just let me out of their lives & they're still part of mine... idk what to do? it's like they don't care. & i can't just talk to them about it because it would feel weird. idk suggestions?.

Well maybe yoiu should talk to them. you can be like.. "guys i really miss how close we used to be". or just bring up times you guys had that were funny. Sometimes you cant stop when your growning apart from people, but you can try to prevent it by maybe hanging out wtih them more or talking to them more. I hope this helps. ♥

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ok alot of my friends that i ahve had for a long time they are seeming to change and i mena still want ot eb friends with them but it is difrent cu zi dont no hwo to act around them it is realy weird

Alex 13

Try and act yourself. You shouldn't have to change for anyone. If you want to go ahead.. but just try and be yourself cause if they were friends with you before why wouldn't they like you now?

Katiee. ♥

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hey well this girl used to be my BEST friend but now theres this other girl who thinks they're best friends & i like can't talk to my best friend anymore..wat do i do?

You never know if you don't try. Maybe be like "remember when we"... so maybe something will click in her mind and be like "woahh i really miss being friends with her". Im not sure it would work but it could. Mainly just try talking to her. Hope this helps.

Katiee . ♥

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