ok so i have this best friend. and well weve been friends since maybe, 5th grade... and this year we meet katie. we ended up hangin with her and stuff and soon enough it was us 3 all year. now at the end of the year it seem like katie and my other friend are almost like best friends, leaving me out of alot- well not too much, but you could tell. Ive tried to tell them that i felt like i was loosing my friend that ive had since 5th grade-i know im not loosing her but i know them two are better friends. they dont think so, but they never tell me anything anymore and are always going to katies lake house and leaving me when katie says i should come with, but she never does invite me. it sounds kinda, i dont know, lame and pathetic. but i just dont know what to do. and im kind of sick of being the one always left out.theres kind of more to it but i dont really know how to say it. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sorry_about_that_x3 answered Monday May 15 2006, 8:49 pm: I think you should tell them this. No matter how badly you dont want to hear it, or think it.. sometimes people just grow apart. But that might not be the case. They might feel like they can't trust you so that's why they dont tell you alot anymore. If i were you I think i would just try and tell them that you feel like your loosing them. Maybe you should try inviting them to hang out with you. Or you could invite just one to hang out with so you wont feel left out, then the other one, then if your closer with both of them, you could try all 3 hanging out and see what happens. I hope this start to work out, and I hope this helps =).
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