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okay so this could get confusing. Sorry if it is. So i have this friend, lets call her LG okay well LG and I used to be like bestfriends and we still are good friends, but not the best.okay well anyway she has (or had) this boyfriend,whose an ass, and treated her like crap. He always pressured her to do stuff, he even got a condom just incase something was to happen over the summer. Well anyway, LG finally caved in and he fingered her. well word spreads fast in my town, and alot of people found out and basically her rep. is ruined. Well anyway i am like torn becuase some of my friends are like ewww shes a bitch i hate her. but like i dont hate her. BUt i like my other friends too. What do i do?!!! help please. I hope this isnt too complicated. If it is try reading it over and over and break it down. =)
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I get what your saying. If shes your best friend and you dont want to loose her and shes probably one of the best friends you've had.. then you should stick up for her. Im sure shes not really a whore or a slut and those other friends might be immature (depends on your age), but if that was my friend and other people were saying crap about her, I think I'd stick up for her. Say "if you think shes a bitch cause she got fingered once then you have no idea what your talking about". I think that you should stand for what you believe in cause if you dont, then other people will fill their thoughts in your head and you wont be able to think for yourself.. then you'll be like everyone else. And you should be proud to be individule. Hope this helps, need any more advice just ask. =)
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