Ok... here is the problem ok... Well I love this boy and like, Him and I got into a fight because I kicked him and now he is all mad at me and like he really likes me and cares about me SOO much, more than anything in the world.. him and I have been friends since 4th grade... but like he wants to be my friend so bad again but he swears at me he ditches me he kicks me and he also pulled my hair out and slapped me.. I don't know if I should be his friend again if he cares about me that much and if I should, Should I be his friend again?
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Well I mean knowone ever deserves to be treated that way. But I think the reason hes doing that is because you treat him that way to so he thinks its okay! So basically you just need to talk to him and tell him where you stand. Because only you can decide if you want to be friends again. I hope I helped
Bianca
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i just ruined my friendship with a girl i know because she found out something i said...i mean, she still is my friend but she knows something i said that i didn't want her to. she pretty much knows i said it but not for sure...what do i do to make it up to her even though she is not mad i still want to do something nice
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Well I mean it was wrong in the first place to say something behind her back. Because if its just an imperfection then keep it to yourself. But if its a problem then you need to tell her to her face. Plus if she dont care then you shouldnt. Just remember though thats a good friend if she just lets it go. I think all you have to do is confront her and tell her what you said and say sorry. I hope I helped
Bianca~
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Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13!
Well I mean all 3 of yall need to sit and talk. No yelling or arguing be civilized. You wont solve anything if you dont talk. And if she cant handle it its her problem because are relationships about trust? If she trusted him she wouldnt be so jealous. But you alsdo have to understand thats his gf so mabe you need to space yall haning out as much. I know it sux bc yall are friends but when people start dating things change!
Bianca~
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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!
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Yeah eventhough you feel you friends are like that its good that you wanna try and make new ones. My advice is that find something you like to do and see the people who also like what you do. Like soccer or swimming and then youll start making new friends. Im in ROTC and have many friends from there. I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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Ok so one of my close guy friends, we'll call him "Sam." "Sam" had been best friends w/ one of my girl friends ever since they were little. She loves a guy that Sam hates. And every time they get into a fight over this guy, Sam always talks to me about it, and asks me for advice. Sam always says he will never forgive her, but they always make up. I want to be there for Sam, but i feel like he just runs to me whenever he needs help. I cant talk to Sam about it, he's sensitve and would get mad. I dont wanna lose him as a friend. HELP ME I RATE HIGH
All you can do is think positive about this situation. You may be the only one he feels he can talk to. Thats good. It means he trusts you. All you can do is keep with the advice and be a friend. I hope I helped
Bianca
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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right
I think its your choice. But if I were you I would talk to all your friends to see why he picks them up and see what they do. He could be hurting them. And her mom dont know?!!! yeah tell her bc she can get in serious trouble for that!
Bianca
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This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do?
I know how that feels. I think you need to talk to your friends. She might not realize what she doing. Try and see if you can all hang out including her new friends. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
Well I can tell you she really is a backstabber. But you cant just let her step all over you. If she wants to play dirrty then yoou can to. Do whatever it takes to get back at her! Start talking to your friends more tryingf toconvince them your there real friend. I hoep i helped! and good luck
bIaNcA
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I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?
Gosh I was sorta in the same situation last summer. I made the wrong decision by breaking them up and I was heart broken. The best thing to do is put yourself in her shoes. I think you hould talk to ryan and tell him yall can no longer flirt. And I know this may be hard but you might wanna be a little distant from him so your feeling dont grow. Just remember ryan wont always be there but your friends will. I know its hard but try and cope with it. If anything talk to your friend to tell her whats going on. If she is really your friend she will learn to cope with it.
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Hm i have this friend her name is bianca, and i love her to death but she moved, and now i dont kno what to do and i want her to come to my highschool so i wont be so lonely what should i do????
Stephani if you get this I want you to e-mail me so I can fill u in on whats been happening
Bianca
queenbianca2004@yahoo.com
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i hang out with my friends at school but i keep very quiet or else someone will start talking crap about me but when im with friends from sports i can relax and just let myself free. when i do something funnywith my freinds at skool they dont think its funny but when i do it with my freinds from softball they laugh soo hard they are crying. but the problem is thAT my friends from sports go to diferent schools than i do. what should i do>?
Those arnt friends. there jerks whpo think there better thatn you!! Stick with your softball freinds they are obviopusly more intrested in wht oyou have to say
Bianca
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ok so my mum has this friend and i spent some time with him when he came over to stay.I thought he was very nice but the strange thing is he keeps asking me to stay at his house and i am 16 and he is like 30 something.He also keeps telling my mum i am lovely and beautiful do you think that he was just being friendly?because he only asks me to stay at his house and not my mum!
Thats a little to friendly. I wouldnt if I was you. these days you never know whose out there. I hope I helped
Bianca
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ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!
You need to sit and have a serious talk with both your families includiding him and your sis. Tell them whats going on and how you feel about it. Its not right to do that. And if you feel itds not right you should say. So if it continues after that its probably best to be distant. I hope I helped
Bianca
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My best mate has a huge crush on this guy and has had done for nearly 2 years, its making her depressed because he doesnt like her but she cant stop fancying him. How can i help her?
Thats really hard. See you have to shopw her that there is more than just him out there. You need to keep her away from the subject of him. Go have fun to get him off her mind. Its his loss that hes missing out. She shouldnt wait for him. And mabye if she stops showing shes intrested in him mabye he'll start to be attracted to her. Guys love it when we play hard to get. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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is it wrong to have a crush on someone younger by 2 year
i female 13
he male 11
absoutly not. Its not a crime. you could have a crush on a 38 year old man. but in that case you couldnt date him. Just whatever you do dont let what other people say interfear in what you think of him because he moght like you to. Hope I helped
Bianca
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I think my best friend might be in an abusive relationship. Sorry if this is long, but I really need some advice... Its really important
Last year around this time, my friend met a guy. She had been in other realtionshops before, but this one was "different". She actually told me she loved him, and she lost her virginity to him also. They spent absolutley every minute together, and he would go with us everywhere...even when the girls went out for my birthday...he HAD to come. He showed up, on my birthday, at my house, with a rose. I thought you know, how nice of him...to bring me a rose in my birthday. But he gave me a dirty look, and told me "no, its for meg". He's not really social, and honestly, doesn't have any friends. All winter was like this. total obsession, sickening. So around the beginning of june, me and the girls took her out...and we got a little drunk. She kissed a guy, but only a peck. She felt guilty and immedatley told "him", who in return, flipped out completley. Dispite my harsh feelings for this guy, me and my friend would talk to him online and treat him as if he were our friends, even if it meant telling him how meg was decieving him...because, after all, she was cheating on him. So during the summer, she had a party. They had broken up for the summer, of course another meg thing to do, break it off so she could do whatever she wanted all summer. This night, though, was different. She was still telling him she loved him, and that they would get togheter, and the night before, they went to a concert togheter and he claimed it was the greatest day they had shared. Meg threw a party at her house, and her old boyfriend showed up. Jon found out and walked 2 miles to her house, knocked on her door and he answered. He flipped out, and punched him. He also punched a wall and shattered his knuckle. The first person he called was me, because i,at this time, did feel bad. He came in my house, around 1am...and i bandaged up his hand, which was completley out of line. I didn't want to attend this party because I didnt want to be involved with the concequences, but actually i was at the bitter end. Meg got drunk and had sex with her ex. Me and my friend dana didn't know what to do, at this time we were both good friends with jon, and we hated to see him hurt. So, we told him, adh he swore to secrecy he wouldnt tell. And he didn't, he lied that he found out another way. But they got back togheter, after all this, i can't even explain. Now that school started again, he doenst even talk to me, he igonres me and my friend totaly. He leaves her 10 messages on her voicemail a day. They are always together...still...despite all this. He throws chairs and gets mad and yells at her and they are still together. At first we thought it was cute, now its just turned in to this obsession. I dont even think he cares about her ..he just needs to feel secure. So this is where we stand. Our health class teacher told us these are all signs of an abusive relationship...but she won't listen. I need to do something...but what? Ive tried everything...please help me and thank you SO MUCH for reading this.
Well first dont jump to conclusions...
But your right he does seem a little obsessive....
secoundd look at your friens body see if you notice any scars and if you see alot question her aabout them... If she denies them and you know shes lieing you need to tell her rents.. now I know youll feel really bad on telling but you have to remember you could be saving her life...
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Does anyone know any good websites where you can pretend to be someone and interact with people or just talk to people like avatar high? if you fo please answer back.
WELL theres two I know... cokemusic.com and faketown.com. But dpont pu your real age gve them like the year, 1986 cause you have to be like 18 but every-1 lies on those websites so youll fit in with a lot of people
love always,
Bianca
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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????
well write a list of pros and cons and throw it away and follow your heart!!
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Bianca
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i dont no what to do anymore my best friend she seems like shes not my best friend anymore.i am in 7th grade, but anyway it seems like she never wants to do anything wit me any more. HELP ME PLEASE.
The best thing to do is confront her and try and use your time away form her to make new friends and hang out w/ them
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what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?
Talk to her tell her all the horrible things that will happen! I went through the same thing! My friends mom hated her and she did everything wrong that she just wnated to kill herself! I told her I would tell her rents I told her how I would be so mad at her and never forgive her and I would tell the police so she could go to a mental home!!!! Going home on a Friday is way scary when a friend wants to kill themselves and you dont got there number or adress! But I got to her and she came to school monday!
Hpe I helped!
Bianca
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