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Ok so last year this guy and I got really close I mean really close everyone thought that we were dating. This year however he barely notices me and he only acknowledges me when I say something dumb or make him notice me. He was the best friend I ever had and I think he is making a mistake by dating this girl because he dated her best friend and ended the relationship on bad terms. I have all this stuff I want to tell him but I havent talked to him in so long I am afraid if I start talking to him out of the blue about his relationship with this girl or anything then he'll hate me. We only talk online or in emails and we live in the same town!! I hate it. What should I do? (link)
just take him off to the side and say "i know we haven't talked in a while...i know i have no right to judge what you do or say or act. but i think you dating the best friend of your ex-girlfriend is a really bad idea. again i know i have no right bringing this up to you but i don't want to see you or someone else get hurt


I know one of my friends is stealing things from my locker because I saw all of my stuff in her backpack. I don't want to tell. What should I do?
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say NOTHING just go to the office and get a new lock and if it's a combo built into the locker just ask for a new combo

Hope I helped!!
Mike


14/f my friend's dad just died this morning. what can i do to show her that i care and that i'm here for her? i have no idea what to say to her because i've never experienced a real loss.. (link)
omg how sad tell her how much you care and do as much as u can for her


ok. tonight i was with my friends. there was a bunch of people but the main people are keith and mandy. i like keith... and i went out with him before but then he broke up with me cause he just "wanted to be friends" and then tonight i was out hanging out with my friends and mandy got all mad at me cause i wasnt hanging out with her alot cause i was flirting with keith. i even hooked up with keith. now mandy is really mad at me cause me and keith didnt spend alot of time with anyone tonight except each other... but now i dont know what to do. she seems really frustrated... i cant even describe the whole situation. but maybe people could try to help? thanks... (link)
talk to them and tell them how you feel


well, my best friend and i are exactly the same practically and we always think the exact same. we pretty much agree on everything and she's really important to me

but, sometimes... we get mad for stupid reasons. we always make up like nothing happened, but sometimes she brings up really sad things like things that shes made fun (we make fun of each other all the time, jokingly) of me for , that actually hurt.

also, sometimes, she gets really into something and her school friends and her do things kind of against me. it really hurts sometimes

its not like im going to ditch her as a friend, but how could i cope with the things that happen, and how can i make myself feel better?

me- 14 f
friend-13 f (link)
tell her how you feel i sure she'll understand


hey guys! please help me, i don't know what to do about my best friend. she has been really depressed and recently keeps bringing up how she wants to die. i know she won't kill herself but she DOES need help. please give me advice.... help me with what to tell her, inspirational quotes... anything! thank you so much for all of your help i appreciate it so much! (link)
i would support her and tell her what she mean's to you and maybe she will feel better about herself

let me know how it works out (mouseman11713@aol.com)

I hope I helped,

MLaBozzetta


me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl. (link)
well i feel you should say "I feel that we are'nt talking and hanging out as much as we use to when we were kids and I am starting to feel hurt and i want to hang out with you more. I think we should hang out today after school or at lunch.


let me know how it works out (mouseman11713@aol.com)

Hope I helped!,
MLaBozzetta


i moved from my city(we'll call it A),to a town(call it B) and im really sad.I moved to B in the middle of august last year.Well,last year in B i had a lot of friends.This year,everyone HATES me for some reason.I've NEVER liked B.It was gay..and i know i changed from when i lived in A,and that makes me really sad.I want to move back to A soo bad,because i had all my friends that actually liked me there.But the more i live in B,the farther apart i feel i am getting from my A friends.I also have this..weird jealousy of my friends in A because i live in B.I've been crying my eyes out,and im not eating well,thinking of how bad my life is in B and how good it was in A.Im a big mess,and the truth is i dont want any friends in B.Im stressed and i dont know what to do.If the prices go down in A,we'll move back {{Maybe}}.And i'll be so happy. I just want to move back to A and forget i even moved to B.Here,i feel like i will get no where in my life,no dreams,just..an avrage person.I really want to move back,where my dreams are.But how can i cope with this siuation for the time being that i live in B? (link)
make pretend B is A and try to use ur imagination


i just found out my best friend is pregent, she is about 5 to 6 months along and is due in january and she is going to make the kid call me aunt because we are so close, like sisters. i feel totally shocked because she is only 17 while she is gonna marry the guy, i know its gonna be hard for her, and im just not sure what to do for her right now, i just need some ideas because i am completely in shock. (link)
just do anything you can do for her and her bf


Hey.
Today I had a couple people come over, just to hang out, and I asked one of my best friends to comeover but she said she couldnt because she went out to lunch with her brother. So I said, "Oh, well when you get home call me so you can comeover." and she said ok. She never called me back so I just kinda forgot about it. Then I found out she saw our two other friends there and they asked her to go to the mall so she went! I asked her to comeover wayyy before they asked her to hang out! Ugh it just gets me so mad because I also told her yesterday that I wanted to hang out with her today and she said YEAH! I don't know if I should be mad at her or not. What do you think?
Thanks!
--> Jenna (link)
i think you should confront her and tell her how you feel about what she did


I write poems about a lot of thoughts that go on in my head. I want to share them with my friends, but I know if they don't appreciate them I will feel horrible. Once my friend found my journal filled with poems and she was just like, "Hmm. Do these all mean something to you?" and she just gave the idea of my poems were crap, which I know they aren't. I guess what I am asking is what should I say to my friends to make them understand how important these are to me? (link)
say to them that they are coming from the heart and you love the poems you write and it means so much to you




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