my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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Hey. I wrote this same question in oneandonly345, but I want to get all sorts of advice. I recently started my period. My friend doesn't have hers yet. She doesnt really have any boobs or any hair in the downstairs. Ik, sounds totally sick. But she's really upset. She cries to me all the time. What should I say to her to make her feel better? And what do you think about her situation? (link)
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she shouldnt want to get her perios because its really gross. i HATE it so0 much. its not like she needs it. it will come soon. she just needs to be patient. my friend was the same wway. shes gotten over it after we told her how gross it was. having your period is not a big deal. its not something to cry over. (not saying it in a mean way) yea oneandonly345 is my BESTEST friend. seriously. lub ya stine!
~natt~
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I have this friend and she is awesome! Me and her have a lot in common and i kind of want to be bfs with her but she`s bfs with my other friend and i dont no what to do. I think that her bf is not good enough for her and i just dont get it. I mean she`s nice and everything but sometimes she treats her like shit and like i no that i dont do that. I dont want to talk to her about it and it makes me really mad b/c sometimes she gets fed up w/ her and says that she`s not a good bf but then later something happens and she`s back to being bfs w/ her. WTF! What should i do b/c im tired of being pushed out of the picture everytime she wants to be her bf again? (link)
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talk to her about it and show her that you really are a true friend and show her that her supposidly (bff) isnt that great at all.
~natt~
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Ok, i'm going to a soccer camp, and it allows u an hour ansd a half for free time. since were not allowed to bring electronicts, i'm going to be so bored. I'm new on the soccer team that's hosting the camp, so what should i bring or do that can include some of the girls at the camp?
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board games and i guess you could play mini soccer games. that would be fun!
~natt~
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I had a friend sleepover last night, and now she wont get up!!!!!! I've tried everything, and i'm absolutly starving! What should I do?! (link)
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lol... pour some water on her or play loud music.
~natt~
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I was in art class when my "friend" came up to me and tugged my braid 'affectionately', but it hurt me and I ended up screaming almost at the top of my lungs "JESUS!" I felt bad after that because almost the whole class was staring at me, and my friend was ticked that I had screamed because she had done that to me before, but I think it's childish now and I refuse to let her. I feel really bad because you really shouldn't scream that in ANY class for that matter, because it might offend some people. I think I might have offended some people, but I was really embarrassed because I screamed so loud and I was dead quiet and my face was red. I don't know what to do. What should I do? (link)
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talk to your friend and tell her you werent expecting it. and you dont mind her doing it but she just scared you.
~natt~
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i dont really know what category to put this under...but does anybody have any good quotes/ sites to find them? i want some for my pro...thanks *i rate (link)
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go to www.xanga.com and click on users at the top and then type in quotes and it will show you all these sites. all you have to do is copy and paste. also just type it in at google.
Quotes
when hot isnt hot
and cold isnt cold
when people start growing young
instead of old
when 1+1 doesnt equal 2
is the day ill stop lovin you xoxo
my head is saying
[[ w.h.o c.a.r.e.s a.b.o.u.t h.i.m ? ]]
and my heart is screaming
[[ i d.o ]]
drama...they say they hate it
its funny because their the ones who create it.
× So lets play
romeo & juliet
& fall in love ..
just to die
he's her ..d..r..u..g..
and she's addicted
& you havent realized that
im crazy about ___ you
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these girls are being really mean. they say things behind my back and stuff and even though im not friends with them i still dont like it. it really sucks because it hurts me. they are all like "we are saying how we feel" but really, they are being just plain mean. and i have asked them to stop but they keep doing it!
HELP!
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i hate it when that happens. ppl just need to get some lives. they have no right to pick onyou. you most likely have something they want. next time they say something tell them to stop...again....but if it still continues tell a teacher or a guidense(sp) counseler(sp). "we are saying how we feel"- thats bs....you cant always speak what you want all the time especially if it is or purposfully said to hurt someone. hope i helped
~natt~
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Hey hon.
This is how you report somebody to the mods:
Just go to http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php and fill out the form. (link)
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thank u thank u thank u!
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I have no idea whose column this is. I saw this in my friend's favorite advice sites. So I'll ask you. There's this girl at my school, Natalie Drotar, real b****. Okay, she always bumps into me and doesn't say sorry and thinks shes so cool cause she went out with 'Chris Schavichiio' or whatever his name is. She is being a real bother. What should I do!? (link)
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nice going!! this is natalie and im GOING to find out who had the balls to put this in my column. u no it was my advice column. you are so stupid to even fuckin say "i dont no whos advice column this is" thats my first clue smarts! i dont ever bump into ppl and if i do i do say sry. and second of all i never acted "kool" cuz i went out with chris. thats a buch of bull shit. and guess what....you are bull shit. have a nice life and back the f*** off.
~natt~
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my best friend and i seem to be falling apart. her life is a dream. i know that she has imperfections.. but she knows that everyone envy's her. she has a boyfriend, and my other friends are being asked out all the time.. and i feel like an alien. i am so ugly.. and not to mention fat. i was invited to a party for this weekend, but i didnt go cause it was a pool party. i didnt want to be seen looking like.. me. i have the love handle things that roll over my pants, and i have pimples and am ugly. what can i do to become more self confident? (link)
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my best advice is to stop comparing yourself to other people. You were made for who you are and who you are supposed to be. you have more perfections than you do imperfections.
~natt~
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thanks for the advice about the party. but they were invited! thats why im wondering if id have fun at the party. they would all look at me and be like "what a weirdo!" (link)
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lol. who cares if they got invited. have a good time and ignore them. dont let them ruin the fun for you!! if they give you any trouble then dont even answer them. yoo are still invited and they cant get you off the list wether they like it or not!!!
~natt~
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Ok, I was invited to this party. A cool party. Everyone's questioning why I was even invited. It makes me feel like I shouldn't even go. Should I go? Would everyone just talk about me and say "Why is she here?" IDK! HELP! (link)
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YEA!!! i think i no wat party your talking about...maybe??? anyways who cares what they say. you shouold feel special that you were invited. they are obviously jelious that they werent invited. brush them off and just tell them that u were and they werent. :P
~natt~
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hey guys. i can never seem to get a bf. like i have a lot of guy FRIENDS. just FRIENDS. im always the friend, never the girl. i cant FLIRT! can anyone give me some flirting ways/tips/techniques? i love anyone who helps!!
i just cant open up so easy to guys i like and then when i do its like hey your funny and im like.. eh heh.. yeah just funny! it never turns into something more. last year (6th grade) i got a TON of guys! but this year im more friendly and brave and open.. ugh (link)
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just flash them cute smiles. make them want more from you. play around a little, just have funn while your at it too. you'll get used to it and from then on you'll be a natural. good luck! ;)
~natt~
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Hi, one of my friends is a total jerk and has absolutely no manners. She has serious social problems and everyone around her knows but her. She was so rude to me this week and I just wanted to strangle her. She invited everyone somewhere and she talked about it in front of me, but she didn't even invite me! I felt so heartbroken and my feelings were totally hurt. Should I confront her about this and possibly embarass her, or just let it slide, because she does have no manners, and this has happened before? (link)
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NEVER embarass your freind. she will totally hate you and if you were in her position then you wouldnt want to be humiliated either. just confront her and teel her how you feel. if she still doesnt see herself as annoying and rude then maybe you should consider not being friends.
~natt~
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At school there's these rumours going around about one of my friends, and someone decided to ask her about them. For some reason she goes and blames me for spreading stuff about her (which i havnt btw) and comes up to me after school shouting and swearing! i tried to explain that i hadnt dun anything but she wouldnt listen, and now shes started bitching about me to everyone i know! Also, i bought her a bday present before we argued and i havnt given it to her yet. I dont know whether to give it to her or not!! i really hate the way shes being so petty and immature, but should i try 2 make things up with her (everytime i try to speak to her she yells at me) or just leave it?
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call her up and talk to hr. maybe if shes acting that way she just needs a friend to talk to. it sux thinking a friend maybe turned on you. just talk to her and if it doesnt work out then jusst let it roll off your shoulder. dont sweat it
~natt~
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Ok well lately my friend has been ditching me a lot for her other friends. I feel like she thinks im not good enough for her. I will ask her if she wants to hang out, she will say she wants to adn then like 1 minute later she suddenly has plans to go somewhere with her other friends. But when i do get to hang out with her she is all nice to me and acts like she never ditched me. It really hurts my feelings, but when ever she asks if im mad at her i say no. Should i tell her how i feel? Please help me! (link)
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maybe you should say yes. tell her how you feel. if she doesnt understand then shes not worth it. maybe she'll turn around??
~natt~
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help. (link)
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wear black. be simpathetic to your friend and her family just to show that you care. you couls bring them some flowers. everyone like brings a bouqet or something.
~natt~
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I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done? (link)
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you should probobly just keep it kool and ask him why he ran off(pretend) so he'll think you didnt notice
~natt~
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my frend been acting like a totel cow the last few weeks in school just leaving us and dropping us,talking bout us behind our back.i had a go at her and she just turned on the tears and made the people who she was hangng round her go against me now i dont know what i can do cos when her mate hugged her when she was crying she smirked at me.what can i do.?plse reply swn xx (link)
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i think you should tell he whats going on and how you feel. like tell her that shes bothering you. tell her why you had that fight with her. maybe you should tell her other friends too. just be nice and understanding too!
~nat~
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I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~! (link)
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tell her that. i think you guyys have outgrown each other. try and branch out some. talk to your friend too. tht should help and she should understand
~nat~
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