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Hi im a 13 year old girl... whenever my friends have a problem they always come to me because im really good with advice... I admit there are times where I cant answer somethings but most of the time im good... but i can never seem to give myself advice...
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hey...its me again. well everytime i try and talk to her, she always starts yelling at me and she starts cursing me out and stuff...i really don't no what to do..
well then i dont think shes a true friend and im sorry that i didnt write back in awhile... i hope i helped... if you ever need more help just drop one in my box
Kati
13/fe well me and my friend fight a lot..and right now...were not talking and it makes me kinda sad. were not that good of friends but we hang ou once and a while and shes really nice. she has been kinda mean to me lately and im kinda scared that me and her won't become friends anymore. and like all of ym friends are friends w/ her and then either me or her wont be invited places becasue ppl would no we would cause a problem..what should i do now?:-/
i think you should talk it out with your friend... tell her that you dont really want to fight but shes been a little mean to you... dont be scared to talk to her about it... i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box...
Kati
my friend says we will be aiwasy best friends forever.then behind my back she makes friends with my sister and they become best friends.then when i ask her who she likes more she sayz i dunno but hangs with my sis ter more.do yo think shes still friends with me
well if she still hangs with you then she is and you shouldnt make her pick between u and your sister... if she stops hanging with you then shes not your friend.. I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help then drop one in my box :)
Kati
hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"?
welll if your so called "friends" are ganging up on you and being mean to you then they arent worth your time they arent really your friends... personally i rather hang out with the guys because they are kinda better then girls cuz girls always talk about eachother and they are whiney...
I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box!
Kati
Ther's this guy I like at my school. We flirt back and forth all the time but its a joke we made a couple of months ago. Just about everyone at school knows I like him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he knoew it to. Some times I sit by him at lunch but he kinda ignores me. I wanna tell him I like him but he just to go out with all these slut girlfriends who would make out with him anywhere. and well if i do tell him and we start dating, I don't want to be compared to all those other ex-girlfriends. Should I tell him??
i think you should tell him dont worry about being compared to those other girls... it doesnt matter what everyone else thinks it only matters what you think
I hope i helped if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box! : )
Kati
My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy
i think your friend may be bi-polar you need to tell her that she has mood swings and should maybe see a doctor about it... and tell her that your doing this for her sake to help her... hope i helped if u ever need more help drop one in my box!
Kati
my friend Katie (i kno i know, you have the same name) but yeah, she gets upset when her other friends dont invite her places. i dont know what to do. have this ever happened to you?
yes i have... and i get that way when ppl dont invite me places 2... your friend just feels left out... but its not something she'll freak out about but dont get madd at her for it... just talk to her about it and try to make her feel better... hope i helped if u need help again just drop one in my box!
Kati
I am going into 9th grade. My boyfriend and I have been together for about six monthes. I love him so much, but lately he's starting to be a jerk. He seems to care more about what he thinks than what I think, and he makes really gross jokes on occasion. I really want to tell him that unless he starts acting better, we're done. But whenever I see him I start going girly and I blush when he smiles at me. I don't know how to tell him, and I just can't seem to do it, but I know I need to. What can I do?
okay if you cant do it to his face call him and tell him or write it in a letter and stick it in his pants pocket... say something like "we have been together for awhile now and i have fallen for you but lately you been acting a little jerkish and you have been making nasty jokes... and I want you to stop... because i love you and i dont want to have to break up with you... i have tried to tell you but whenever im with you i get all girly and blush when u smile at me... please stop... i love you..."
IDK something like that hope i helped... drop one in my box if you ever need some help...
ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared
what he was doing was sexual harrsment you should tell your parent they'll understand and don't be scared too there your parent they'll know what to do and then you and your parents go to the cops and tell them acually what you told me and they'll put him away for sexual harrsment
Have you ever had a friend that cut theirself? tell the truth? tell me what you did to help
yes i did.... i tried to tell them to stop and when they felt down i talked to them so they wouldnt cut themself
Okay, i have a friend (yes a friends its not me!) and she cuts herself because her EX broke up with her. now shes been cutting herself. im worried about her, she only tells her closest friends. i tell her to stop but she says she cant help it. i really want her to stop. shes my very best friend and i dont want anything bad to happen to her. i love her! shes the best! i hate seeing her unhappy! when her parents see her cuts she says she ran into stuff, she fell and all those excuses! (she cuts everywhere on her body except her wrists) i wish i could do something but i dont know what to do! Have u ever had this problem? Please help me, even more, help my friend!!
-Only Wants To Help Out
you need to tell your friend how worried you are and tell her to cometo me or to come to you when ever she feels lik cutting and we can stop her from doing it... if it keeps going you might want to tell her parents or a guidance counslor so she can get help i hope i helped
kati