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How does one regain a trust broken!?
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regaining somone's trust takes a lot of time. There are other things you can do but i can't help you because i don't know what it is you did to break the persons trust.
ok, so just yesterday, 2 of my friends got in this big fight over something really stupid, & they said things that didnt need to be said or brought up, & didnt have anything to do with what they were fighting about in the first place!! & then one of the brought me into it, & got one of my friends to think that I talked crap about her, when I really dont!! I mean, they are both my friends, & I dont want them to not be friends because of this, because then I would have to choose. & one of my friends dropped the whole thing, as did I, but my other friend is still mad @ her. I mean, i can see why, but i just want her to drop it!! how can I convince her that its all over?!? please help..
well, just tell your friend that you aren't comfortable with her talking about your other friend to you and tell her that its over and its not a big deal and just ask her to talk to your other friend and maybe she'll get over it.
I'm 13/f and have a nagging problem. My friend and I have another friend thats really starting to bug us. She feels left out so eaisly, and she has to know EVERYTHING. Like, if I was talking to someone and she just walked up, she would have to know what we are talking about. Also, my friend and I feel like we can never hang out with ought her getting mad. What do I do?
Try talking to her about it. Maybe try to find out why she feels the need to know everything that you are doing. Also, try to find her another friend. Introduce her to some ppl you know and maybe she will make new friends and not feel the need to hang around you and your friend so much. As for her getting mad at you and your friend if ya'll hang out without her, that's just plain stupid. I wouldn't worry about it too much, like I said just try to introduce her to some new ppl and she may start to leave you alone and become less dependant on you.
Well, i used to think i was popular, not really populer, like the snobby kind, but i had a lot of friends. Now, i feel like i have very few, and most of them get on my nerves alot and they get annoying really fast, and bug me ALOT, and i get mad at them alot too. When i make new friends, i start to like them better, cuz they dont seem as annoying, you know? Even my good friends make me want to scream at them because they seem so stupid, or just dont get it. wat should i do?
Well, if your new friends don't make you feel so annoyed, they are probably better friends, so leave your old friends. Tell them you need some time to think things over, and go hang out with your new friends. If things change for you and you become happier, then stick with your new friends and forget about your old ones, in time they will forget about you too.
I have this one really good friend, and let's call her Jane. Jane and I met last year, when I came to her school for a gifted program. Jane and I became kinda friends, but I made a best friend that I'll call Kristen. It's a year later, and now were all good friends. But on the bus the other day, this girl I'll call Sam bad mouthed my friend. I asked Kristen if she liked Jane, and she said no not really. Jane is a really good friend of mine but I don't know what to do?
well, its really not up to you to fix your other friends' relationship. But if you really want to then... Talk to "kristen" about it and found out why she doesn't like "Jane". If you know why,then you might be able to take some step from there to try and fix things.
I have three really close friends, Taylor, Sarah, and Alyssa. We're all completely different but we get along really well.
So now here's my question, Alyssa's going out with this guy, Micheal. And Taylor and I don't like him at all, infact we hate him. He lives in a differnt city now, but when he did live out here he went out with two of my other friends... and cheated on both of them. Alyssa looks past this because she's been in love with him for almost a year. He never really showed interest in her until a month ago when he was horny and she was willing.
Then Julia his latest ex and Alyssa's good friend found out and got mad at both of them. Because Alyssa didn't ask if it was ok to be with him, even though he and Alyssa didn't actually go out just do... stuff... Then after all the fights, Micheal has the nerve to actually ask her out. And Julia get's pissed again because she warned Aly about him.
But then the cherry on top was that Alyssa bring's him to Sarah's birthday, uninivted, of course Taylor and I make him feel so akward he leaves. Then Alyssa lies and leaves halfway through the party saying she has to go home. To hang out with him, and when we find out and call her, she lies about where she is and who she's with saying she's christmas shopping.
What should I do she doesn't listen and he's an ass. Who's already cheated on her once and they've only been going out for about two weeks.
And she's a virgin and he's reeeeeally horny!!!!!
Wow, well first off if she doesn't know about him cheating on her find a way to help her find out. That might change her mind real fast. I really don't know what else to tell ya, jsut give her some space for awhile, I'm sure the time will come when he will dump her or she will find out about him cheating on her...agian.
Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.
I definately think she is hiding something from. The problem is that you wouldn't be able to find out unless she wanted you to know. Just pull her aside sometime and try to find out. Just tell her how you feel and see if she'll open up to you. If she won't then she probably doesn't want to be your friend and you should jsut hang with your other friends and get new ones.
Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot!
For the annoying one: Just say that you feel like yall are growing apart and ya'll need to spend some time apart for awhile to sort things out. Maybe if she starts to spend time with other people she will foret about bugging you. Also, you can tell her that you don't like that she back talks that other girl and tell her that you don't want to ne friends with someone who talks trash about others.
As for the adorable one: Keep getting closer to her. She could become one of your really good friends you never know.
ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me
if he has another girlfriend and is flirting with you, then he is a true playa. I would just try my best to forget about him, and try to move on. As for the whole pregnancy thing, I would just talk him about it but only when hes alone. or you can talk to his girlfirend about it. Hope I helped.
dear advicenators i have a friend who cuts herself i havent known her for a long time bcz i just moved here but she does it and she cant stop !!! i would like some advice on how to help her stop ...
thanx
My sdvice is to tell someone. A school counselor, a teacher, somone's parents, just anyone. You can't help her in any way. trust me I've been through it before. you need to tell and adult who can get her help fast.