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I'm 13/f and have a nagging problem. My friend and I have another friend thats really starting to bug us. She feels left out so eaisly, and she has to know EVERYTHING. Like, if I was talking to someone and she just walked up, she would have to know what we are talking about. Also, my friend and I feel like we can never hang out with ought her getting mad. What do I do?
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Tell her that you don't want to hang out with her because she has to know everything you do and if she gets mad tell her you will hang out with her if she stops.
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Well, if your friend walks up when you're in a conversation just say, "Hey. I'll tell you later, k?" and most likely she'll forget about it. And if she gets mad because you hang out with other people sit her down and say "Look, you're my friend and you will ALWAYS be my friend. Just because I hang out without you sometimes doesn't mean that we're not friends anymore. But you're just kind of making me mad by accusing me of leaving you out all the time. I'm sorry you feel that way, and I don't mean to."
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well i think maybe you should try to get her to hang out with other people also. somtiems talking wont get your way out of it. she needs to make more friends so shes not to left out and parinoid. thats what i would do
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-gunner
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Try talking to her about it. Maybe try to find out why she feels the need to know everything that you are doing. Also, try to find her another friend. Introduce her to some ppl you know and maybe she will make new friends and not feel the need to hang around you and your friend so much. As for her getting mad at you and your friend if ya'll hang out without her, that's just plain stupid. I wouldn't worry about it too much, like I said just try to introduce her to some new ppl and she may start to leave you alone and become less dependant on you.
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