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Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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Any one know any good friendship qoutes they can send me? (link)
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It's great for any kind of quote you may want


For our youth group's grad night, a group of us want to get our graduating seniors 'farewell gifts'. There are 15 of them in total. We want to get them each something nice and personalized for each of them. So far the ideas we had are:

personalized towels
personalized dogtags

and that's.. pretty much it. kind of sad. what we do know what we're getting them each a pair of sandals though. And that already is going to cost around 75 dollars to 105 dollars give or take.

The towels i THINK, the ones we might get, are around 12 dollars each (with name and such), which would be about 180 dollars give or take.

The personalized dogtags would be between 90-100 dollars (from online).

We dont have a big budget because it's around 20-30 teens just donating what they have (i.e. 5-20 dollars which would total of 100 dollars to maybe 200 something) if everyone donated.

basically, if you managed to make it all the way through,what are some gift ideas that our youth group can do for our 15 seniors that are personal AND dont cost too much? (link)

:: From http://www.personalizationmall.com ::

- Picture Frames with each persons name engraved on it (about $20-$30 each)

- Autograph Graduation Caps (about $10 each)

- Candy bar wrappers (you put them around like a Hershy's candy bar) (about $1 a wrapper)




hi jeanpeen! lol i was wondering if you knew how many calories are in chicken noodle soup? : ) (link)
Let me go check the cabinet .. JeaninyPenny? Jeanpeen? WTF?
Chicken noodle soup has 60 calories and 15 calories from fat


me and this grl were best frends at first and we have benn on and off like i have told her we shouldnt be frends then we would be frneds but one time she slpapeed my and then we wrnt frnesd but then i forgave her?? should i still be her frends if she is doing this 2 me??ughh.. (link)
thats complicated. I'm not sure what exactly is going on here, but it sounds like you and your friend have some issues to solve. You need to sit down and just talk it ALL out. I can't tell ya anything else unless I know the whole story.

If that doesnt work or she doesnt want to. Then you shouldnt be friends. Friends always work out their problems.


hey, i just had an idea to make my friend a cd. One with cheerful songs so when she's feeling sad it will make her feel better. Does anyone know some good songs that will put her in a good mood?
Thanks! (link)
Put a smile on.. idk who sings it.. and Don't worry, be happy, and songs like that. Go to www.letssingit.com and search lyrics that contain words like cheer up and be happy and stuff.


My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! (link)
Well.. if you interefered in their relationship..then you ARE a bitch.. if they broke up on their own.. okay. fine. You were jealous either way.. so get over it!


my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?

any advice? (link)
Take her pills for her! HAHA!! They really work for gettin high for a lil while! Cept you can't sleep if you take them at night.. so i recommend takin them before skool.. then your high all day... and dont sleep through class!!

HAVE FUN


yeah sometimes we do link arms and i mean together like the 5 of us, and we walk threw the mall and i always seem to be next to him or a person away. (link)
Try to get some time alone with him. Maybe you and him could shop together.


ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh (link)
1. Tell her.. just tell her you need to talk to her.. If shes your BFF.. then you should have no problem..She might be a little jealous or get a lil mad at you.. but she wont hate you or anything
2. Just keep talkin to him.. and hangin out with him as much as possible. Flirt with him a little bit. Give him a hug before you leave from hangin with him. Or maybe a slight kiss on the cheek.
3. There really isn't much of a way without words. SORRY
4. Hugs.. a slight kiss on the cheek.. stuff like that.. Or holding hands/linking arms. Stuff like that will let him know your interested.

Just remember though.. guys will come and go.. but your friends will always be there. So if your friend tells you she dont want you datin him cuz it would hurt her.. respect her. After all.. she is the reason you met him.

GOOD LUCK


Tonight I am going roller skating for the girl scouts. One of my friends who lives in my neighborhood is coming with me. So, I asked my mom if she could sleep over. My mom said yes then she paused. She said the only problem was we are going to church tomorrow and my friend's parents don't like her going to church. One night she was going to come over but once her parents found out we were going to church they forbid her. My friend has only been to chhurch 3 times in her life! It's not fair that she can't go the second her parents find out that my family is going to church. She's the same religon as me so why does it matter? So I'm wondering should I still invite her over? What do I do? (link)
Well.. is there a way you can take her home before you go to church? Usually church starts around 9:00 am or so.. Why dont you just take her home then go to church. Then it works out both ways


what would you do if you thought your best friend liked your boyfriend? I talked to my boyfriend about it and my friend knows, but i can't tell my best friend how i feel about everything. help pleaz (link)
Kick the best friends ass


my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do? (link)
Well.. these "friends" seem to be a bad influence.. It was a lil hard to follow.. but here goes what i think!

Your friends attitude-- you shouldnt have to deal with that. IF they get an attitude with you, just walk away. Its the best thing to do. They wont be mad at you .. and u dont have to put up with it!
The friend thats "mad"-- Talk to him! Theres isnt any other way to settle this. If you wont talk to him, then u most likely wont be friends. I'm pretty sure he cant read ur mind. If he thinks ur mad, let him know your not. There really isnt any other way to let him know ur not!!


okay i have these friends who are seniors and they mean so much to me! i am a junior and i want to give them something that they can enjoy so i decided to make a sort of photo album/ yearbook of friends sort of thing. so anyway i want to kno if u guys have any ideas on how i can get started or comments about what i should put in the book! if u have any suggestions on where i can call to get info about making a book or going on the web please let me kno!!

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Well.. when u start putting it together.. start with the pictures u have from when u first met. Do it in kind of Time order. That way.. they can just go through all the times you have been friends. Starting with when u first met. It will be a little more personal that way.. cuz they will remember how much fun u guys had together.. and how much u meant to each other.


Ive never smoked weed and I dont plan to.. but why do people do it ? Like what happens when you get high .. whats so good about it ? (link)
Well.. ive done it once.. and its really fun actually. Your just like relaxed and up to anything. You dont totally lose your mind.. but you are kind of unaware of whats going on. If you get too high tho.. or puff too much.. you start to cough.. and feel like your choking..
But if u do it right.. its alot of fun!


okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!! (link)
Don't nag your friend, but be there for her. If u think something is wrong in her relationship, talk to an adult. Let them know whats going on so they can talk to her. This guy is a lil old for her, but Its up to her who she dates. If they have sex tho, he can go to jail for Statatory rape (spelling?) for having sex with a minor. I know guys that that has happened to. Just watch her back for her. And the moment u think something is really wrong, TALK TO SOMEONE. Thats about all u can do for her since she wont listen to u.

Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!

** Jeanine **


the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it? (link)
Get a Prepaid Cellfone. Then u can just buy minutes as u need them without having to be tied with a contract. Thats what I have. I would recomend Verizon Prepaid tho. Go to a verizon wireless carrier and get one. The actual Tracfone brand of fones.. really suck!! They are SOO expensive. For like $80 u get the same amount of minutes u get from verizon for $45. I have Tracfone and my sister has Verizon. I would DEFINITLY recomend Verizon over any other prepaid plan.

Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox!!

** Jeanine **



ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum (link)
Just keep ur old friends while making new. Who knows, maybe ur old friends will be easier to get along with if u dont spend as much time with them. If u spend time with them and other people, u will prolly get along better since ur not seeing as much of each other and getting tired of each other.

Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!! Im always here to help!!

** Jeanine **


My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come! (link)
Well.. sleep overs are always fun. Since ur b-day is in November.. its a lil harder... Where r u from? That makes a difference... If ur from like the Mid-west.. then thats a lil tougher... but if its warm in winter where ur from.. try having a bunch of friends stay over and sleep out in the yard or in a tent.. Thats always fun cause u can do whatever u want all night and not get in trouble by parents for being awake.

But like i said... it all depends on where ur from too..

Hope I helped a lil!!


my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be (link)
I know what ur going through. Except im like ur friend in some ways. I have done more than most of my friends-- i've gotten High, i've drank alcohol (not been wasted) and i've had sex and stuff like that.

Since I told my best friend, our friendship has changed too. Just try to keep things as close as u can to the same. Tell her u don't like hearing about the stuff she tells u. That might make a small difference. Or just sit down and tell her that u feel like ur friendship has changed and u dont like those changes.

Just dont go out and do that stuff if ur not ready just so u and ur friend will have something to talk about. That would prolly be the worst thing to do.

Hope I helped!


ok i am friends with these two girls and i really like them both well they are always together like 24/7 day and night well like when ever i wanna do somthin with either of them they both come like we had a school dance and like i went and i didn't have anyone to go with so i asked they both were like hey we will go with u so instead of buying dinner for one person and one set of flowers i had to by two and like they are always flirting with me like tonight they came over and we were watching a movie and like they both got all dressed up skirt heals everything both lookin so sexy and like they are laying all over me and like no matter what they wont ever do anything with me not just tonight but ever! i mean like we are completely cool with each other we ain't got no problems stripin infront of each other so it's not like we got anything to hide from one another but i want to know like they will be like all over me some times but they always say they don't like me and like they will never do anything with me and i wanna know is why do they do this to me!

15/m (link)
TEASES!! Girls just like to mess with a guy's mind. Its just like a game to us. If we know u like us.. then we like to play hard to get and tease u. We all know its torture... so we do it for fun. Don't take it to heart. They prolly like u but don't want to tell u. If they keep teasing u.. then just tell them u don't like it.. and u really like them both. If they still don't want a relationship with u.. then just stay friends with them but don't let them hang all over u when ur together..

Hope I was of some help!!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!

**Jeanine**




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