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All right, my friend and her boyfriend (they're both 16) have been going out for about 8 months now, and neither I nor my friends have seen much of her at all. Honestly, we get to talk to her for more than 5 minutes about once every couple weeks, and it's really getting us all down. We've tried talking to her, but it's practically impossible because she gets defensive and then drags us into an argument, instead of talking and understanding. I understand that now she's got a boyfriend who she cares about we're not going to see as much of her, but it's been taken to an extreme.
I just really don't know what to do about it. I'm really close to her, and it's getting me and my friends down. We don't want to lose her, but it's frustrating that she's dropped us for a boy. (link)
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First of all ive seen this happen many times they get to attached to ther boyfriend then went its over they run back to you so just tell her that just say we dont want to you to get to attached we donbt want to see you upset and if he does hurt you your gonna run back to us and tell her you miss her you want to at least spend a few hours with use if she starts an argument leave what goes around comes around =]
[xOo]tC Keep Smiling =]
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does anyone know any sad, goodbye songs for when your best friend is moving away? (link)
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Nickleback have great songs =]
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ok well here's the thing. my friend has totally made some stupid choices recently. I know that shes getting older and im also not her mom. but 14 is too young to be out having sex with people especially considering her past with health issues. god knows what else is going on (drugs? drinking?) I dont' know who to go to for help, my friends have told me things too but I can't take the depression i've developed over this. I knwo this problem is common and people view it differently...but I'm scared for her and have run out of resources.. :( (link)
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WOW !!!!!!!!!
first of all your a GREAT friend talk to her and explain how you feel and tell her the consequences and if she dosnt lisiten just say to her when you get hurt or if something goes wrong dont come up to me because i warned you and im your friend im scared and i dont want to see you get hurt maybe you can also talk to a teacher or some close to you
sorry if it wasnt goOd enough but iit was tough lol
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Hey, how are you?
Have you ever dated a guy? When you have a crush, did the guy you like, like you back?
If so, maybe you can help me.
I'm 14/F and never dated or even got told a guy likes me. Currently, I have a huge crush on this super cute boy. (He's one of those guy aren't like from a bunch of girls, I think. My friends say that he isnt ugly, but isn't hot) Is there any hints that I can know he likes me? I want him to like me...he's a year older than me and when my friend and I talk to him, he replies. He doesn't say much but only answers the question...does that mean he is shy or just doesn't want to talk?
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Hey Hun
OK well i have been in this situation ask your friends to look at him to see if he always stars at you and ask him qestions if he replys to all that can be a sign just bring a convresation up and yeh i think his shy adn you sound like a great person whats not to like =]
♥♥♥♥ Much Love
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I'm writing my friend a letter about why she should not smoke weed. She wants to try it because her best friend at another school got high. What should my letter say?
NOTE: I want to avoid the following things...
1. Sounding like a parent
2. Sounding like a Hallmark card
3. iF YoU TyPE LyKe ThIs then don't answer my question or give me advice
4. I want to make her THINK sincerely
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Hey Hun
well i say none write what your herat tells you to just tell her how much you care for her and how much you want to look out for her and you want her dtop before something happenes if she ignores you well she is not afriend just ignore her if seh dosnt stop live your life dont get involved in abd things like you should have to feel apart of it just let her go you can get better friends trust me been there done that take care mwa
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i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.
me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.
so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?
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Hey hun
Well um to you it might not sound that serious but to your boyfriend it will because like that was a sexual talk adn your gonn arelly need to explain to your boyfriend what it ment cause atm he has no idea so if i was you id tell him
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I have this friend who I met a few months ago. We became almost like best friends (emphasis on almost) until I noticed something..she follows me. If I don't show up for lunch one day she looks around the school for me. If I don't show up to meet with her and our "possy" in the morning one day, she goes everywhere to find me, and this just creeps me out. On top of that, she ALWAYS needs my help with math homework. Always. Whenever I help her, she just says "I don't know how to do it" and when I show her, she scoots so close to me and it makes me feel like punching her. I was doing my homework this morning and said I was busy so she sat there looking at me while I did it.
Anyways, I told another friend about this and SHE told HER. And so she cried during first period and ugh. What should I do?
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Hey
well yeh she could like you or she jus feels like really close to you because use have known eachother for a while so she might feel safe around you but most likely i think she likes you sit her down and talk to her and etll why she does that because if you have friends doing it for you yeh it will hurt her alot more thas why you need to do it yourself.when seh comes out with the truth the you can it will be easier for you to nkow what to do adn hot to feel well gd luk mwa mwa
love : hilda
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I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do? (link)
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hey
well um talk to her agin but tell her this time you need her to really lisitien tell her that if she likes the guy that she should tell him so she knows if he likes her or not and tell her it's stressing you out beacuse you love her as a friend and you dont want a guy to interfeer tell her that friends always come first beacuse boys r on and off and friends are awlays there no matter what but if she wants to choose a guy over a friend then she isnt a true frend and she needs to respect her friends a little more because you wer ethey one that loved and cared for her before her crush came alone so tell her she really needs to think about what she chooses because you feel lft out and you really want everything to be the same and if seh dosnt care then move on there are other great people to look fowrd to and when her crush upsets her she will come running up to you saing srry and from there you can make ur mind if you want to be her friend or not
well take care mwa mwa
: love hilda hope i helped and please do rate me :):)
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My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice. (link)
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hey
Well tell him that he needs to ask her out his self maybe the girl said no ebacuse sh wanted him to do it his self you never know well yeh tell him to ask her out his self adn if she rejects tell him he can do better and there is some one out there you just have to wait and tell the gir that she needs to get to nkow him better before saying no
well take acre mwa mwa hope i helped : love : hilda
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I have a friend that is going out with a guy who is really bad for her. He has hurt her before. He has sprained my wrist purposely and he is a drug dealer. He deals hardcore stuff; cocaine, crystal meth, heroin, etc. She has done coke in the past and she was beginning to develop a dependancy, but my friends and I helped her to kick it. We think that she has started using again and has probably started with other drugs, too. We've tried talking to her, but she won't seem to listen. Is there any way we can get her away from him? Thanks. (link)
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Hey Hun
well you should tell her parents it might cause some problems between use but tell her you love her as a friend and you dont want anything to happen to her and telling her parents was the best option and if dosnt wnat to be your friend well hey look on the bights side she will eventually tell you how right yoy were adn how rry she is andit's better to lose a friend for a while then losing her forever or watching something bad happen to her cause she needs to learn what life is really about
well take acre and gd luk mwa mwa
love : hilda mwaz
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I was wondering were i could find a penpal (to like talk to through email or aim)
or if any GIRL who types nice would like to be my penpal
(even though the word penpal is pretty stupid more like friend.)
and im 13/f by the way.
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hey id love to be your penpal you sound like a great person well if you my msn hot mail it is hilda_is_a_hilary_britney_liker@hotmail.com or you can add me here just add me in the box
well take care mwa mwa
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So, I'm a boy, my friend is a girl..her boyfriend has recently gotten back and they are w/ eachother a lot. So they had sex a few times the first week, and it's been like 3 weeks now. They have sex at least once every day(i'm pretty sure) but if not, just about. Well i don't care, because her bf is my friend too..but what DOES actually piss me off is that we were watching a movie, and when her mom went to church, the very second she pulled out of the driveway, they ran to her room to have sex. leavin me there alone..i don't want to piss her off but i want her to know that it bugs me..how do i do it w/out hurting her? (link)
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well hey im only 13 but i will try to help you well um first you need tot alk to your friend tell how you feel and what you would expect from a friend and is se dosnt listien tell her to reamember that friends always come first stand up for your self and tell her when he boyfriend dumps her not to come crawling to you and tell to remember who was there before he boyfriend and who was the once that cared adn loved you before your boyfriend came and if she ignores you tell her she's not a true friend and seh needs to learn that friends will always be there but boyz are on and off
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