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Hi, about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY
I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
I HOPE YOU RESPECT THAT
If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.
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so lately my crush/freind/stand partner in orchestra (his name is alex) has been treating me a little bit diffrently than he has been like today when he wanted to get my attention (he ussually just says my name) he touched my shoulder yesterday when we were walking to our lockers (they'r just a set of lockers apart) and i told him (becouse i was mad at 2 people that day) that i dont get mad too easily but when i do get mad i get really mad then i told him that he doesnt want to get me mad so then (jokenly) he called me a loser then when he said that he was just joking he touched my shoulder and one day it was really cold out in the morning and we were waiting to go into the school and i just had short sleeves and jeans on and i was shivering so he said that i could wear his jacket i said no and today during orchestra when i told him (becouse he asked) that i dont have a bf he told me that he is gonna ask a girl out but i have no idea who she is but is there a possibility that its me today when we were handing back our sight reading music (he ussually just says my name or puts the music on the stand) but he put the sheet music on my head instead of just saying my name so i would know that the music from the people in the stand behind me needs to be handed up and when i was handing it to the person in the stand in front of mine and alex's i said (while laughing) hey sorta like a why did u do that hey not like a annoyed or mad hey i am not new at the school and him and i have been good freinds since the start of the school year.him i talk alot more to him than i have with my bff reenay this week i have probobly talked to him more than i have to reenay all school year.he does get really annoyed and mad (he does not get annoyed or mad easily at all or very often) if when i am talking to him and one of his other freinds interupes me but he does not get really annoyed if i interupt him or the person that he is talking to but i try not to do that.he asked me how my bf is doing then i told him that i dont have a bf and he said oh and that he is gonna ask a girl out then he started to act a little diffrently around me
It definately sounds like this kid has a crush on you!! Congrats!!
He's flirting a lot, like finding reasons to touch your shoulder, instead of calling your name.
And guys usually ask if you have a boyfriend before they ask you out just to make sure they have a chance!!
Good Luck!
He seems cute! =]]
My boyfriend's mom & sister-in-law have always kind of had a love/hate relationship, I guess. They get mad at each other then make up. I'd never seen it happen, though, until today.
I was at their house & my boyfriend's mom pretty much went off on his sister-in-law for not helping out with the kids (his sister-in-law has 5 kids & his mom & dad pretty much raise them). She was telling her that she wanted to be able to talk to me without having to yell at the kids, but his sister-in-law was just messing with her phone. So, then they pretty much went there seperate ways.
The problem I'm having is, I'm kind of close with both of them. I talk to both of them a lot & everything, but I kind of feel like I'm taking sides. They both sort of badmouth the other sometimes, & I understand them getting aggrevated at each other, but I always try to cheer people up, so naturally when they say something bad about the other, I always want to say "yeah, I know", but I don't want to be badmouthing both of them behind their back.
Is there anything I can do to not try to take sides, or help them without talking bad about the other?
I understand its uncomfortable, I know what its like. BUT!!!... if I were you, I'd personally tell them both that you dont want to be in the middle of this (and you can say it in a nice way, I'm just giving you the basics). Tell them you love both of them and you dont want to hear them talk about each other. Say that there are plenty of other things to talk about but this topic is off limits. Make sure you clearly tell them that you understand they're agravated but you don't want to take sides or have any part of this. They will respect your opinion. You cannot listen to them then say "yeah, i know" because that's you agreeing with them, and eventually it can lead to a bad situation where it gets brought up in an arguement.
I know it can be hard to say that to someone, but I guarantee you, if you say it the right way and tell them that you'd really appreciate it if they didn't speak about the other because you are friends with both, they'll understand. And it'll be much easier for you once you tell them.
I hope I helped, good luck, & don't be stuck in the middle!
I got an email saying my default picture was on this site. Why would my picture be on here and who put it on here?
if you got the message from myspace it's most likely a fake message and they are trying to phish onto your site.
DO NOT GIVE THEM YOUR EMAIL OR PASSWORD because they will use it to hack into your webpage and change stuff.
I feel completely stupid for saying this, but I cant stand myself. I mean I hate the way I look. I hate like everything about me. Well okay not everything, because I love the way I think like i know i'm intelligant and stuff but I litteraly hate myself. I dont feel like I have any true friends and I hate myself more for saying that because I have a best friends that I can tell mostly everything except this kind of stuff. (This is probably really confusing)I feel like my inteeligance is the only thing that I have to live for. I know that probably sounds stupid too. I'm just so confused right now and and hurt and it sounds pathetic but like no one cares about me and like i have no control over my life cause everytime i try to make my self a little more at the very least likable i cant seem to do it. I think about just ending things alot like just giving up on everything or something but i feel like i'm meant for something. I dont know i'm so confused right now. I just dont know.
ok well if you think no one cares about you then my comment and the comments under mine wouldn't be on here.
i understand you feel like the only thing you have is your intelligence, BUT from what you're saying about you not having true friends and actually having a best friend has to somehow make you question whether or not you're thinking about things the right way.
and if you feel you have no control over your life cause then you are absolutely wrong. it is always up to you as long as you decide what you want and go for it. and i'm sure you are meant for a lot of things but haven't realized it. for instance, this best friend of yours... you have a meaning to be with that person and be their best friend because that best friend needs you. and if the friend didn't need you, you wouldn't have been best friends.
and stop questioning yourself please!!! don't say things sound "pathetic" if that's not how you feel.
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xxes25
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ok so i have this friend her name is lizsandra. her recent boyfriend dumped her and he didnt tell her why he just said he wanted to be friends with her.so today at school she was in the girls bathroom making she was making herself through up and shes thinking of commmiting susicide what advice should i give her?
i really really hope this helps. and after you've talked to this girl, i would really like to know what happens. so please let me know.
"ok i know sucide seems like the only way out. BUT killing yourself means that life for you right now is as bad as it's ever gonna get, which means, it WILL GET BETTER. the time might not be this instant but it will soon. and for this guy that left you... you should be glad because why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't want you? it should just be a TURN OFF for any guy who doesn't like you for who you are... and i'm sure there are plenty of things to like (here would be a good time to name some). and suicide isn't the answer... its only an easy way out.. so would you rather find a way out, or stick around and find a guy that's absolutely amazing... which i'm sure will happen.
IM me if you or this girl wanna talkk and please let me know if i helped and if she's alright.
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my friend is talking to this guy, and he is considered kinky, but she is the ultimate good girl, she get on to you for cussing, doesnt mess around with guys etc. so this guy likes her alot, and she doesnt like him as much, but she likes him. im afraid they are going to go out, and she is going to get into ANOTHER bad relationship where the guy pressures her into doing things she doesnt want to do. i've already told her that i dont like that kid, and why.
what should i do to keep from seeing my friend get hurt again?!
im a f/16
if you've already told her how you feel, then you've done enough. you don't wanna keep repeating it because she'll start getting annoyed with you. you've done everything you can as a friend, she's heard your opinion, and if she makes the right decision then great for her. otherwise it's not up to you to decide if she goes out with this kid or not. PLUS she'll learn after a while as to which boys to date and which ones not to date. and she can't learn her lesson without experiencing the good and the bad.
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xxes25
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i thought that i was good friends with dani but she urged her best friend to sleep with my boyfriend. then lied to me about it and hangs out with my boyfriend and lies to me about that too. now, i find out that she talks bad about me behind my back to anyone that will listen. i dont even know what to say to these people. how should i handle this? i need to stick up for myself, i have spent WAY to many years being walked on.
obviously i dont think you want to be friends with people like that so you might as well not talk to her. If she decides to confront you, then you can tell her off if you like. HOWEVER!!.... if your boyfriend can't respect the fact that this girl is talking about you behind your back, then you should definately be done with him. if he truly wants to be with you, he'd stick up for you when other people are obnoxious.
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xxes25
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