I like this guy so much and i dont even think he knows i exist i mean like i talk to him all the time but all he ever tells me is about his girl problems and how they all piss him in off when i know deep inside me we are meant for eachother but i dont know what to do...HELP!
I think you should tell him how you feel and stop telling you about his girl problems. Just tell him how you feel about him. Who knows, maybe you 2 will be together? i would tell him and see if he feels the same way.
good luck!
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i tried out for a PLAY AND I GOT A BAD PART WITH LIKE 1 WORD AND MY FRIEND GOT THE BEST PART AND SHES BRAGGING ABOUT IT WHAT DO I DO?
I think you should tell her friend to stop and tell her how you feel. Just say:"i really dont like you always bragging about having the best part in the play, it really makes me feel bad and its annoying me" something like that.
good luck!
~~good luck in the play too~~
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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
Sincerely,
Loved friend
I think you should talk to your friend \. Just tell her something like this "look, i really like jeff but i know you used to like him but then you stopped so now he likes me and i kinda like him but i really want to stay friends with you" something like that. Just tell her how you feel. and tell her how you feel about Jeff. If you just tell her the truth im sure she will understand.
good luck!!
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Well what happened is my and my friends are great together there is only 3 of us and we are really close, but for a while now my friend has been going on about this girl she met at a club and they have become really good friends and she and her have become best friends i mean that me and my other friend have been her friend longer we have known each other since we was little and it seems like this other girl sarah it toltally taking her away from us help us please elly and lisa will rate
I think you should talk to your friend. Tell her you feel like you are loosing her as a friend. And you want her to come back to your guys. Tell her that you miss her. And tell her you dont like her friend that she is talking about. And that she is talking about her too much.
good luck!
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Ok, so i am not cool with my friend going out with this girl i know. they are so not meant for each other. and my other friends like this guy too. I just don't understand why he has to be such a sweetie. it's so complicated! what am i supposed to do?
Talk to him. And talk to yuor other friend who likes him too. Just tell your guy friend how you feel. Just be like "i dont think you and your girlfriend are ment 4 each other. I just dont want you to get hurt" (if thats what you think).
good luck!!
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My best friend always copies my looks! Like if i tell her ive found a certain store that i like to go to, she'll just one day start shopping there and tell all our other friends she found it first! And its not just like materials..she said that she liked matt -our crush- way before i did. But when i told her i liked him last year she said oh i think hes kind of ugly. I mean is she really my friend?? shes so annoying ..what do i do? plz help!!
If a friend always wantsa to come before you and lie to her other friends then she doesn`t really seem like a 'good' friend. You can try talking to her. just say "stop copying me, stop acting like me and stop lieing to your friends about you always doin stuff that i did first. Its really anmoying me so stop it" or something like that. Just tell her how you feel.
good luck!!
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well i have two best friends ((Rachel and Rissa)).. well heres some back ground.. rachel hates rissa but rissa doesnt hate rachel.. but rachel stayed over last night and i wrote a letter to my mom saying that riss was comming over soo she was like.. okay ill have rachel go home!! soo then rachel gave me the silent treatment cuz she new that something was up!!! soo i couldnt tell her cuz i didnt know if rissa was even comming over ((we had planned her coming over for a while)) so then we got back to my house and rachel says I WANT TO GO HOME. soo she goes home and then all of a sudden i get a text message saying WE CANT BE FRIENDS AND MORE and i was like why and she never responded.. well i no she will get over it and everything but when shes mad.. she tells everything i told her.. and she has alot on me like stuff im not going to get into.. but its really bad if she tells the people which i think she will and i dont know what to do about this because i think this could be a lonnnnnng fight and she will tell people everything and i have a few things on her but she will just deny it.. i need help!!!!! HELP ME PLEASEE
Ask her why you dont want to be friends. I would do it on the phone or face to face. Be like "whats up with you not wanting to be friends with me anymore?..what did i do?.i dont know what i did and if i dont know what i did then i can fix it or say sorry, so please, whats going on?" or something like that.
good luck!!
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well, see i used to have these two really good friends and I had so much fun around them. then things got shaky and they started hanging around these really bad guys that always wanted us to do stuff for them , and I couldnt take it. turns out, their realtionships at home got worse and they started fighting with their moms and such. but i still remember all the fun times we had. should i let them back in?
Only be friends with them again if you know that they are the right friends for you. If they treat people badly and do bad stuff for people then i would not be friends with them. If they are going to be doin bad stuff i would stay away from them.
good luck!!
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A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?
Confront her. Just say to hear "listen, i dont want to start a fight with you but im really tired of you being in my and other peoples buisness. its really annoying me so please stop" something like that. Make sure she understands that you dont want her to be in your buisness too. and tell her not to talk behind peoples backs. And if she ever does it to you just be like thats it im not here to play you little games so leave me alone or something like that.
good luck!!
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My friend wrote:
how's everyone? been not so pleased for the past few days thinking about my hip surgery. and watching ballet has been really upsetting to me, so today i had to watch a rehearsal for the ballet carmen that i was supposed to do, so that made me sad in the first place and then i had to teach the replacing me the role. and then this said to me "i can't believe you ruined your body" like i meant to. i had to leave the room before i started crying. i'm just afraid that when they do the surgery they'll look at my hip joint and tell me that it's so affected by the arthritis that i won't be able to pursue ballet anymore.ah well, must think positively
what can i do for her to make her feel better?! any suggestions??
Maybe you you can rent one of her fav. movies and you two can watch it together. Or maybe you can do her nails, hair and make-up just for fun.stuff like that.
good luck!
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OK i have a problem.. I kind of told my friend i started my period a longggg time ago ( A WHOLE YEAR) so all this time ive bin lieing. Lately my friend was talking 2 my sister and mentioned me and my period. My sister asked if i really did and i said yes. So now i am lieing 2 my sister and my friend but wait it gets WORSE! my friend asked my mom about it ( my friend is like family) and my mom said she didnt think i started! i HATE lieing 2 them about it and everytime i see my mother im worried she'll bring it up! Same with my friend! Please HeLP!
I think you should tell your friend the truth. And i think you should tell your mom and sister that you didn`t start it yet. They are girls, they will understand. Just tell them the truth and it will all work out.
good luck!!
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I have no friends ne more.... they treat me like shit I hate my life why dont i just kill myself
No! dont kill yourself. Its not worth it. Get some new friends that like you for who you are and will treat you like a freind. (or just talk to your old friends) killing yourself is NOT the anwser. ~~always look on the bright side of life~~. I think you should make new friend or talk to your old ones about how they treat you.
good luck!
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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?
I think you should just tell her flat out how you feel. If you dont know what to say just be like "i think its really annoying that you talk about your b/f everyday. im not trying to be mean but its for your own good. i dont want to hear about your sex life" something like that.
if you just tell her how you feel then it will be OK.
good luck!!
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My daughter does not want to know me and is trying to exclude me from the rest of the family i am heartbroken she cant see that i love her and my other children she is married and has children of her own please find me some answers as to why this is happening
I think you should talk to your daughter. Tell her how you are feeling. Tell her you want to be closer to her, espeically around the holiday season. Just tell her how you feel.
good luck!!
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Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her.
If she thinks she is all that, get her some, glitter hair gel or body lotion, makeup -(eyeshadow,lipgloss,blush..stuff like that)
good luck!!
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What do you do if you think someone is really annoying and she is at your house all the time..she thinks that i am her friend but im not..what should i do?
Just tell her to stop (whatever gets on your nerves) and just say to her," i dont think this friendship is working too well" i know it seems hard to say to someones face but, whatever you got to do.
good luck!!
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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx
I think you should talk to your friend. Just say "look, i really dont like when you boos me around and anwser my own questions and stuff like that." just tell her how your feeling. She will understand. And tell your Dad that you talked to your friend about it and there is no need to yell or talk to her anymore.
good luck!!
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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
i think you should talk to your friends. just tell them exactly how you feel. if that does not work avoid them. what they are doing is not good and not healthy. as for your other friend just call him up a.s.a.p and ask him "are you mad at me?" and he will tell you and you say "i just wanna let you know that im not mad at you bc i thought you thought that i was mad at you but im not"..
hope everything works out
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I'm going on a cruise for Christmas. And I went on one a few years ago. The last one i went on I saw tons of hott guys but i was to afraid to say hi. So I spent the entire cruise with my family (which was ok). Well, this time i want to be able to meet people while I'm there. What are some ways to meet new people without being really weird about it? thanks!
Well if you want to meet a hot guy then just go up to him and say "hey" or "where are you from" , just start up a conversation with him.
if you want to meet a friend thats a girl then just go up to her and say "hey whats up?" or "hey whats your name?" or "hey my name is ___, whats urs?" stuff like that.
If you just go up to them and talk by no time you will have a bunch of friends on your christmas criuse.
good luck!!
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srry if this to long but i rely need help
my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite
how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??
Tell your friends that either we all are friends or we all or not friends. Its hard being stuck in the middle between your two friends. Just try to fix the fight too. Make them relieze that friends should not be fighting, friends should be laughing about when they 'used' to fight.
good luck!
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