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Age: 13
Member Since: January 25, 2007
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i think im not interesting,because i can never make ANYONE laugh! and i dont have any inside jokes,and nothing comes to mind when im talking. how can i make my brain make me think of things? wow,thats confusing,but im so blank now adays,how can i get myself out of my "blank" stage? how can i make inside jokes? it just feels like my semi- friends are never going to become my close friends. there never going to love me as a friend,and we're never going to have inside jokes. how can i change all of this? how can i get into convos. and make people like me? and laugh with them? anything,i have like no friends in my town,and i've been here for 2 years. ;[. thanks,and sorry this is long. (link)
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try watching comedy channel or comedians. talk about what you watched. or just google jokes go up to random people and say hi!
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15/f. I have a conflict with my best friend, who is 14/f. First of all, I am not your average teenage girl: I'm artsy, I would like to become a professional musician, I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't consider shopping a hobby. My best friend is the typical prep. I don't have a problem with this at all. My problem is that she is always telling me that I need to get a boyfriend or a date to whatever formal, or that I need to be more like the average teenage girl. But this isn't what I want at all, and I am completely happy with myself at this point in my life because instead of concentrating on boys, I concentrate on what I love to do: music. So it seems as if my best friend is trying to control me. Lately, she's obsessed with having a boyfriend, no matter who it is. And that's her business, but she drags me into crap like that. I never give in to her controlling manner, but it gets freaking annoying to the point where I don't even want to be around her anymore. How can I tell her to not be so controlling, yet still keep our friendship? Thank you! (link)
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hey maybe shell like it if you tell her that you dont want a boyfriend
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I have two best friends and now everything is changing between us. We all three have boyfriends. Amy is always like her boyfriend and I never get to hang out with her anymore and when we actually do get to talk it's always about her boyfriend. Andrea, my other best friend is not as bad its just I dont want to lose them. My boyfriend seems to be not interested in me or something. He never calls me to hang out and then always has an excuse. He would rather play videeo games, or cheat on me I guess. (he is known for cheating). But I dont know what to do because if I break up with him then I will be by myself at school with no one to talk to because my friends will be with there boyfriends. (link)
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break up with him and schedule time with your friends, if theyre really your friends theyll make time.
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Alright ive heard from my friends that one of my guy friends is gonna ask me out. I dont see him like that at all though, and i dont wanna go out with him but i feel so bad turning him down cause hes really nice and i dont want him to be mad at me for it. How can i let him down easy? (link)
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This sounds stupid but agree to go on a date and see if you like him!
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I asked a question regarding a married couple that I'm friends with a couple of months ago. I know the wife had cheated on the husband. Since, I've remained silent about the situation and vowed not to be in a position to witness that again. Well, the wife made a new friend recently and the girl has practically moved her & her two kids in with the couple & their 3 children. Anyways, his little girl pulled me aside after church last night wanting to talk to me and she was upset because the girl and her kids had practically moved in and taken over her bedroom. The couple's two boys are having to share a bed, and the friend is sleeping in the bed with the husband and wife. A friend of mine saw the friend & the husband at the grocery store the day before yesterday grocery shopping together. I thought this was odd. Anyways, I called the wife last night and she was crying and upset and wouldn't talk about it. I called thsi morning to check on her and she told me her husband left her last night and come back really late. I don't know what to do. I'm torn as to whether or not I should call and check on him or not because I spoke to him last night and he never mentioned anything about it. I'm friends with both of them. I've tried comforting her, but she still doesn't want to talk about it. I don't even know why they've split up.
Should I call him and try and talk to him or stay out of it and let them reach out to me when they want to? (link)
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leave it alone things will eventually work out and if your worried about the child,check the living conditions if theyre bad enough go to the police !!
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15/ female
a few months ago my friend (15/female)told me she was going to have sex with her boy friend(16 male) of like 5 months. I didnt think it was a good idea, since I thought he was kind of a jerk and a druggie. But I tried to berealy supportive and a good friend, and she promised to go to a doctor, but her mom is sorta verbally abusive, so shes worried the doctor will tell. Well I suggested she go to a teen clinic near her house, and she went but it wasnt open
well then she went ahead and had sex, but she said she wasnt going to do it again. and that shes on this new medication that says she shouldnt be sexually active
well she lied and told my friend four weeks later that they had sex again. So I brought it up, and I said that she should go see a doctor, and she said she would. Then she told me later that she didnt, and then she said that she had sex again! And I was lik, k, you should go see your doctor, just to make sure its okay while your on the medication, and she said no. So I told her that if she didnt, I would talk to her parents. Because I was really worried about her, and I know its not my job, but I was probably wrong. Well then her boyfriend harrassed me online and I freaked out. He called me a bad friend and a bully and stuff, and I didnt knwo what to, seeing as I didnt really do anything wrong, I just told her I'd tell her mom. Well then my friend and I got in a fight because I was scared of her boyfriend and I didnt really want to be around the two of them anymore, so then she asked what was going on so I was honest. And then she said she would go to a doctor if it would make me feel batter. That was about three months ago and I asked her the other day if they were still doing it, and if she had gone to the doctor and she said they were and she hadnt. Then she told me this long story about how shes worried about him and thinks he may be addicted to pot.
I was just wondering; is there anything that can hurt her from his drugs?, should I talk to her parents? Is there anything that could harm her from the medication shes on, do you think that it is important for her to go to a doctor? and is this really my place, or should I back out? I dont want to, but I guess I cant really change her. Any advice would really help. I tried looking at this from an advicenator's perspective and was confused more. Please help, I'd really appreaciate it! Thanks lots! (link)
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go behind her back she needs to get help meds are a serious thing and so is sex
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do. (link)
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stress is every where think about what could be worse and figure things out in your head
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My OLD best friend was the greatest for 3 years, or so I thought, I found out she lied and wasn't even my real friend for the first 2 years, and she does little things just to make herself feel better and me feel worse. This may seem kinda stupid and conseted but after being taken advantage of for 3 years it's a big thing/ But anyway, I realised she's really insecure, not that pretty or cool, and I'm MUCH prettier than her. SO after she told all these people lies about me I stoped being her friends, and made friends with my best friend in the world Meg, and we're so good together and we get along great but being friends with her and not my old friend has comprimised my friendships with a lot of my old friends. SO that makes me really sad, and now I'm becoming kind of popular I guess.. and this may seem great but I kind of feel like I'm becoming a snob and that my new friends aren't for real. PLUS with this new like I'm going to have to leave my old life in the dust, but I just don't think I can do that, but I CAN'T go back to my old life because I was SO mistreated. I can't help but feel torn and stuck in the middle... what should I do? (link)
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ive gone through this and they arnt really your friends if they were only your friends for a friend of yours basicly they were using you
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hey, I'm having my 16th birthday party soon and i need to know of some ideas of what to do at it. i have music and ddr, but i cant think of anything else. any ideas would be GREAT!
by the way, it will be at my house.
thanks
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ply spin the bottle or 7 minuets in heaven the guests have to be both girls and boys
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okay so i hate how in my groups of my friends im the only one who has had a lot of bad things happen to me. and i just want a good quote to put in my profile saying something around these lines. you dont know anything about my life so stop judgeing me. you dont get why people cut themselves or try to kill themselves. or idk. really but something like that. please help (link)
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the race goes not only to the swift but to those who keep on running.
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Alright, there is this girl at school(Let'scall her Olivia), and she is REALLY REALLY annoying...if you walk faster than her, she;ll start saying in a whiny voice "Hey, wait, wait for me!" or something, and she cuses a lot, she flips people off, and one day, when I came into school late, she tried to hug me, but I was like 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then my friend calley came up and hugged me and I hugged her back. And yet Olivia honestly won't take a hint! Also, she;s one of those girls who won't stop doing something if you tell her to stop. Like, with another friend,Olivia wouldn't stop hitting her, now there is a place on me where you can hardly touch and it tickles and such. Well, she won't stop and I've told her too, but she won't. It's on my last nerve, what can I do to get her to leave me and my friends alone?(All my friends don't like her, and she is honestly like...a stalker because she'll follow you everywhere!) please, I really need some help. Thanks so much! (link)
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tell her nicely that you think she needs to back off if she cries walk away be strong.
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i am a freshman in highschool and there's this senior, *John. i knew him all throughout middle school until i was in 8th grade and we just seemed to drift apart. i always used to say "when your a senior, i'll be a freshman & you'll drive me!'" as a joke. now i really am a freshman and i had tottally forgotten about him until one day i walked into the cafeteria in the morning and before i sat down i caught his eye. we looked at eachother for a really long time but neither of us were going to say anything so i just smiled and sat down. i couldn't stop thinking about for the rest of the week. i accidentaly bumped into him in the hall and one of my friends grabbed me before i had a chance to say anything. let me just say before i go any further, we were best friends and when i knew him before i was WAYY to young to even think about him. it always seemed as if he made an effort to sit a couple of seats down from me in the mornings in the caf.
what could i say to start a conversation? (link)
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hey i remember you but the question is do you remember me
or have i seen you before? and you know me right ask a question and itll be sure to start a converstation
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My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do? (link)
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give her another chance if shes worth keeping
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