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Ok, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've got this really great friend who happens to be a guy. We've been friends for a really long time and he lives right next door to me. Since the Homecoming dance was coming up, I asked him to the dance without thinking. (he's the only guy friend who I know that I'd have a good time with and we've gone to the past couple years' dances together so it seemed only natural that we'd go together again) He agreed to go with me so I thought that everything was ok... so we went and had a great time as always. Nothing interesting happened (we are JUST friends afterall) Later, I found out that he was planning to ask his secret crush out to the dance and now I feel really bad because I hadn't considered this when asking him to the dance. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HE HAD A SECRET CRUSH! Now he refuses to talk to me and won't even let me have half of the pictures from the dance. What do you suggest that I do? I can't take back going to the dance because it's already happened and now his crush hates me!
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the least u can do is talk to both of them. its not ur fault u didnt know he had a crush and like u said, u asked him because yall went to every dance together and it was only natural to ask him. if he was planning to ask his crush to the dance tthen he should have told u that. afterall , u cant read his mind. so wht i would do is talk to him and maybe write his crush a note explainning how the two of you went to every dance together for the past few yers and u only see him as a friend and tell hjer that u never had the intentions to hurt her feelings. if u would have know that he liked her then u would have never asked him. and just apoligize and ask for her forgiveness.
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there is this boy that goes to my skool and i used to have a crush on him until my friend called him on 3 way and she told him that i liked him and he was like HELL NO SHES UGLY AND FAT AND JUST HELL NO!!!! as you can tell 1 i was upset and 2 i was just str8 up MAD!!!so the next day at skool i told him my cousin Nikki(not a real person)had a crush on him well i pretended to be her on the foneand stuff and when we went to the movies my cousin pretended to be Nikki and he fell for it and he really liked her but some gurl thought that me and my friends were being mean and she told him what we were doing and hes mad...do you think he'll forgive me???Should i forgive him 4 what he said abuot me????PLEASE help me (link)
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well he was an ass to you . when he said that about you then you should have just been like "ughh yeh hes an asshole i can do better then him" but the biggest mistake u did was when u nd ur freidns pretended to ebe someone else. you can apoligize and if he dont forgive you then u did what u can do and jus know that u felt bad and gave ur apoligies and be done with it and pretend like nothing happened, and maybe u should try to move on to another guy becasue he was an ass when he said those mean things about u.
hope i helped.!
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I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help? (link)
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whatever you do DO NOT GO OUT WITH UR FIRNEDS EX ESPECAILLY IF SHE ISNT OVER HIM. because that is showing that boys are more important than yall friendship. so either find a new boy or wait a little hwhile till she gets over him
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My group of friends and I have been really close for a long time, until recently. We were all loyal to eachother and thought that we could put lots of trust into eachother...until we found out some things about this girl Cara. She had been saying bad things about all of us behind our backs. Individually! We all knew that she had been doing this for awhile and we kinda excepted it as being her. We would nod our head when she talked about another friend, but wouldn't participate in the verbal backstab. You see, she told every one of us that we each were the only ones that she could trust and the only ones that really understood her. That made us special and feel that we could trust her. WRONG! recently we found out that she had been doing this for years and giving verbal beatings to all of her so called friends behind their backs. Its not even that that ticks us off so much. You see, she always is depressed and moody and ruining our fun by being sad about things that she say are happening at home or at school, but in reality, she has a great mom and dad, and is getting excellent grades. We all didn't talk to her for one week and she retaliated. she told anyone with ears all about how we were all jerks. Than the next day, she acts all sad and trys to apologize. She says that she's truly sorry and all and we all want to forgive her. She says that she is going to change and she needs our help and just wants us back. So naturally we forgive her....but today she started talking about us and acting all depressed and moody again! We have no idea what to do because even though she is a mean jerk, she's that kind of person that you want to hate, but you miss and you want them to miss you and like you. She will also spread rumors about us if we be mean to her. We are so confused at what to do. It doesn't help that we all go to the same school, so we can't just ignore her because were in a lot of the same classes. HELP! (link)
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i think ur friend is starving for attention. i think that if u ignore the "depressed moods" and the way she acts like she has problems then she might lay off a little but. but maybe she really does have family problems and just becuase it seems like her parents are nive when uve met them doesnt mean they really are. people wear disguises to hide from their real self. maybe the things that she tells u are true. i think that maybe u should go to the school counceler and tell her the things the girl tells u is going on. and ask the councelor not to bring u or any of ur firneds name into it. just say that someone overheard her saying things that were seriious. and just ask the counceler to help her out a little bit and talk to her about it. tell ur firned that u love her to death anf you want to help her but she cant be treating you and ur "clique" the way she does. young girls are always catty with eachother and are constandy feuding and fighting with eachother. i think u should just ignore the rumors and ignore her when she does stuff just act like everythings okay and ignore the childish things she does.
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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
**Anoynomous** (link)
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weed cannot hurt you so dont worry about that aderol is an a.d.h.d medicine that people who are hyperactive take to be more concentrted in school. it cant hurt her if she only takes one a day and coke is a serious drug that a 13 yr old should not even think about doing. im 15 ive done weed aderol somas concerta zanbars and others. but i have never tried coke. you should really talk to her and be serious because yes u can die off of coke and it takes control of ur life just like tabs (extacy), crack, herion and others cacn do. i have had a friend who had to get checked into rehab for doing coke. he constanly started getting 3-4 nosebleeds a day and all the nmoney he got went to it. i have had several of my friends get checked into rehab for extacy. their addictions have gotten so bad that they really do think that they cannot live without it. i know ur worried about ur friend and u have evry right to be but just to make u feel a little bit better i will assure you that aderol and weed cannot hrt you but 13 yr olds should deffinatly not be messing around that. it doesnt seem like ur firend has an addiction it just seems like she is experimenting at to0 younf of an age and her sister has had a big influence on her. u need to talk to her older sister and tell her that she shouldnt let her sister do coke and the toher stuff. but coke is deffinatly something you should worry about. and if u find out about anyother drugs she is taking then let me know and i can tell you some things about them. i hang out with alot of people who do them (even tho i shoudnt) and i know alot of things about drugs. so feel free to talk to me anytime and i hope ur friend can get away from that stuff.
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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i think u should spend time with your friend or go to the party with your firend. but dont turn ur friend down. do smtn with her on her b-day
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should I be proud of what i am? (link)
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i think u should be proud of whatever u believe!!! theres nothing worng with being gay
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I've been trying to loose some weight. I know i'm not fat, but i'd just like to loose a few pounds. I started last week, and it went pretty well, but i've decided that this week i'm just not going to diet but start up again next week. I know i shouldn't but i have my reasons. But ever since i've been on this diet, all my friends ever do is hound me about it and make fun of me! they always steal my food and count the calories in it, and everytime i tell them to just stop getting involved with this, they tell me to just listen... they laugh at me and count my calories and tell me how fat i'm gunna get, and it's really really annoying and being on a diet is difficult enough since i have a terrible sweet tooth, but they make it worse. I've tried many times to tell them that it's not their place to hound me about what i'm eating, but they don't listen to me and make a big deal out of everything. I have no idea what to do and they're making this really difficult for me. any ideas what to do? sorry it's so long. (link)
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my friends make fun of me because i used to be on the south beach diet its when u eat foood with little or no carbohydrates... it did bug me a little but after a while i just went along with it and joke back with them but if it really bugs youy then u should tell them something.. if they were ur true friends then they would understand
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Me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden nd imma freshman now! tha other day we got into a fight! this is wat happened!..tha nyte b4 i got drunk bc i was allowed nd i didnt feel good tha next mornin nd he kalled asken if i wanted to chyll w. em nd i told em no bc i was sick nd wasnt inna good mood! well he got on tha computer nd we were talkin nd shazz nd tha next thing u kno he tells me not to take my shazz out on hym nd i didnt do ne thing! soo he went to jessicas nd she told hym nd my b.f things tht werent true soo i got dumped bc of it! later tht day i got on tha computer again nd was talken to my best friend nd he tells me tht he dont wanna talk to me nd imma rapist nd a stalker soo i went to his house w. my mom to talk to hym nd he ran outside from tha situation..well tht jessika girl was there well she kalled me nd my mom a bitch nd soo i walked down tha road nd asked her y she did it nd shazz nd soo he ((my bff)) ran out tha door telling me to stay outta his life! i feel soo bad i mean i didnt realli do ne thing mean to hym ir ne thing! i do a lot of stuff for hym nd its hard not talken to hym! wut shudd i do?! i mean weve been bff since kindergarden! ive cried alot about this! plzzzzzzzz help me! (link)
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I THINK U SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND EXPLAIN WHT HAPPENED AND EXPLAIN WHY YOY COULDNT GO ND CHYLL WIT HIM.. YOU SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND WORK EVERYTHING OUT.. HE CANT READ YOUR MIND MAYBE HE THOUGHT YOU WHERE AVOIDING HIM OR SMTN.. HOPE I HELPED TELL ME HOW IT GOES ON MY ADVICE COLUMN!
TONI
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well u see i have this friend and we always get into fights about the stupidist things ever and one time we got in a fight and she asked me a pastense question and when i tried to anwser she got really mad and was sayind things like why do u always bring suff up form the past were talking about this fight noy ones that have happened in the past when i tried telling her the i was only anwsering her question she would not listin! what do i do? (link)
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ive had friends like that before. i just ignore them when they bring stuff up from the past and thy always start stuff if you react to it then its making them feel stupid. just let it go and dont react
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Hey, I was going to have a sleepover party for my friends on Halloween after we go trick-or-treating with each other. My one friend that I invited is allergic to dogs, cats, and guinea pigs -- which are all of the pets I have. She can't even go in my house because of it. I was considering sleeping out in a tent in the backyard, because it's really big, but it might be too cold by October 31st for that. I don't want to just uninvite her because that might screw up our friendship and that's pretty rude. :\ What should I do? (link)
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i think that maybe you should clean your house really good (like washing all the sheets and pillow cases, vacuuming realy good, and spraying ur house with the non-alergy spray like febreze and others.. you can usually find these disinfectant sprays at stores like walmart or soemthing.)and tell your parents to keep all the animals in their room. another guest room or in the garage(if you have one) and if that doesnt work then maybe you can have the sleepover at another firnds house. after all it would be kinda rood to leave out a friend just because she had allergies.
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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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maybe you should just talk to her and say we can still dress up but lets not go trick or treating lets do something different this year you can go to a party or have a party or something. and if she gets mad then theres really nothing you can do she'll eventually get over it . im 16 and i still dress up but i jus usually go to parties and chill with friends n stuff cuz im gettin to old for that to0. hope i helped go0d luck!
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i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
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did you move to a different city or did you just transfer sko0ls?
maybe your just spending more time with your new friends and forgettin about your old ones. or mybe by just hanging around ur new friends u are changing the way you act. you didnt really give us too much information so its kinda hard to say but all i can tell you is to be your self cuz if ur new friends where really ur friends then they would like you for you. theres no need in changing yourself(as your friends have sed) and just make time for your old friends.
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