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Hey, my name is Stacee. I'm your average 13-year-old girl.I love fashion & trends (ask me ANY question about those.) Some of my favorite things are fudge, the beach, swimming, parties, dancing, playing tennis && soccer. I also love my friends. My favorite snack is oreos with peanut butter. Unique, eh? I absolutely love Laguna Beach && all the WB shows. I have a major crush on Talan (from Laguna Beach) & Tom Welling. haha.
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okay well my best friend julia has a new best friends and she is not being her shes turning into a badd grl!! =( and i want to tell her that it is badd but i dont want hyer to get madd and no be my friend wht should i do
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sad and confused
Bad girl...hmmm....a lot of people are easily influenced by the people they hang out with. It's weird...but like---they find it hard to act like themselves cause they're afraid people won't accept them. BUT, you DO have to point this out to Julia before this problem escalates out of control and you end up losing her that way. So, you should talk to her in PERSON, so she can see how yOU REALLY feel & not that you're just jealous that she has new friends. Look her in the eyes & tell her that you miss the way she used to be and when you guys used to hang out and this 'bad girl thing' was neverr in the picture. Make her actually WANT to go back to the way she was.
HOPE THIS WORKS 4 YOUU ! *stacee*
my best mate moved yesturday and it is kinda really borin wid out him and everyone seems to be deppressed and i dunno why but i am too yet i know he is still ma best mate he is likea brother to me and for the last 1 and half years i have spoke to him evry mornin when he was walking his dog and i need help on how i can deal with the changes to my rutine and social life please reply as it is important
Moves are really tough, and for the first month or two, it may feel strange not having your friend around. BUT, don't let that feeling last longer than that. Just think, if he's really your friend, he'd want you to not be depressed, whether he's around or not, right? So, for the first month or two, maybe you guys can create a calling schedule. Like, he calls you Saturday & Sunday mornings and you call him Wednesday & Thursday nights? Then, you'll BOTH have something to look forward to, cause trust me, he's going through the same thing as YOU, if not, worse. He has to make all NEW friends. So, talk to him, and think about how YOU met him. What did you say? It obviously worked. And also, help him out with making new friends. Remind him that he's a great guy & there's probably plenty of people just waiting to befriend him. Good luck!! ---PLEASE rate mee---
I'm in honors classes at my school. I'm currently a sophomore and I've been with the same girls freshman year and I can't seem to make any friends. I don't go out on friday nights and I have dance coming up in february that I have to ask a guy to. I don't know anyone help!
Naturally, the social butterfly IS going to be the one that making friends comes easier to. But just because you're not some sort of party-animal...it doesn't mean YOU can't make JUST as many friends. Attending a dance is a GREAT start. Maybe, this year, you can spend the first semester trying to get to know more people. Join a club, participate in some more extra-curricular activities, play a sport, work on the paper, etc. Not only will YOU keep busy, but you'll meet a wider range of people, and you can have fun! Don't worry, you have PLENTY of time till February. If you take my advice, you'll know or even be friends with so many guys you won't be able to decide WHO to ask! (come back in february and I'll help ya out. haha. (; )
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okay so basically this is what happend ... Yesterday I was working and my "best friend" came into my work and was like "DO YOU WANNA GO TO THE MOVIES WITH ME AND HAL**" and so i was like "YEAH! what movie??" and she said "Undiscovered because i know you really wanna see it" ... okay so she said the movie was @ 7:20 .. so i told her i would call her when i got home from work (i got off @ 7) but to look @ a later movie time. So i got out of work and i called her cellphone .. she didnt answer. and then i called her house and her mom said she wasent home so i called her cell again and our friend Lauren picked up and i was liek HEYY where are you guys? and she said "On the expressway." so i was like "oh well tell Kim** that i was allowed to go but nvm" and she was like "casey wanted to goo!" and i was like "No, I was allowed .. Kim* invited me." and the next thing i heard was "YOU LEFT HER??" and then nothing?? doesnt it seem pretty weird?? and also the pure fact that when i hung up she didnt call me back .. and she still hasent when she tells me "I can tell you anything your such a true friend" blah blah blah .. and ive known her since i was about 7-8 and i dont even know whats up with her? what should i do/say?
Well, it sounds like she MAY have been blowing you off, but we may be getting the wrong impression. Call her, but don't come right out and say "You've been blowing me off," cause it may have been a simple mistake. Start out with "Heyy, 'Kim', what's up? Haven't talked to you in a while. Have ya been busy?" Make it a casual convo, and don't sound TOO interested, but make sure you get some straight answers.
one of my GOOD guy friends that i am extremely close w/got a girlfriend. this girl has been on and off with this other guy 15 times and she cheated on him twice. and now that my friend has a girlfriend i'm almost jealous of her. i don't think i like him, but when i see them together i kinda feel ignored or something. but he's not ignoring me... i don't know if i actually do like him b/c i know they wont last long and it'll be a 1-2 week thing, but when he was single i didn't feel this way...
Hahah...looks like someone's a little jealous. ;) No big deal. These sorts of things happen. Once the guy is off the market, it makes girls like him MORE, which is what's happening to you. The #1 thing to do is to NOT let this affect your friendship. He's your bud, and in his opinion, nothing more. Which is okay, cause he has a gf, and he shouldn't want to be anything more, so you can't blame him there. BUT, maybe point out to him that this girl is cheating on him, but be SERIOUS. He may get mad, or say you're just jealous, but he'll eventually realize you're right, and come around. BUT, don't tell him to break up with her, cause that typically gets a guy mad, or offended. Hope this works out for you! ♥
I'm 25 and have lived in my own apartment for three years, but I recently met a girl my age who has a house and a spare bedroom and wants a housemate to help with payments, so I'm going to move in with her. She's really cool and we hang out and have gotten to be friends. Here's my question: a few people (my parents, mostly) have told me that any time you're going to live with someone new you should have a set of ground rules that you both work on and agree to... like, what hours it's okay to play loud music, who's going to do dishes when, stuff like that. I told them the idea is silly because we're friends and she's going to think I'm weird and uptight if I propose something like this. If my music is too loud, she can tell me, you know?
So what do you think... should we just go with whatever for a while, or work out an agreement? What sort of stuff should we put on this list of rules if we do it?
True, but this is the way YOU would handle the situation, and she may not feel comfortable telling you up front. She might feel that YOU will think SHE's weird. So, maybe one day, if you guys are hanging out or something, just say something like "Hey, I was thinking, just because I want our friendship to stay strong & this living-together situation to work well, I was wondering if we could maybe think about some stuff that really would annoy you or I that either one of us would do. Pet peeves, ya know?" Say it in a funny way, and maybe she won't take it like you're 'strange', but make sure she knows that you REALLY want an answer. =)
I have this friend who thinks that I don't want to hang out with her and I only want to hang out with her sister, even though I hang out with her all the time and I only talk to her sister a little bit. She says I do it all the time but I don't but she insists that I do. It's annoying. Do you think that she is being parranoid?
Well, maybe not paranoia, but possibly jealousy. You have to understand that jealousy is common, so don't feel bad. BUT, next time you go over, sit down with your friend and her sister and make sure they BOTH understand that you like them BOTH and suggest that you all do something together. :)