okay so basically this is what happend ... Yesterday I was working and my "best friend" came into my work and was like "DO YOU WANNA GO TO THE MOVIES WITH ME AND HAL**" and so i was like "YEAH! what movie??" and she said "Undiscovered because i know you really wanna see it" ... okay so she said the movie was @ 7:20 .. so i told her i would call her when i got home from work (i got off @ 7) but to look @ a later movie time. So i got out of work and i called her cellphone .. she didnt answer. and then i called her house and her mom said she wasent home so i called her cell again and our friend Lauren picked up and i was liek HEYY where are you guys? and she said "On the expressway." so i was like "oh well tell Kim** that i was allowed to go but nvm" and she was like "casey wanted to goo!" and i was like "No, I was allowed .. Kim* invited me." and the next thing i heard was "YOU LEFT HER??" and then nothing?? doesnt it seem pretty weird?? and also the pure fact that when i hung up she didnt call me back .. and she still hasent when she tells me "I can tell you anything your such a true friend" blah blah blah .. and ive known her since i was about 7-8 and i dont even know whats up with her? what should i do/say?
h0tt_stuff answered Monday August 29 2005, 10:39 am: umm, I think you have to talk to her in person because that would be much easier so no one could hang up or block you or anything like that =) Just go up to her and be like 'hey, what was up with you yesterday? what happened?' And then see where it goes from there!
__STACEESxoCOLUMN__ answered Monday August 29 2005, 9:54 am: Well, it sounds like she MAY have been blowing you off, but we may be getting the wrong impression. Call her, but don't come right out and say "You've been blowing me off," cause it may have been a simple mistake. Start out with "Heyy, 'Kim', what's up? Haven't talked to you in a while. Have ya been busy?" Make it a casual convo, and don't sound TOO interested, but make sure you get some straight answers. [ __STACEESxoCOLUMN__'s advice column | Ask __STACEESxoCOLUMN__ A Question ]
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