I'm in honors classes at my school. I'm currently a sophomore and I've been with the same girls freshman year and I can't seem to make any friends. I don't go out on friday nights and I have dance coming up in february that I have to ask a guy to. I don't know anyone help!
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 12:35 am: Just be super friendly to everyone! I mean everyone. Even people that wierd you out. People know people, and if your nice in general people will see that in you. Be really friendly, talkative, and open good conversations. Do the same with guys. Just be the real you, and enjoy a guy's qualities for their full worth, not just looks. Humor and all that good stuff count as well! Good luck! [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
__STACEESxoCOLUMN__ answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 10:41 pm: Naturally, the social butterfly IS going to be the one that making friends comes easier to. But just because you're not some sort of party-animal...it doesn't mean YOU can't make JUST as many friends. Attending a dance is a GREAT start. Maybe, this year, you can spend the first semester trying to get to know more people. Join a club, participate in some more extra-curricular activities, play a sport, work on the paper, etc. Not only will YOU keep busy, but you'll meet a wider range of people, and you can have fun! Don't worry, you have PLENTY of time till February. If you take my advice, you'll know or even be friends with so many guys you won't be able to decide WHO to ask! (come back in february and I'll help ya out. haha. (; )
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pooslinger900 answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 2:03 am: Really... all you need to do is just make yourself known... By that i dont mean like going and streaking through the school so everyone will talk about you for the next 2 weeks, no... I mean if u really want to make friends just be there. Dont hide yourself from any groups, if you see a hot guy, talk to him. Trust me... me being a guy, if a girl comes up and talks to me its she has my attention. A guy is just as embarrased to go up and ask a girl to a dance as girls are... its just guys have this thing in them where they have to be all bad ass and impress there friends... so more then likely they'll come off as mean or rude. But if you really want to make friends, the best thing is to strike up a conversation you know something about and just talk. introducing yourself to someone you can do after they already have your attention. I hope this helps you. Good Lock and live strong. [ pooslinger900's advice column | Ask pooslinger900 A Question ]
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