I am 18
I LOVE music!!!!! Mostly Rock, Hardcore, Metal, Blues and everything that isn't rap and country!
I work at Sears
I graduated from J.W. North High School
I live in California
I'm not on the computer as much as i should be for this site :-p
I believe that "Shit Happens!"
I am a big believer in Murphy's Law!
I eat alot
I was the captain of the Wrestling team in school
I am a white kid (blonde hair Blue Eyes...)
I'm 5'10"
I'm Very open minded and will tell you whatever comes to mind whether you want to hear it or not!
I'm telling you things about me right now that i dont really need to say :-p
I am in the greatest relationshipcof my life right now!!! :-D :-D
And I think I'm done with describing me
Oh yeah... I cant spel for shit!
Website: A good friends Website... lots of music!!!
Gender: Male
Location: California
Occupation: Sears
Age: 18
AIM: kws e gore
Member Since: August 29, 2005
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Well, I started going out with this girl since Friday, right? I really like her, and she really likes me, but I can't seem to know what to say because I'm sitting at her table with all of her friends at lunch now. I can't really relate to her friends, girls OR guys. Today was the first day I sat at her table though, and I held her in my arms during lunch after we ate our food. I didn't speak much to anyone, even my girlfriend. I said I was sorry I didn't talk today too much because I was tired. Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm sort of a video gamer, and she and her friends aren't, so I'm not sure what to say to her sometimes at lunch or to her friends. Please, any suggestions on what to say, do when I'm around her, and say around her and her friends? Sorry this was a long post, but I really need help on this one. I'm 15/M, and she's 14/F.
Thanks! (link)
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Ok... What you need to do is just sit there... you dont really have to say anything to begin with. But dont stay that way... i mean yeah sit down, say "hi" or "hey" you know... just show them that you're there and you DO talk :-p ... then wait for someone to say something that you can relate too... a movie or something on T.V. or a teacher or whatever... talk about things that everyone knows... and throw in there that your a gamer if it comes up in the conversation... you never know if her OR her friends can relate to a game. But yeah... if you feel you dont belong just wait for someone to say something you know alittle about and speak your mind on it. Good luck and live strong!!!
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one of my friends at a football game today hurt this kids neck,they aren't sure if its broken but he can't really feel anything from the neck down. so i don't know what he should do. but i don't know what else to do.he pretty much just did what he was supposed to do tho, all he did was stiff arm him in the helmet...and i guess he did it do hard or somethin...so i just wanna know what i should tell him (link)
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tell him it was an accedent and that altho the hard feelings will be there don't let them get to you TOO bad. If he feels obligated, go and visit this kid with the neck... I was in wrestling and people got hurt all the time!!! Its just a chance you take while playing the sport. And as long as he didn't do it on purpose or break any rules doing it then its up to you to go see how hes doing... but be lively... dont walk in all sad and full of apolligies... walk in cheerful that he is still alive. Sit and have some laughs and jokes about the game... let him know who won :-p But it's up to you... good luck in your decition and live strong.
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hey!
well i still like my ex a ton. & tonight he IMed me & was like "you coming to my game tomorrow?" so i guess he wants me to go to his football game. We had to break up because it would be hard because hes in high school (9th) & im still in middle school (8th) what does this mean? I give 5's! thanks! (link)
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I'm not quite understanding the question... Are you wondering what him asking you to the football game means... if so... it could mean alot of things... You probably dont want to hear it but dopnt get your hopes up of him wanting to come back... He may just want you as a good friend and thats all... for you to come see how he did, cheer for him, hang out alittle after the game, say goodnight, and move on to the next day. And if thats the case... DON'T LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND!!!!! No matter what the situation is dont lose him!!!! Friends are the greatest things you can have in the world... and if he's a friend that will ALWAYS be there for you then thats even better! but yeah... him asking you to go could and more than likely is just wanting someone he likes (as a good friend) to come watch and cheer for him. But good lick to you and him at his game and live strong.
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okay so i wrote a question in here yesterday... thinking that no one would answer but i got a ton of responses && im really excited ;) so thank you all for caring i'll make sure i start giving advice too. but i'm not done with my story yet- so yeah like i said im 14 and my boyfriend tells me im lucky to be with him && all this other crap. i care about him a lot && i cant see myself without him.. alright but heres the catch- homecoming is in a week && we have been going out for 8 months... of course he's asked me but so have some other guys... my bf doesnt realize how much crap i put up with to stay with him.. (partly bc im whipped && dont wanna be w/o him) but like, if i do break up with him... what will i do about homecoming? do i stay with him for homecoming or do i break up with him && hope to God that i get another date in a month? remember, that if i did break up with him he would most likely go with the girl that i think he likes. but see my bf is the type of guy that is straight forward- like if he likes someone else hes not gonna stay with you.. thats what i find so weird about this all- bc hes like doing this just to get a reaction out of me. i do not knowww but please i dont have an older sister or anything so if you've learned from experience about something like this.. let me know. thanks a lot :D (link)
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I know your not gonna wanna hear this and i dont really care how you rate me but... WTF?! If you cant live without him then What the hell is this "should i break up with him?" crap going through your head for?! If you can't live without him then you DO love him... and if you love him then breaking up with him shouldn't be an option... I think what you need to do is sit down and think about whether you really do love him or not... and not just "omg i love u." type love... i mean REALLY love!! If you cant tell yourself that you love him and really mean it then the choice is up to you whether to stay with him or not but if you dont love him... wait stay? This is kind of a different subject but i believe it that it needed to be said. Good luck with your decition and live strong!
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Are discussing who they like, how exactly do they bring it up? =/
Do they do the same thing as girls, and tease each other, or what? (link)
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depending on the mood and the conversation its just as easy as saying it. If your just joking around with the guys. you know... guy talk... bring up the question, "So who's the top of the list of women for you [insert name]" After he answers i'm sure the question will be brought back to you... then you wont feel so embarrased being the 2nd, 3rd, 4th,ect person to say it. Try that. make sure the conversation is livly and very relaxed... no tention!! Hope this helped some. Good lick and live strong.
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Okay I absolutely love wavy hair and i've been trying to get my hair to be wavy the problem is i cant scrunch it or anything cuz i have curly hair so it doesnt work it just goes into curls which yeah im sure some ppl want but I dont!! I want waves..lol anyone got any tips?? I heard maybe if I got a body wave it would take out some curl and put some wave in anyone think that would work or better yet know it would? thanx everyone -ashley (link)
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Something i know would work because my girlfriend was REALLY curly hair and she straightens it quite a bit is take a straightener and go over real fast and like 1 or 2 strokes... it'll take some of the curl out but not burn the hair enough to make it straight... or just go down to the barber shop and ask for it to be wavy :-p Hope this helps. Good luck
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I'm in honors classes at my school. I'm currently a sophomore and I've been with the same girls freshman year and I can't seem to make any friends. I don't go out on friday nights and I have dance coming up in february that I have to ask a guy to. I don't know anyone help! (link)
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Really... all you need to do is just make yourself known... By that i dont mean like going and streaking through the school so everyone will talk about you for the next 2 weeks, no... I mean if u really want to make friends just be there. Dont hide yourself from any groups, if you see a hot guy, talk to him. Trust me... me being a guy, if a girl comes up and talks to me its she has my attention. A guy is just as embarrased to go up and ask a girl to a dance as girls are... its just guys have this thing in them where they have to be all bad ass and impress there friends... so more then likely they'll come off as mean or rude. But if you really want to make friends, the best thing is to strike up a conversation you know something about and just talk. introducing yourself to someone you can do after they already have your attention. I hope this helps you. Good Lock and live strong.
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This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.
That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.
How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?
Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER! (link)
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Really... it depends on you and him and how its done... For a woman... the skin around the vagina is REALLY sensitive! It's gonna hurt but like i said it depends on you. How high of a tollorance to pain you have, how used to things being in there you are (vibrators, dildows, fingers, ect...) The size of him, and really how fast you start off... Ever heard of the term "popping the cherry?" well its cuased by the inner skin called the heymen being torn which will make you bleed and cuase pain. so really... for your first time... Go slow... use lube and be ready for it...
Top or borrom is strictly preferrence... if you feel you dont know what your doing the first time be on bottom... so if it gets uncomfortable and weird... its not your fualt becuase your just lying there ;-p
Every1 will say trojan because thats all they know... but really... if he doesn't rip it when we puts it on then any condom you find at like 7 11 will work
I personally am still a virgin but I know WAY too much about sex for my own damn good! :-p The only reason i am still a virgin is because i fear the chance of having children! I'm not at a state in my life where i can support a child... so i just keep it in my pants
The only thing else i have to say is BE SAFE!!!! Good luck and live strong!
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I'm in NJHS.
Every year we vote for who is president, vice pres, officer at large, secretary, and treasurer.
I am running for secretary. we were making signs and all happy when my BEST friend said she is running for secretary also. i dont want us to get mad at e/o if one of us wins and one doesnt.
but there might even be a chance neither of us wins. what do i do if one of us doesnt win....
i'm really worried and i rate high (link)
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To Start off... Its no big deal if you or her looses the vote. Its JUST high school secretary. A good piece of advice i can give you is just that NEVER EVER!!!! let something get in the way of a great friendship! loosing a friend over something really stupid like high school secretary is stupid. I'm not telling either of you to stop running. What you can do is help eachother out by giving eachother slogans or... making posters together or whatever! Dont let it get in the way! But it's up to you. Good luck and live strong!
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can someone tell me what those things are that like water comes out from the floor and just rises up?? i need to find a picture that i can print in trace for a photograpghery class.. thanks (link)
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Do you mean a Geyser? Like Old Fathful and such... yeah, there called geysers. If your looking for picture just go to:
http://www.google.com/imghp?hl=en&tab=wi&q=
and search geyser. Take care and live strong!
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thers this kid lets call him will,i am fixated with him,i like know things about him and when i see him my heart skips.but we r in different social circles plus i think he likes his friend micaela.do i like him and what should i do about it. (link)
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Really... Different "Social Circles" really shouldn't matter. I can't answer if YOU like him or not... thats like asking me what color nail polish you had on 3 years ago... I have NO IDEA! :-p But If you feel you like this guy you should go for it... Start off by just talking to him... If this is school then talk to him in class... if u dont have a class with him... talk to him in the halls and as you walk by, then the more you tlk to him the more he'll either loosen up to you to where u can move in or he'll shut you out completely... which if that happens then it just really isn't meant to be. Dont feel sad if he deosn't want you... if he doesn't want to be with you then you dont want to be with him... wanting a cat you know your allergic too. :-p But all Decition are made by you! Good luck and live strong!
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