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well i still like my ex a ton. & tonight he IMed me & was like "you coming to my game tomorrow?" so i guess he wants me to go to his football game. We had to break up because it would be hard because hes in high school (9th) & im still in middle school (8th) what does this mean? I give 5's! thanks! <3
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he still likes you, and its probly too late to tell you that you should go to his game, but if it isnt, GO! and if it is, be glad you went
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It means he probably still likes you. I mean you broke up because of different schools not because he didnt like you. So are you going to his game?
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If you think he wants to possibly date again..you're probably overlooking the matter.
He probably just wants to be your friend still.
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it means he still has feelings for you! which is a good thing! the bad thing is you never know when he will change his mind especially if he broke up with you id say be careful but go to the game! bring a friend in case he ignores you or he cant talk.
i hope i helped!
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yea i think you should go and maybe you can get back together next year when your in the same school
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Firstly, you didn't "have" to break up. You decided to (and I would be interested to know whose idea it was: his, yours or a combination of both). I'm not saying exactly that it was a bad idea, but ask yourself why it was done? Did he, for example, suggest that he wanted "no strings" (in which case, he isn't worth taking seriously as he isn't trustworthy).
If, however, it was a purely mutual decision,then you should by all means continue seeing each other, whether with or without sexual involvement is your choice(though i would recommend caution, since semi-casual sex can be a real killer, the worst of both worlds).
Many people on this site ask questions very similar to yours-to all of you, I would say one thing-love your ex,but don't build your whole world around him/her. Don't spend ages obsessing about every conversation, feverishly scanning it for signs that they still want you. Not only is such behaviour unhealthy, it is counterproductive. Noone likes someone who is too devoted, or constanly at their beck and call.
Having said that, it's good that you two are still in contact, and IM in particular is a godsend for people in your position as it can, if you need,take off some of the pressure that can come with phone calls.Go to the game. Hang out with your ex, enjoy each other as friends, at just see what happens. The best of luck x.
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Hes maybe tring to hook up with you again, who knows??? But still, one grade higher aint' that much of a diffrence. Think about it this way: your parents are probably 4-5 years older in diffrence. So yeah, go and try to hook up with him again!! he might just ask you out! good luck!(If he brings you to a private spot, that might be the crucial clue that he wants you back!!)
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I'm not quite understanding the question... Are you wondering what him asking you to the football game means... if so... it could mean alot of things... You probably dont want to hear it but dopnt get your hopes up of him wanting to come back... He may just want you as a good friend and thats all... for you to come see how he did, cheer for him, hang out alittle after the game, say goodnight, and move on to the next day. And if thats the case... DON'T LOSE HIM AS A FRIEND!!!!! No matter what the situation is dont lose him!!!! Friends are the greatest things you can have in the world... and if he's a friend that will ALWAYS be there for you then thats even better! but yeah... him asking you to go could and more than likely is just wanting someone he likes (as a good friend) to come watch and cheer for him. But good lick to you and him at his game and live strong.
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