okay well my best friend julia has a new best friends and she is not being her shes turning into a badd grl!! =( and i want to tell her that it is badd but i dont want hyer to get madd and no be my friend wht should i do
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sad and confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? __STACEESxoCOLUMN__ answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:37 am: Bad girl...hmmm....a lot of people are easily influenced by the people they hang out with. It's weird...but like---they find it hard to act like themselves cause they're afraid people won't accept them. BUT, you DO have to point this out to Julia before this problem escalates out of control and you end up losing her that way. So, you should talk to her in PERSON, so she can see how yOU REALLY feel & not that you're just jealous that she has new friends. Look her in the eyes & tell her that you miss the way she used to be and when you guys used to hang out and this 'bad girl thing' was neverr in the picture. Make her actually WANT to go back to the way she was.
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