ask riledup55



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



My name's Halee. I'm 15 years old. I play basketball and softball and like to hang out with my friends. Hope i can help anyone who needs it. The picture above is a picture of my sister and my best friend on the skycoaster. My other pictures were too big of a file to put on here. IM me if you want to see a picture of me.
E-mail: basketball_halz51@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: NY
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: riledup55
Member Since: August 28, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: August 28, 2005
Visitors: 1406

Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Fashion and Styles
View All

I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait? (link)
waiting until you're 16 like your friends are is ridiculous. They shouldnt set an age to when they will have sex. I think that it is very respectible of you to want to wait, but if the right guy comes along (or what you think is the right guy) then do what you think is right. your first time is something you'll always want to remember, so make sure that its special, with someone you care about and make sure its what you want. Hope i helped!


My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him? (link)
if he really truly loves you, sex won't mean that much to him... If he does break up with you, then he's not good enough for you. Dont do anything that you will regret!


All right. So this summer, I've had two loves.
-Let's call her "June". I met June online on a roleplaying game. I liked her, she liked me. We weren't going to get serious, I just loved to be around her. But I recently got permanantly banned from that game. I have no way to contact her at all. What do I do?
-Let's call her "Summer". I first met Summer in science class, and I just thought "Wow, she's a hyperactive freak." Then we became friends, and everyone thought she was flirting with me. We both denied that we liked each other. But then at the start of the summer I realized that I missed her and I really did love her. So then I told her that. And she said basically that she was really sorry, but she only liked me as a friend, etc. Then later after she got back from a vacation she told me she had been thinking about me the whole time she was on vacation (I was thinking about her the whole time, too) and she said that what she had previously said, she didn't know if it was true or not, she wasn't sure if she liked me or not. But I'm madly in love with her, and I'll do anything for her! Anything! I lost an hour of sleep last night due to thinking about her!
Then one day I looked on her website. Turns out, she had had a recent boyfriend who broke up with her because he hated her frequent spaz attacks. Well, I think she's funny when she spazzes, but whatever. This really didn't mean all that much to me... until I listened to my iPod. In the song "Break My Stride" (I don't know who the original is, I'm listening to AC Rock) there's a line "You look at me and you see your past. Is that the reason why you're running so fast?" And that got me thinking. Hm! Summer thinks about me and she remembered her other boyfriend who was her friend first, but then boyfriend, and now they're off speaking terms! Maybe she just doesn't want that to happen to me also! But her previous boyfriend obviously wasn't the real thing. I know that kid, and he's not the kind of guy who involves with true love. He's the kind of guy who just goes for the reputation, the street cred. I need to show Summer that this is the real thing... that I wouldn't break up with her, no way, no how... I know what love is, and I want to make her know the real thing too. Please, I'm so distraught whenever I think about her, I can't continue with my life! And never being able to talk to June again doesn't exactly help!

I'm sorry it was so long. I just really need help. And I've asked smaller questions, and some people have said that I can just pick up any girl that I want to based on my question, but I don't like anyone else. Just Summer, June, and Summer. Thank you SOOOOOO MUCH! (link)
i don't really know how to help you with june... but with summer, if she really did like you she wouldn't let the fear of you guys never speaking get in the way of being with you. I think you need to tell summer that she needs to figure out what she wants and you cant wait around for her forever.


what are some good scary movies? (link)
Boogyman is really good...then ring 1 and 2, Hide and seek... i dont suggest the grudge, its not that scary




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker