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My(used to be)best friend meghan who now I don't like anymore is flirting with my other friend Alex (who I used to go out with but now he's a really big crush)and she knows I like him alot and if I talked to her about it she would just take it he wrong way like she did last time I tried and I don't know how to get her to stop cuz it really upsets me and I think she knows why I'm mad at her but she just i/ms me asking why I'm mad and pretends like she doesn't know and I think her and my friend Julie were talking about it and meghan asked her to ask me what was wrong and that made me mad too! And I don't wanna be meghan's friend for so many reasons but I just can't deal with her flirting with Alex then denying she likes him and saying she likes this other kid. What should I do? (link)
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Well I wanna start off by saying that Meghan isnt being a very good person if she knows you like him and she flirts with him and pretends she doesnt know. I think what you should do is talk to Alex.. you can call him or do it in person either way is good. When you are talking to him explain to him how you feel and how it is hurting you to see what Meghan is doing Im sure he will understand. After that he should tell you how he feels about it and things can get worked out that way. Good luck. I hope I helped
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A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
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I have been in a problem just like this and trust me I know its not easy. What she did was really wrong and if you feel that you still wanna be friends with her then I guss you should talk to her. Get her at your house and just sit her down and tell her that if hurt you when she did that and she doesnt need to go telling everyone your business because she is souposed to be your bestfriend someone you can turn to when your hurting and it sounds as if she isnt being that. I dont think you should apologize because you did nothing wrong she did it. Good luck. I hope i helped
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my friend pat just told me my friend jessica hates me. she hates me cuz i told pat something she did while she was sleeping over my house. well pat says she was so mad she was swearing and stuff. i feel really bad and want to call and say sorry but pat says she will probably yell at me and hang up. whenever jessica and i have fights they are usually easily resolved, and im hoping pat is exaggerating, he does a lot. im mad that pat told jessica he knew, but i know im mostly to blame. so what should i do now? please help me, i hate losing friends :( (link)
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well i think u should try and talk to her tell her that u are sorry and explain to her how u feel if she hangs up on u after u tell her all that then maybe yall arent meant to be friends..hope i helped and good luck
-Haleifh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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my two best friends never met eachother until i introduced them .. know they r leavin me out .. nd i told them how i felt nd noe they r doing it behind my back.. give advice plz (link)
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well maybe u should try and tell them how u feel again and if they still do the same thing this time just remember they arent good friends if they dont care how u feel..so if they dont listen just try and find some new friends!! good luck!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~
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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone. (link)
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just go u will make friends trust me!!! lol good luck
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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My best friend Julz is goin out w/ my favorite cousin Jon!! Julz is turning 14 in october and Jon is turning 13 this september. i really hate them goin out, cuz he's changed ever since they started goin out!! they broke up and they just got back together!! i dont wanna tell julz that i cant stand it cuz she's my best friend and she'll get mad, but i think i have to. ive talked to jon about it but they like eachother so much!! what should i do?? --Chels
p.s. please help me out here cuz i give you guys advice!! return the favor lol (link)
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you really shouldnt break them up because if they like each other then you shouldnt really have a reason to make them break up but what u can do is tell them how you feel i dont know what good it would do but at least they would know.
-hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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hi. i have a friend and she is about 13 and we have been best friends for 2 years now. we have always been there for each other and we are really close. but just recently she turned bi. and im ok with that cuz she knows i just like guys and i know she would never hit on me or nething like that. but after that she started hanging around the wrong group of people and she has done drugs before and smokes cigarettes daily. i wanna get her help but without her hating me or something. and now shes going out with this new guy matt who is 15 and he just wants 2 get in her pants and has fingered her before already! which is really nasty in my opinion for her only being 13. and she said she would do nething to keep him in her life but there is only one thing he wants. and me and my other friend tried warning her about him but she wont listen 2 us. i dont want to control her life but i just wanna be able 2 help her. what should i do? (link)
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tell her how u feel and if she doesnt understand then u need to turn to an adult that u can trust and that can help her with her problem without tell everyone!! good luck
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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Hey guys,
Well heres the problem. My best friend of like forever, up and decides that smoking is more important than our friendship. it really hurts me to see her do it because i know the pain it caused her when her grandmother died of cancer just a few short years ago. She goes on about how she doesnt need a supervisor or someone telling her what to do, but i keep telling her that i only get on her back about it because i care. she doesnt seem to realize that im only trying to help. however, my help cant always be the answer. i am myself, an advice giver on this website, but sometimes you just need others' advice. if anyone has any advice, or anything at all i could say to my friend to help her, please let me know. im scared for her, and also for our friendship. please someone help me. (link)
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I think that you should just try one more time to talk to her about it and if yalls friendship meant alot to her she would try and stop for your sake and hers and if it gets really serious and she doesnt listen to you...you will need to consult and adult about it and maybe they could help...good luck
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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Hi see im stuck in the middle of 2 friends that are guys and their both my age , they boh want to go out with me me Im looking for MR Right , what do I do??? Jenipher PLz help (link)
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well just do what u want and dont let them pressure you and if u like one of them then go for him but if u dont like them then tell them u dont think either of them are right for you.
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanx,
Confused (link)
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well hey I think she might have just said that because she was mad...but you should talk to her about it and ask her what you did and then ask her if she really meant what she said...Good luck with this and hope i helped.
-Haleigh (plz rate my advice)
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Okay..me and my two friends crack and smack have a band crack played the drums but then he decided he wanted to play the guitar so he got into it. so we found a new guy, sven, that was into the drums so we got him..he didnt even know how to play..he bought a really expensive drumset and that was a while ago and he's still not good. Well anyways we just originally wanted the band to be me, crack and smack. so crack went back to drums..we've had band practice with just us three and sven just doesnt ever bother getting better with the drums. so we hadnt heard from him in forever so we pretty much figured he was out of the band...but just recently he keeps calling up and telling us his thoughts on how OUR band should be doing..and he think hes still in it..what should we tell him????we dont want him in the band!!! (link)
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Hey well i think that if yall dont want him in the band then tell him straigt up that he is not what yall are looking for and get it over with instead of just making him think he is still in ok well good luck and hope i helped.
o yeah and i love the names!!
-Haleigh (plz rate my advice)
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Okay hey hal its megan. but um i think i told u about ryan the 15 year old i hang out with. he is helping me with my cutting problems but my friends dont like that i hang out with him. what do i do? bach (link)
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well since he is helping you with that problem I think you should try and explain to ur friends that he is helping you get through this and stop that habit if they dont think you should see him still after you explain it to them..then i dont think that they should be your friends if they dont want you to talk to someone thats helping you. Hope I helped.
-Hal
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How do I get my best friend to talk to me and trust you, while he still has a girlfriend and all? His girlfriend is putting stuff in his head and how do I prove that also to him? (link)
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well I dont mean to be rude about this but if he is a true friend he will listen to you before he listens to his girl..
-Hal
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I have a friend and as a person she is great but our friendship isnt the best. I always feel like im the one screwing things up and sometimes i feel like she trys to make it so that im the bad person just so its not her fault like its her way of getting out whats inside of her but yet it makes me feel so horrible and im not the best person for taking things lightly. i dont really know what i should do so help me? (link)
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I think you should have a talk with her and tell her how you feel.If she doesnt change the way she makes you feel then I think she doesnt deserve to have a friend like you.Hope I helped
-Haleigh
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