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my two best friends never met eachother until i introduced them .. know they r leavin me out .. nd i told them how i felt nd noe they r doing it behind my back.. give advice plz
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well maybe u should try and tell them how u feel again and if they still do the same thing this time just remember they arent good friends if they dont care how u feel..so if they dont listen just try and find some new friends!! good luck!
-Haleigh ~~plz rate my advice~~ ]
tell them thats mad wrong for them to do that. They wudnt have even known eachother if it wasnt for u! Tell them u KnOw they've been hangin out behind yur bak, and they shudnt be doin that. Nuthins worse then friends who lie to eachother! And if they dont listen to u, they're NoT true friends. U dont need them! Hope my advice rocked! ]
It's hard feeling like you're the 3rd wheel in a relationship. Tell your two friends that you want to do more things together as a trio. And say that it really hurts your feelings that they leave you out of a lot of things.
If that doesn't get through to them - then don't waste your time...go find someone new =)
Good luck! ]
Ok, you need to get some other friends to resort to when these 'best friends' are on your back. So try hanging out with new people, invite people over you dont normally. Plus these people really dont seem like they're going to be nice about it, so tell them until they know how to include you in things your taking a break from your friendship with them. They'll have to understand. If they are good friends they'll ask for you back, or apologize, or whatever it is they have to do. Its basically like a test. If they're sucky friends, they'll never bother and you wont need them then anyway. Good luck, im really sorry for everything. Hope everything turns out ok ... :-D ]
Maybe arrange so that all of you can hang out at once, dont try to stop them from being friends, but when you know they are hanging out and they didnt ask you to coem or something maybe be like "can I come too, if not its okay I guess" just try to hang out with them ]
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