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Never thought I'd be this way
Hung on every word you say
Scars that you gave to me
I earned all too eagerly
Cause down inside of you
Is all of heaven and hell
Everyday is all the same
Take the pleasure with the pain
Things that you put me through
Never is enough for you
So I'll fly
Find another life
I know somewhere it's right
So why can't I forget you?






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next year all my freinds are going to do sports and I'm not. My best freind said it was going to be hard to keep our friendship going since I wasnt on a sports team. She also said i should meet new freinds ,but i dont want knew freinds I want my old ones.

If she was a real friend, she would try and keep your friendship strong rather then flat out tell you that it would be hard to keep it going. My best friend moved to another city and we still keep things strong so there isnt any reason for you guys not to. I do believe that you should make new friends though as well as keep your old ones.

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I dont know if kuts even my bff still. He fought with my other friend on who was my penguin I love pon and zi. Then I stayed at my friend’s house for a week and her cousin and kut but I didn’t know they were and I came out in all out gothic and he left and wouldn’t look or talk to me. Then theirs some parties that something bad always happens. At parties something always goes wrong for me like I start to flirt with a lot of guys but end up sitting with them. And my friends know Im love sick so my guy friend said he’s always here for me to be with as friends. But then some of my friends and I got ina water fight. Then I told kut to join us and then kut got pissed and he said ILL SAVE YOU RA lol but it’s a water fight. Me and kut over aim we were ina chat room with a lot of people and somehow it got ona certain subject and I told him I loved him and everybody new he loved me back so they started leaving to leave us alone and he later on said red bull gives you wings in biggest font and left.lol long time ago. And once I was Xtremely depressed and I said I don’t wana talk to you and Im about to bleed to death I forgot what else happened but he didn’t get on for over a week then he did and I was so sorry but he forgave me. And in-between all this theirs him ignoring me and us flirting and hating and talking and not. He won’t even talk much over aim. I asked him if he loved me he said yes but third. ive known him my whole life. But how do you think he likes me or does he hate me?
13/f

Well, if it's weird for you, it's probably weird for him too.

I say you talk to him, face to face or aim, whichever you feel comfortable with, and ask him directly what he thinks of your realtionship. Does he see you as a close friend or a girlfriend?
Only then, would you find out the truth. If he does not talk, then dont sweat it. Show him that he is not in control of your life and he is missing alot if he doesnt talk to you. Reading that over sounds very confusing me, but dont worry. Your only 13 and guys are going to come and go throughout your life.

Good luck ;D

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