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a dying freindship
next year all my freinds are going to do sports and I'm not. My best freind said it was going to be hard to keep our friendship going since I wasnt on a sports team. She also said i should meet new freinds ,but i dont want knew freinds I want my old ones.
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You should still be friends even if they're doing sports and you're not! It doesn't matter...I think that, that was really mean of her to say that it's gonna be hard to keep the friendship going! Just try talking to your friends. Tell them that you still wanna be friends! Try doing some other activity, that you enjoy..if sports isn't your thing...maybe you'll even make new friends at whatever you decide to join!:D
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The same thing happened to me. My best friend and I used to do everything together; but now we've gotten involved in different activities, and so we don't get to see each other as often. Not only because our schedules are different, but also because we've each made new friends who we like to spend time with. But we still love to get together whenever we can, and we always have a great time when we do!
Sooooo... just because you and your friend are taking different paths, doesn't mean the friendship has to end altogether. However, since you won't be spending as much time together, it's probably a good idea to branch out yourself and make some new friends, so you won't be sitting around by yourself during the times your friend is busy with her sports.
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If she was a real friend, she would try and keep your friendship strong rather then flat out tell you that it would be hard to keep it going. My best friend moved to another city and we still keep things strong so there isnt any reason for you guys not to. I do believe that you should make new friends though as well as keep your old ones.
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Maybe you guys need space just give her her own...and you find something esle that u enjoy doing instead...who knows maybe you'll find new friend you love hanging w/...even if ur not open to the idea:)
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okayy first off all your friend seemss SOO lowww to say that thats just, ugh. she wasnt a true friend if she thinks you cant keep a friendship because your not playing a sport ! thats bull. i play ice hockey and none of my other friends play it and thats seasons from auguest till april and im NEVER home on weekends and none of my friendships suffered.
soo what i think you should do is sit your friends down and talk to them and explain that you love them there your best friends you dont want other friends, and the factt that there playing a sportt shouldnt result in a lose of a friendshipp. and if they dont understand then they arent very good friends to begin with and maybe you'd be better off with different ones.
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