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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on

I would tell them that I liked the way they were before and that it doesn't make you like them much or better when they dress like that.

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Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?!

I don't think thats weird. She seems just like a frined to you and probably somone who you look up to. Maybe like a mom or something

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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?

Your "friends" were just jelous of you. Dumb poor bitches. If your friends are gona leave you beause you have a lot of money then they aren't really your friends. You can find a lot of people rich or poor who won't care how much money you have. Talk to your friends though and tell them basicly what you told everyone in this entry. Best of luck. -Jenna

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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(

Okay tell your friend that her idiot bf was making threats to kill you once again, and that your life as at risk. If she still doenst litsen tell an adult. Your friend doesn't even love him but is just attached to him beacuse they had sex, mostly likeley. And she probably won't break up with him unless you let an adult know so that her parents will be aware of that. good luck. thats messed up

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my friend and i both like the asme guy (my ex bf) and i know i could get him but she'd be devastated.. but i really miss him and i want to be with him but i dont want her to be hurt.. :-/ advice would be nice

Well first off, if he is your x she shouldn't even be thinking about going out with him! If I had an x and my friend wanted to go out with him I would be really sad and angry. But if her liking him is okay with you then I guess it's fine. If you REALLY want him back I would sugjest talking to your friend. You could tell her that he is your x and you havent gotten over him. And ask he how she would feel if you put her in this posission and wanted to go out with her x even though she still liked him. She should understand if shes really a friend. Hope everything goes well! xO~Jenna

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My friend has this bf that I hooked her up with.Me and him are cool ever sence they met and I liked him I still do but not as much.Well the other day she ad a dream about us to mking out and going behind her back.I would never do that but does that dream mean something.

I think the dream probably means that she might feel that you guys are close and like eachother. Shes just afriad that you and him might hook up, probably because you two are friends, and your the one who introduced them to eachother.

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What do I do? Two of my friends like me, who happen to be girls, and I don't know what to do! Should I say that I only want to be firends or what!? Please help me!

For now I would just be friends with both of them, unless you really want a gf. You can decide later when you know both of them better.

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Ok I have this friend and I thought she was ok until recently I was dumped by my boyfriend and now she flirts with him like hell the other day he was saying how much he hates her so he doesn't even like her but is trying to make me jelious and I'm sick of it because I'm not over being dumped and she's saying stuff like oh he's flirting with me now and keeps trying to hold his hand should I ditch her because she's really getting me down she's keps going on about him 24/7 some friend she is I'm really gutted but have just kept it all in me and not said a word but I'm really upset about it but can't even cry because my feelings are so deep inside of me please if you can help me if you can't then ok

wow your friend is a bitch. I would bitch at her if i were you and get a better friend, then i'd probably beat the shit out of her...YOU NEED TO TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS. MAYBE SHES DUMB AND DOEST RELIZE HOW MUCH IT HURTS YOU. TALK TO HER!

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im dislexic and i have a spelling age of 10 and a reading age of 12.one of my closest friend is taking the mick constantly always makeing me feel thick.frist i shouted at her when sh did it,when that didnt werk i went to the head and she did a assembly on it,that hasnt werked.i know shes a mate and i dont want her to get in trouble but i cant go feeling like this.shall i go back to the head and ask her to have a werd or shall i just leave it?ive got exams comeing up and i dont want trouble because i need all the help i can get to pass them.waht can i do?any ideas?

If this makes you feel any better I'm 16 years old and last year I just learned how to spell shoe. I also probably have a spelling or age 7 or something. BEING dislexic isnt your fault and your teachers should understand that if they know you are dislexic.

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the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~

Nah he's not. I bet your young and you'll have plenty of time to find better guys than him that wont break promises like that. Good luck tho

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There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone?

Wow that's just wrong of him. It sounds like he's only going out with your friend because he likes you. You should really tell her before he hurts her more. And if shes your friend dont go out with him. He could do the same thing to you. Besides thats almost rape. Good luck. Bye!

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I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!!

Hmm it sounds like hes jelous and likes you. If yours over your x then tell your friend that you are and that your ready to move on. Or just ask him why he gets so mad! Hes your friend and you should be able to tell him stuff. The best thing to do is to ask him y he gets mad when your talkin about him. Good luck. If u need ne thing else then drop one in my inbox. buh bye

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ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me

Hey . Well first off are you yelling at your friend? If you are try as hard as you can to stop and just talk to her. Since I dont really know that much I cant really help. But..A month will go by fast. You only have about a week left. Yeah it sucks ive been there. Things r gona get better. Good luck. If you wana explain more you can ask me or IM me at xbr0kenheart77x

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Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)

Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.

Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.

So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?

Thanks..

Well I think you should talk to him about this..Tell skip that you dont have a crush on him and you just want to be friends. Tell him that you dont like it when he trys to flirt with you and you get mad at him for doing that. If he understands then you should be friends but if he continues to keep touching you I woudlnt. Good luck! -Jenny

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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space???

Aw well thats hard. You should let her have her space but still tell her how you feel. (Really telling somone how you feel helps) She will probably understand and I'm sure she doesnt want you to feel this way, and try and make you not feel like that. If shes your best friend your not gona losse her. Your friend is probably just making some new friends. Maybe you and them can hang out together. Good luck!! If you have ne more q's or more to add about this u can ask me again! - Jenny

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what's a good way to make friends?

By commenting them at first. That always starts up a converstaion.

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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy

Hey your friend probably has bipolar. Talk to an adult about your friend and try and get her help. Good luck. -Luv Jenny

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