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Q: ...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him....
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i decided to date my best guy friend and for me it worked out as a really good decision. we dated for a really long time and it was amazing, but then after a while we decided it just wasnt working out so now we're back to being really good friends. like the other person said, its not awkward unless u make it awkward. i still feel like i cant spend a day without talking to him, and i think he feels the same way, so its like things never changed.
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Q: I feel like I am jealous of my friend, and that she is jealous of me, too. I am not sure if this is the case, or if it is, why we are both jealous of eachother. I don't know why, but we have been competing lately over the stupidest things like who has more friends, more attention from guys, and just attention in general. I feel like I should not be doing this because she is my friend and I don't want to think of her as some kind of competitor. I want to be her friend like we used to, back when silly things like this didn't matter so much and we never argued. It probably sounds like I am referring to kindergarten, but things were better just maybe a month back. But lately she has been putting me down and such, but when she does this, I say something to make her feel bad about herself as a comeback, but then she will do the same thing to be back. It only happens sometimes; and she starts it. I guess I am just asking for someone to tell me what I should do to get her to stop doing this. What can I tell her that will convince her that putting me down is not what friends do? And how can I stop from fighting back and putting her down when she does it to me? Any ideas why this is happening to me and my friend? What can I do?
Thanks!!!♥ Luv Ya All!!!
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just don't say mean things back to her. be the better person to stop the competing. whenever she tries to outdue you just pretend like you don't care if she's better or not. i think that will make her stop. hope i helped :)
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Q: mmk so my bestfriend since 6th grade and i started going out in 9th. we had this whole crazy connection, i cant be without you kind of relationship.(this was in 9th grade) well he wasnt actually allowed to date soo i only saw him at school and i think schools really important and when we started going out my grades dropped super low. because school was all "boyfriend time". and so i freaked out and pushed him away. and now its 10th grade and he hasnt really talked to me since. and i still love him. he doesnt really know what happened.. how do i get him back or to atleast get him to talk to me..he means the world to me..
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well there are other things you could do besides concentrate on you boyfrined only at school...like you could go places with a bunch of friends so the parents are ok with it. or go to his house and watch a movie and eat popcorn or something so his parents feel more in controll/comfortable. tell him why you broke up with him and that you still love him, and if he seems interested bring up some of those ideas^. hope i helped!!
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Q: My best friends boyfriend is transferring schools and they are going to break up on the last day of school because they think its too hard to stay together.. she is crying sll the time and i really feel so sorry for her, but what should I tell her?
Thanks I rate 5s for everyone.
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maybe try telling her that this is for the best, and the pain she's feeling now is probably nothing compared to the pain she'd be feeling every single day knowing the her bf is so far away and with all these new girls around him. break ups are always hard, and it will help her feel better that much quicker knowing that ur there to help/ support her when she needs it
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Q: Well okay see I have this friend, and like she finds something that's wrong to start a fight with me..i mean i like her as a friend but sometimes she gets me really mad, and i just can't take it anymore, we've been thru thousands of fights.. and she talks about me.But i dont care when ppl talk about me..but she sooo muchh..and some of the stuff she finds out i say isnt true, but she'll never believe me..she always brags about herself..and she called me last night and said someone said you said something about me and i was like who? but i dont talk about her...so i know its not true and she told me his name and i said i didnt say anything and she didnt believe me..idk what to do, sorry its long..help ?
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maybe your close friends really arent trustworthy? they could have told or somehow been forced to tell, there are many ways it could have happened. but thats off where im trying to go with this. i think this friend is probably a waste of your time. who wants all that drama in their life? its your choice, but from reading that i would probably dump her. maybe you really do like hanging out with her, and want to stick it out as her friend. good luck with that, cause it seems like this girl really wants attention and she'd do practically anything to get it. hope i helped
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Q: One of my best friends is EXREMLEY rude to me, she bosses me around so much and she doesn't do it to anyone else. It makes me upset because I feel like she doesn't like me. On her profile she listed her friends and i'm not even on there and im supposed to be her best friend. Then the other night she had our 2 other best friends over and didn't even invite me. Shes acting really weird and shes always making rude away messages about me. I don't like it at all because she was never like this before. Please help me!
*[ Hayley ]*
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it seems like shes not being such a good friend...i think you should just forget about her after treating you like that. if you really want to know whats going on, ask her and see what her reaction is. maybe you did something wrong and you didnt know about it? hope i helped
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Q: I hav 2 bessies Emily and Fi but i really dont like emily. we've been friends for years but i cant stand her. I dont want to make fi choose because we're really close but i know i cant go on like this. I often snap at emily and we say horrible things to each other and i feel really bad afterwards but i'm in a really sticky situation and my heads all messed up. Can u giv me sum advice on wt i shud do?
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maybe you should just be honest with emily. say you've been really close for awhile and you've really enjoyed it, but you think you guys are growing apart and you need space. tell fi that you don't want her to choose between two friends, but you've tried to get along with emily and it just isnt working. Good luck!!
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Q: okay..everyone at my school says im annoying! its really started to bother me..i dont know who to be friends with b/c everyone talks bad about me! what should i do?
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if they think you're annoying, maybe you should tone it down a notch. whatever bad things they say about you, use that critisism and try to improve those things about yourself.
MYSTERY_GIRL
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Q: hey! well me and this girl have been friends since i could remember! im a girl too and i am 13. it use to be that i could talk to her about ANYTHING! but lately i have found that i cant talk to her the same way. now whenever i have some secret to tell her i feel embaressed and usually i just dont tell her at all! she has no idea about how i feel with anything thats going on in my life right now. and i feel like i need to talk to someone....but not her! i start crying a lot lately because of all the stuff thats going on in my life and i feel that if i could talk to someone i would feel muchhhh better. but i cant talk to her. what should i do? its just not the same as before! thanks
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I think you and your friend are starting to take different paths....Things are never going to be like they used to be, but maybe you should have a long talk with her. Even if you guys have changed, she could surprise you and be a lot of help. If you're still hesitant to talk to her, maybe you should give another one of your friends a chance.
I hope this helped!!
**MysteryGirl
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Q: one of my best friends is really going down hill. lately she has gotten really deep into drugs and drinking. it is not like her at all. lately it seems like she wants me to be mad at her and she gets really mad when i try to help or tel her i understand and am not mad. has anyone got a suggestion or have gone through a similar situation?
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You have to get her some help RIGHT AWAY! Don't let her stop you, no matter how mad she is at you. Believe me, she'll thank you in the long run. Tell a counselor, teacher, or another trusted adult about her problems, or call a local hotline. If you have a health teacher, ask him/her for more suggestions.
Good Luck!!
.:+*MysteryGirl*+:.
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hey, leave me any q's and i'll try to answer them...
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Member Since: December 9, 2004 Answers: 55 Last Update: October 10, 2006 Visitors: 4472
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