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It seems I've spent many hours talking to my friends and offering advice, and as people keep coming back for it, I assume I'm not bad at it.I know what it's like to be in love, and I also know what it's like to have your heart broken. I know what it's like to be depressed and feel anger towards all the people that love you - your friends, your family, your parents, your teachers. Advice is something I've always been good at, as my friends tell me. So if you want honest advice, ask me and I'll do my best to answer.
Aside from that, here's the basic info on me:
BASiCS
001.Name: Valerie
002.D.O.B.: July 10, 1989
003.Place Of Birth: St. Petersburg, Russia
004.Location: Navarre, FL
005.Religion: open minded
006.Occupation: student at Navarre High
APPEARANCE
001.Hair: brown/blonde highlites, past shoulders
002.Eyes: blue-green
003.Height: 5'4"
STYLE
001.Clothing: Aeropostale, Pac Sun
002.Music: Yellowcard, Simple Plan, Avril Lavigne, Linkin Park, Trapt, Switchfoot
003.Make-up: eye liner and lip gloss
004.Body art: none
EITHER / OR
001.Club or houseparty: club
002.Tea or coffee: coffee
003.Achiever or slacker: a bit of both
004.Beer or cider: beer
005.Drinks or shots: shots
006.Cats or dogs: cats
007.Single or taken: both have advantages
008.Pen or pencil: pen
009.Gloves or mittens: gloves
010.Food or candy: food
011.Cassette or cd: CD's
012.Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi
013.Hard or mild alcohol: mild
014.Matches or a lighter: lighter
015.Sunset beach or sunrise: sunset
HAVE YOU EVER...
001.Dated one of your best friends? yes
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry? yes
003.Drank alcohol? yes
004.Done drugs: no
005.Broken the law: who hasnt?
006.Ran away from home: no
007.Broken a bone: no
008.Cheated on a test: ....yes
009.Skinny dipped: no but sounds fun
010.Played truth or dare: yes
011.Flashed someone: for me to know
012.Mooned someone: no
013.Kissed someone you didn't know: no
014.Been on a talk/game show: no
015.Been in a fight: yes
016.Ridden in a fire truck: not yet
017.Been on a plane: yes
018.Come close to dying: yes
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend: never
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride: yes
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie? no
022.Swam in the ocean: yes
023.Had a dream that made you wake up: yes
ARE YOU...
001.A Vegetarian?: no
002.A Good Student?: yes
003.Good At Sports?: only if i like the sport
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding: not rly
005.A Good Singer?: no, but i try LoL
006.A good Actor/Actress?: yes
007.A deep sleeper?: no
008.A Good Dancer?: so/so
009.Shy?: not really
010.Outgoing?: most of the time
011.A good storyteller?: ppl say I am
AM I...
1. Quiet or Loud?: can be both
2. Short or Tall?: ppl call me short...
3. Weird or Original?: heh...both
4. Nice or Mean?: nice
5. Friendly or Selfish?: friendly
6. Normal or "Special"?: you decide
7. Smart or Stupid?: smart...but blonde
8. Boring or Fun?: depends
5 things that attract me to the opposite sex:
1. eyes
2. smile
3. personality
4. sense of humor
5. honesty
Life throws things at you, your choice is what to do with the things you catch...Will you drop them and complain about how hard it is or will you catch them and learn from them? Its your choice...
advice
any reccomendations? I like nature sort of screen names and I want one that will last forever
Maybe something like LavenderSummer or TennisGrl or LavenderPrincess...Hope this helps some! More info would help in making up a s/n!
JyNxiE
Well i have thins friend lets call him Jen. Well Jen is so ANNOYING she follows me around EVERYWHERE. Everything i do she does. (ex: i color my hair, she does the same. i cut my bangs, she does the same. i make up crazy words, she says she did.) its getting really anoying and i cannot even joke with her about things and then she gets all mad. even my friends know her for a month and thinks she is annoying. She even tried to steal my BF and she didn't even like him she just wanted a bf. She also like a guy after one hour of knowing him. She always complains about not having a bf and i will never have one. and i cannot do much about. So what should i do be friends or not?
You should talk to her about it and see her side of the story. Maybe she's insecure and you're her only 'good' friend. Sit her down and talk. After that talk is when you need to decide if its worth being friends or not.
JyNxiE
I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do?
Here I thought I was the only one who had that trust issue. Sometimes it's worth taking a risk and letting someone in. You're risking getting hurt again, yes, but you're also risking being happy. Isn't that worth it? I had the same dilema a while back when my bf and I started dating. I was hurt so many times before by people I got close to, I didn't know if it was worth letting him in and risking getting hurt. I fought it for some time, but in the end realized I'm happier with him than I am without him. Thats the question you should ask yourself; are you happier with her or without her?
JyNxiE
my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her
The blunt truth always gets straight to the point. True, she'll be mad at you, but a real friend tells the truth, even if it hurts. Think on this, whats better, a lie that will draw a smile or a truth that will draw a tear?
JyNxiE
my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do??????????
Sit her down and talk to her about it. Its true that people have other friends they want to hang out with, but that doesnt mean she should ditch you. Just talk to her about and see if things improve.
JyNxiE
k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??
I don't mean to judge you but that's low. Making out with your friend's boyfriend? What kind of friend does that make you? Aside from that, my advice would be to put some distance between that boy and you. You don't want to hurt their relationship, right?