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so. one of my very best friends has gone and moved to kansas. she was like my best friend at school, and unfortunatly, our school is pretty small so we stuck together most of the time.
i really miss her and i need some advice on how to stay in touch. i'm just worried she wont talk to me anymore...
well, maybe your friend has been wanting to call you soo much but has been really busy unpacking all her crap that she never threw away because she keeps everything and now she is sorting through all of it finally actually throwing stuff away. But i know she MISSES YOU LIKE CRAZY!!! And she loves you SOO MUCH!!!! and she thinks you should get a facebook! lol also she some sort of stupid infection in her stomach and its really annoying because she and her mom have no idea what it is and nothing makes it go away and it hurts a lot. lol so hopefully i helped!! feel free to ask me another question! im always here!!! and text her sometime too
xoxo Hichick
aka Haley
aka MARBS
Alright I know I need to talk to her about it, but help me out here. Okay so my friend, we'll call her "B", decided she was going to save herself for marriage. Her mom got her this really nice purity ring for christmas. Then B left it in the girls bathroom at school, so of course it's long gone. So her mom baught her another one. There's only one problem now. It's that she didnt keep her promise. Now she had talked about saving herself for marriage and everything for a while now. Then she goes off and does this, with a guy she met only like 2 weeks ago. Not to mention the fact that he didnt even ask her to be his girlfriend until like a couple days after they had sex. She's just going about like it wasnt even a big deal or anything. I dont know if I have a right to be even a little angry. And if I do, what do I do have a right to angry about? I dont know it just kind of upsets me that she did that. Whats your opinion? Am I overreacting? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
i would be upset too, but it is her descision. im guessing you are saving yourself too because then you feel betrayed. i believe in saving yourself for marriage and i would feel betrayed and angry if my friend broke her promise because its a promise to God but its completely between her and God. be there for her and help her if she need sit but dont be mean to her about it or she will not open up to you. but sit down and nicely tell her your a little worried over her new descisionj especially because its with a guy she barely knows and they werent dating. explain that God forgives and loves her and that she doesnt need to give a guy sex to make him happy and all that. and that God will bless her with the perfect guy who will also want to save himself so there is no reason for her to have to have sex. if she realizes this as a mistake then help her. if not than still be friends but maybe step a way because she is starting to choose things against your beliefs. i really hope everything goes well.
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Okay, so i'm Jewish but like I don't go to the temple or like anything. so my friends were talking about religion and had the Jewish religion all wrong so i cleared it up and they were like whats the Jewish bible called and i said i didn't know. and this other girl whos not Jewish goes oh..its called a Torah spellin..so anyway they go well your not a Jew your a fake Jew your no Jew JUNO get it like Jew NO. yeah, well i was just gonna shrug it off but my other friend blew up at them and told them to knock it of and i was like guys just stop but they won't. I'm not that affended but a lot of my family died in consintration camps and there making fun of me for being something that i can't help.
am i right to be a little mad over this?
ok it sounds like they were teasing you because you didnt know one of the most important things in your religion. which is kinda pathetic. i dont like it when people claim to be something but never attend mass/temple/service or don't really have a relationship with their god/gods because then it is fake. if they were teasing you because of your ignorance then no you shouldnt be offended but maybe embarrassed. go learn about your religion! lol
So my next door neighbors moved in less than a year ago, and its been hell. They're forever in my house, and they take things only to not return them or give them back in poor conditions. Its not only clothes, but shoes, chairs, butter, spices, irons, etc. They're perfect freeloaders. I was FED UP, so this morning I argued with the mom (they're 3 girls) and completely cursed her and her 18 year old out. I did apologize over the phone, but when the lady told me to do it in person, I cursed her out some more and clicked on her. I certainly don't regret it, but I feel bad for my mom. We're the completely opposites, she's the soft, loving type who feels bad about hurting people's feelings. I know it sounds pretty mean, but does anyone have any techniques to get stuff off your mind? Also its gonna be awkward seeing my neighbors, and I hate feeling like I have enemies, but I will fight her if she even looks at me wrong. Can anyone give their opinions? What would you have done?
i kno your probably exaggerating when you say you will fight her because whenever i got really mad at a girl im like omg im gonna slap the frickin brat!! but ya my only advice is dont actually fight her and just try to lay low. if anything just say you do not feel comfortable lending them your stuff if they ask and try to avoid them as much as possible. im not saying back down...just dont instigate more fights. try and calm down and not get carried away
ok heres my prob my friend likes this guy witch is the guy that i like and well we were holding hands today and well i think that hes going to ask me out tomarrow so, but she likes him and i like him and this other gurl amanda likes him, and this morning amanda and stephanie got into a fight all about him (i would have bine in it but i wasn't there so i couldn't defend stephanie)and i don't know what to do go after the guy or stay with my friends.
talk to your friend and if she's ok with it-try it! explain everything to her and that she wont be left out for sure! and if you really think you can have a good and prosperous relationship and you think hes really right for u then do it! but if its just same thing that will amount to nothing than stick with the friends cause you will get more out of it! hope i helped :]
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i know some one that is worried because all her friends is moving away from herso faar 5 what would you do&im suppose to not say anything or just do tell her parents how she fells
This is a great oppurtunity for her to make more friends. It can be incredibly tough when you feel like your losing all your friends but they will still be friends just not live close. I know that can be really hard and lonely. I can relate in a different way because i had to leave my old group of friends because I couldn't stand it any more and needed to break away and i had lots of other friends but the group i usually hung out with was over and it was hard but now i have a completely new group of friends and they are so nice! Just explore other options! haha if she kind of talks to some girls in class invite her to do something like a movie or ask if you can join them at a football game and get to know her friends more. That's what i did and now i have a fab group of friends! Give other people a try because this one girl hated me for dating the boy she liked and the next year (after dumping him and him dating her as a rebound :P) i (really bold i know but i felt it was the right thing to do and it worked haha) said i know u dont like me and she said she thought i didnt like her! haha now we are good friends and thats behind us lol. so give people she thinks she doesnt like or wont like and talk to them! start being more social and talking to people about general stuff and just saying hi in the hallways. Hope i helped and good luck! i know she will make lots of friends and everything will work out but if she needs more help im always here!!!
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why do some people always say that they are bored when they are hanging out with you? isnt that offensive.. doesnt it mean that theyre the boring person bc if they want something to be unboring they should make it fun
I get what everyone is saying about it being offensive but with my friends i complain that im bored all the time! im always like 'im bored!' sometimes i even joke with guys to entertain me i say im bored when my friends and i arent doing anything not if we r doing something just if were like sitting there. i complain a lot and know this :P but if its a friend dont just think their being rude they might just be joking around that they want something to do. :)
hi im 15 years old and i got an MIC or in other words minor in consumption. I live in Overland Park Kansas and was obviously illegaly drinking. I was at a movie theatre and was caught because i was stumbling and wreaked of vodka. I weigh 93 pounds and had 3 shots of Smirrnoff. I blew a 1.0 and was maybe also charged with obstruction of justice because I would not say who got me the achohol or who I was with. How much trouble do you think I will be in? Is there a possiblity i will not be put on diversion because it was my first offense? I rate high, so please HELP!
OMG i would first like to say hi!!!! i dont know if i know you (probably not) but i used to live in Overland Park Kansas and i stil loooove it there! who knows we might have gone to school together haha :) and if u want message me and we can talk but anyways you will probaly get in put on your record have to attend a program or sumthing be grounded and im not sure about the law tho. it depends on every case. you wouldnt talk so that might be kinda bad too. Sry if i cant help that much but i had to say hi and stuff anyways! :D and those suburbs there ROCK
Okay well there's this guy and i used 2 lik him in 6th and 7th, and he knew it and he never liked me. Yeah but weve been GREAT friends!!! Now we're in 8th grade and its wierd, i have a bf now, one that he doesnt know cause he goes to a diff skool and my friend seems wierd. we used to NEVER get in fights or anything we were chill and kool. But since ive been dating this guy my friends been acting wierd. He's always making fun of my boyfriend, which he doesnt even know and he's always now playing w/ me hair more and stuff. lik he just started going out w/ this gurl a week ago, and im not jealous but i feel like hes jealous of my bf. he makes fun of him, he's now getting mad at me ova nothin at least 3 times a week, and he's always messin w/ me, hair and stuff. IS HE JEALOUS OF MY BOYFRIEND
certainly sounds like it! good luck and if you have more questions just send me a message in my inbox-i always reply! :D
Sorry this is kinda long but i relly need help!! PLEASE!
7th Grade, That time in your life you start to see who is actually your friends. It's only one friend with me. Say her name was... Jane. Jane and I have been BFFs since before preschool. Me and her did everything together. Anyways, in grade 3 i met a girl named, say.. Kelsey. Kelsey lived only a few houses away from me and we hung out a lot. (The longest we've ever gone with out a sleepover starting 5th grade, 8weeks) Kelsey was also a bit spoiled but i didnt mind she was still a good friend. Jane and Kelsey werent the best of friends and never saw eye to eye. Me and kelsey do everything together (I'm going to see Rihanna with her tomorrow!) and i can see how Jane would be a bit jealous. Well ever since before a camp i went to in the summer, Jane has been acting like a bi*** to me. I still wasnt shaving my legs then and she came up to me (out of no where), ran her hand up my leg and said when was the last time you shaved? No not said YELLED! to the whole camp. I also had streaks put in my hair before school started. I kinda went a little beserk and now there's a huge streak of blond right by my face. It looks BAD! Jane points it out to everyone I meet. I HATE IT!!! She makes up secrets about me that sooo aren't true and she tells my true secrets to people! I tlaked to her on the phone the other day and yold her. She said she just wanted to be one of those POPULAR grade 8s next year. I asked her if being popular was more important than being my friend. She didn't answer and i hung up. She done a lot more horrible things to me but if i wrote them all it would take you alll day to read this.
I reallyy need help and im stressing about this 24/7. She calls me a geek and calls me not smart and AHHHHH!!! Please help i sometimes cry myself to sleep. Sorry ity was sooo long but don't take that out of me by not answering the question.
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Leave her. She is def. not a friend. If you tried talking to her already just blow her off. Don't talk to her, ignore her, look her in the eye when you see her to show your not afraid and can stand ur ground. You realy fdnot need some girl like that. You get older and people change. Friends change. I've had to drop my best friends like last year i dropped my bff but i had to do it. You'll see you will feel a lot better when you do and say to yourself why didnt i do that before? shes holding you back and making u feel bad. Why would you need that or want it? just leave her. I hope i helped! ♥♥♥ and if you have any questions just leave me a note in my inbox! best of luck!
Okay I have a lot of guys friends.. and Im a girl but that doesn't madder right?? A bunch of preps started calling me Kevin instead of Katie which is retarted! But.. okay I was hanging with Adam and we had to sit on the bleechers and i was like Move YOUR feet! because he spread his legs and err haha and Olivia(prep bitch!) was like oh why dont you just sit between his legs! So being me I did and Nathen, Josh and Adam started cracking up and MCKenzie(another prep) was like wow Adam if you like her that much.. and he took it as a complete joke and was like OOO yes I love **Kevin and huged me from the back and kept his arms around me and Mr.Davis(PE teacher) was like you need to keep your hands away from eachother! Wickedd loud and we started laughing. Well that was yesturday ..
I dont like how everyone thinks Im apart of the guys. I dont dress like guys its just guys are more loyal they dont tell people what I say and don't stab or try to hurt eachother.. I dress actaully pretty giry. Skirts --low cut shirts even though my Mom doesn't like it.. when you look at me you deffinelty can tell im a girl. Well its hurting my feelings because today it got worse..
This kid named Nick someones whos never liked me called me Butch. You could tell obvioulsy just by looking at me I was upset by that.. and Nick did it again only i think the third time Steven(another Emo awsome Steven I call him my little emo boy) was like NICK come here NOww!! And he yelled that down the hall and Nick came down and he was like Yeahh?? and Steven was like butch??? look at the way she dresses! and Nick was like yeahh good point she does dress kinda slutty! oh well Steven didn't like that and punched him in the head and im standing to the side and I was like Steven!! Its okayy dont get in trouble for me.. becuase they got in afight while Stevens yelling SHES NOT A SLUT YOUR JUST JELOSE BECAUSE YOU CANT EVEN TOUCH A GIRL!!! and Im like Stop omfgg stop im like crying in the hallway trying to get them apart and teachers start coming out and Mr.Jones actually stopped the fight and all 3 of us go to the office and were sitting in the Vice Prniciaples office and Nicks in the nurse because of a bloody nose.. and Im like Steven why did you do that??? And he was like Nick had no rigt to call you that. I was liek I know but Steven your probbaly gunna get ISS for this im not worth that.. hes parents are wicked strickt and will kill him! And he hugged me and was like trust me you are.. So i was like ooww I didnt know I maddered that much :D and I hugged his again when Mr.Saunders came in. Hes wicked cool and was oww young love we were like not Best Buds! and hes like Well Nicks going home.. we started laughing and Mr.Saunders was like I wanna hear you side of the story and Il talk to Nick tomarrow. So we explained he called me a slut, and butch and Kevin.. and Mr.Saunders was like it was a good reason, but didnt make it right. Which yeah we understand So Steven got ISS for 5 days.. Nicks probbaly gunna get it for six because of hurassment basicly i think.. and everyone was asking me questions because they heard me screaming and i was like what happen to Kevin? they were like oh and stoped talking to me and I explained things to Adam and stuff about what Steven said and he was like dude Katie if he even said Kevin infornt of me id kick his ass! so I donno why I feel like I need some girl friends.. I have Becky. And she hangs with the guys too and she was like to you think Steven likes you and i was like no its a brotherly love just like Adams and stuff. But like wjhat if I start liking one and they think im a sister or something???? Im a girl...
Ahh please help me why i feel this way and Why I dont wanna go to school tomarrow... I like that they feel they should defend me but I can take care of myself. Im not some defensless girl. Im there friend not a sister not a girlfriend.. what should I do???!
I think you should tell them you are really happy they care but you really don't want them to fight your battles and get in trouble. Tell them that you feel horrible when they get in trouble for you and you feel bad. As for the other girls calling you boy names you can either 1) Ignore and annoy or 2) fight back. Ignore and annoy means ignore them but in a nice way. Act like your totally happy with it. If they call you a guy name just act normal. Or you could ignore them and say "Who are you trying to talk to? Maybe I can get there attention for you" or something. Act sweet about it and it will anger them so much! 2) means you can remark things like "Too bad guys think your to _____ to hang out with you." Or "You just wish you had as many guy friends as i do" stuff like that. Sorry this is kinda late but i hope i helpex! :D
AQnd if you like one of them and suspect the same thing tell him and ask him back or have a friend ask, ect then give it a try! If you have any more questions just leave me a note! :)