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friend or not?
Sorry this is kinda long but i relly need help!! PLEASE!
7th Grade, That time in your life you start to see who is actually your friends. It's only one friend with me. Say her name was... Jane. Jane and I have been BFFs since before preschool. Me and her did everything together. Anyways, in grade 3 i met a girl named, say.. Kelsey. Kelsey lived only a few houses away from me and we hung out a lot. (The longest we've ever gone with out a sleepover starting 5th grade, 8weeks) Kelsey was also a bit spoiled but i didnt mind she was still a good friend. Jane and Kelsey werent the best of friends and never saw eye to eye. Me and kelsey do everything together (I'm going to see Rihanna with her tomorrow!) and i can see how Jane would be a bit jealous. Well ever since before a camp i went to in the summer, Jane has been acting like a bi*** to me. I still wasnt shaving my legs then and she came up to me (out of no where), ran her hand up my leg and said when was the last time you shaved? No not said YELLED! to the whole camp. I also had streaks put in my hair before school started. I kinda went a little beserk and now there's a huge streak of blond right by my face. It looks BAD! Jane points it out to everyone I meet. I HATE IT!!! She makes up secrets about me that sooo aren't true and she tells my true secrets to people! I tlaked to her on the phone the other day and yold her. She said she just wanted to be one of those POPULAR grade 8s next year. I asked her if being popular was more important than being my friend. She didn't answer and i hung up. She done a lot more horrible things to me but if i wrote them all it would take you alll day to read this.
I reallyy need help and im stressing about this 24/7. She calls me a geek and calls me not smart and AHHHHH!!! Please help i sometimes cry myself to sleep. Sorry ity was sooo long but don't take that out of me by not answering the question.
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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your friend Jane, is not a friend. when people try to become "popular" it tends to ruin them, ive lost many friends this way. People leave behind the ones who care about them the most just so they could get attention from others. Stick with your friend Kelsey she seems to be a much better friend. Don't let anything Jane says to or about you get to you, because its making her feel more powerful with what she does. Hope i helped.
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she is not a friend, friends dont do things like that your better off without her. i think you should just forget about her and just stick to your friend kelseys he is much better friend and sounds liked she will stick by you. so never mind jane and dont cry over her shes not worth it a hope tht helped
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If she really was your real friend she wouldn't do all the stuff you said. So I would tell her that you don't want to be her friend only if you want to do that but thats what I would do.
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Leave her. She is def. not a friend. If you tried talking to her already just blow her off. Don't talk to her, ignore her, look her in the eye when you see her to show your not afraid and can stand ur ground. You realy fdnot need some girl like that. You get older and people change. Friends change. I've had to drop my best friends like last year i dropped my bff but i had to do it. You'll see you will feel a lot better when you do and say to yourself why didnt i do that before? shes holding you back and making u feel bad. Why would you need that or want it? just leave her. I hope i helped! ♥♥♥ and if you have any questions just leave me a note in my inbox! best of luck!
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Okay well if "Jane" is doing all this stuff to you, then she isnt your friend. There is no need for you to cry over the stupid stuff that she does. Trust me, she isnt worth crying over or worth your time. Dont even worry about it, people will see right through her.
She is just doing all this stuff, rumors, ect. just to get attention because she cant get it from anything else.
Dont let it get to you.
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