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My name is Tarra Stumpf. I like the advice I give. Take it or leave it. I am 15. I am not immature. I think things through. I've made mistakes, they've made a better person. I love to see people smile. I like to make people happy. Music is an amazing thing. And that's about it.
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can someone help me? my friends always say how sad they are and depressed bc they are alone and don't have a bf, or they say how their life sucks when they have one. Or they just brag on how much they love him...and ect...and it pisses me off...bc my life is worst then all their's compared basically...and my friend always saying how she is fighting and getting dention (sp?) amd shit and it annoys me...bc its her choice to get into fights not mine...and also i never had a bf...im not allowed till im 16 which is next year...and they always say how their parents never let them do things..when mine are much more strict then theirs..and my life is much worse then theirs or just as bad...and i dont have a bf to courage me to stay strong like they do!! plz help me :-(
i can relate to this alot.. and its because we're teenagers.. we just go through this stage and theres not much you can do except realize the fun in life.. but if you think about it.. your life isnt that bad.. your parents are strict because they care about you and dont want you to get hurt. i know thats not what you want to hear but its the truth. we all think that our lives suck but the truth is. they really dont.. we have it lucky..
My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music?
if you rate you'll probably give me a bad rating for this.. i dont care.. but.. you cant really change what people like.. but if you wanted to try you could maybe start out with slower songs. and then work your way up to the heavier music.
hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what
heres the typical answer your gonna hear.. you just gotta talk to them.. gotta let them know how you feel.. then they'll tell you the truth about it.. but just tell them how you feel.. that should make things better
-enema
Ok here it goes. Me and my bff have been bestfriends for a little over a year. Yes we have our fights and such but one of us apologizes and we get over it. Well the other day i was having a crappy day and kind of took it out on her because usually i can trust her to not take it to the extreme or freak out. Well later on i had realized what i did and apologized for it and she went off saying i take her for granted and im selfish and all these other things. Well we didnt talk for the rest of the day and for most of today. But then she randomly IMed me like nothing had happend and like she hadnt said anything. I read her online journal and she said that she wasnt going to apologize because she didnt do or say anything wrong. But i think she did. maybe not as much what she said but how she said it. I dont know if i should tell her how i feel and talk with her about it risking her getting mad about it. or should i just hold it in and forget about it?
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whatever you do.. dont hold it in.. you need to tell her that you were just having a bad day and had to let some steam out.. i know i do this to my friends all the time.. but stuff just builds up inside you and you gotta let it out.. just tell her that your day was bad so you were just kind of in a bad mood. hope everything works out!
my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!
i've been going through this ALOT lately.. its not that she DOESNT want to hang out with you.. it just a new friend and she wants to be with her alot.. its kind of like when you get something new.. you want to ALWAYS have it with you.. you should tell her how you feel so she knows how shes making you feel.. that might change something.. i hope all ends up well for you! // if you have a problem with talking.. maybe you should mention that.. it helps to know what you can and cant do..