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okay, my best guy friend has this gf, theyve been goin out on and off for like almost 2 years now....me and her have ALWAYS been sooo kool with eachother, like i usta hhellaa like her n stuff...but they like ALWAYS fight and she could be tha biggest bitch to him...ive never said anything to her about it like stuck up for my best guy friend cause his gf was being a bitch to him...so ive had all this anger built up inside of me against her cause she can be so rude to him...so neway acouple nights ago me and my best [girl] friend got drunk and my other best guy friend was there...and they were fighting on tha phone so i got on tha phone and said with some aditute..listen do u even know how MUCH he LOVES u..i sware he would like die for u...and i said allllllllllllll this good stuff but with some aditute cause she was pissing me off..then she got back on tha phone with him and she kept argueing, and i was really drunk and i was like yelling out fuck that n stuff..and then she was saying some stuff then i got hella mad and started going off on her....and now we arent kool nemore...he says shes scared but i dunno whut to do. i mean hes like my BROTHER weve been best friends for sooo long he loves her so much and shows it and shes just a plain BITCH to him...whut do i do??/

talk 2 her and tell her dat. tell him 2 DUMP her. y da hell should he stay w. a b***h lyk dat

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I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?

yea! ask him out if u relli lyk him

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theres this boy who i used to really really like for like 3 years. i never told him and during the summer i just kinda gave up. when i saw him at orientation i had no feelings wutsoever and i was so happy that i finally got over him. then when he was leaving i had this really wierd feeling. i kno i dont like him anymore but i wanna be good friends and i want him to touch me but not like nasty just hold me and stuff. i dont want friends with benefits or anything i just want him to hold me sumtimes and i want to be able to goof off witrh him like i always do. what should i do about it?

get his sn talk 2 him online. wen u guys becum friendz online u'll becum better friendz dat way

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well .. my best friend is mary -- nd i love her to death !! and her boyfriend is -- wel'l say tom .. nd im best frienz with tom too -- lOl nd i have a boy friend .. lets say tim -- here qoes

mary went to florida for too weekz -- me nd tim when on a break --.. i started messinq around w/tom just u know liek flirtinq stuff -- but then we had a trip nd he liek felt mee upp .. nd we liek made out and all this .. then liek that was over i never stopped him i never said anythinq about it to hiim - then we had another trip nd we - were messinq around nd he finqered mee ' nd i qave him head -- nd liek aqaiin it was over we didn't ever talk about it aqain .. but mary nd {tom" qot into this fiqht nd he was liek yaa thats y i did all this stuff w/ur qerl jackiee . nd liek i don't know what to do should i tell her or deny itt cuz its a huqe mistakee - i dun't know what was wronq w/meee but it happened nd lieek she'll flip if i tell her nd i dun't noe wat to doo -- pleaz help ..

backstabber*

hun u hav 2 tell her. ther has 2 b a reason u guyz did that. mb u lyk him more than u think. so tell her. cuz 1 day she will find out and she will b a lot madder.

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My girlfriend is cutting herself,she has been doing it for about a year.She is not as bad as she was but she is starting to think about it more and more,she says she is addicted and she doesnt know if she can stop, and she really wants/needs help.I dont know wat to do or say.What can i do to help my girlfriend?

heyy hun
take her 2 a conselor bc she can die from an infectin or sumthing. so take her 2 get help.

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Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:

I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.

Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe

So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!

u can still b friendz. u likes her b 4 so y should dat change. not being frienz w. sumone who is bi is lyl racism. good luc

xoxo
brunettebeauti

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okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help.

tell emily how u feel. mb u should spend more tym w. her

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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do?

ask her y she thinks dat. nd keep reassuring her dat u dont lyk her ex bfs. talk 2 her about it. good luc ~plz rate~

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im only 14 and about 3 days ago i got hit in the side of the face with a softball during warm up to a game... my mom took me to the doctor yesterday and he said that i had a concussion and to watch it closly because i might have a slow internal bleeding in my head... he said that if i started to act funny and get slurred speech and can barly walk that i probably need a cat scan to see what all happened for shure.. in the short time that ive have this the back of my head behind my ear has swelled up (i was hit in the front of the head) and i have really bad headaches... im getting to the point where i walk really slow and i almost fall over.. i scared of what will happen and when my friends found out they all started crying... the person who threw the ball that hit me in the head cant forgive herself and i dont know what to do.. i dont know whats gunna happen and i just need some help

take the catscan. hopefully nothin is rong. good luc

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I really really like this guy but when he found out my fealings he sed he wanted me only as a friend cuz he wanted to get someone "fresh" when he gets in high school... but i've liked him since 2 grade or even befor that! he's really one of my best buds.i know how he feels but if i see him with someone else.. omg i dunno what i'll do! is there some way i can get him to like me?.. some way he could change his mind!?? help please!

if he doznt feel the same way about u jus b friendz. dont lose ur friendship. find some 1 new. wen u start liken sumone elz u wont like him as much good luc:)

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

well my grandpa died a few months ago. i feel the same way. but explain 2 her that this is life and hes in a good place and if she does hurt herself because she has so much grief her uncle wont be happy. tell her hes watching her and wants the best for her.
:) good luck

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