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AY YOO!! my name is sara & i can give some pretty sweet advice =]. i guess i'm supposed to talk about me here .. soo yeah here ya gooo =]

my room's always messy & i hate capitalizing my i's. I'm a picky eater but i eat lots of food (mainly junkfood =D). i am very unorganized and i usually forget my homework, but i'm working on it. i don't like concentrating because i'm not good at it. i'm obviously not perfect, but then again who in their right mind would say so. i like using big words, and yes i do know what they mean. i'm a pretty good speller and i like acting literate when i'm actually not at all. i don't bother with people who don't like me. if you have anything against me, i'm simply not going to waste my time trying to get you to favor me.. in my opinion, its your loss. i type really fast and i use the backspace button alot even though i don't like to. i wish my eyes weren't blue, but i would never get colored contacts. i eat too many famous amos cookies and i love kettlecorn .. mmmm =] i know that i do not have all the answers to life, but i will try my best to help you people out. i'm pretty good at giving advice on friendship related things, because i think i'm pretty good at being a friend; considering i have no enemies. i'm not so good on school work related questions, but ask me them anyway & i'll give you a website where you can try to find what you're looking for =) i hate writing english papers because i suck immensely at organizing my thoughts. i am very gullable & easily influenced. i judge people way too much even though i'm not that confident. i need to stop that. actually, there's several things i need to change about myself, but you're not perfect either. i talk alot and sometimes i mumble because, i don't know why but i just do. i think i do it when i get nervous and i talk real quiet and it's annoying and i hate it. i also talk fast which is another thing i need to stop. i always have something to say, and i won't hesitate to say it. alright i'm done, bye.

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Okay, i have this friend and she can really get annoying. what really gets on my nerves is when she brags about how cool she is. shes always like "yeah, i think i like this guy because we hung out yesterday and he told me how pretty i was and blah blah blah". she always does this to get attention. its like she adds little facts about what she and her other friends did the day before when it doesn't relate to what we're talking about at all. i know she just does it for attention but she always acts like she's better than me. and it feels like she wants me to take notes on how popular she is. i hate when people do that so much. its like, do i really care that you have a boyfriend 5 years older than you?
also, she's very trashy. she'll go out with a person for a few days and then decide that she has a new fad for this other guy that she hasnt even met before. you cant just do that. we've had a lot of good memories in the past but sometimes i just want to tell her to shut up. can anybody relate to this?

please help. how can i tell her to just quit it?

i have a friend sort of like this =] and i know where you're coming from .. just flat out tell her! Next time she starts bragging about her life, you can just be like "okay that's nice but i don't really care..." and just start talking to her about how bad it makes you feel. chances are, she knows she's making you feel bad and a little bit jealous, and that's her intention. but if you confront her, she will probably realize that her intention isn't a good one. it might sound risky confronting her because you may think you'll lose her as a friend, but think of it this way; would you rather keep things the way they're going? [miserable for you and annoying] orrrrr, confront her which would mean to take the chance of losing her as a friend [which probably won't happen] she'll probably realize her faults and quit it =] hope i helped!

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so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?

PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e

i would do what michelle said .. be like .. uh thanks for inviting me loser or something like that, unless you guys aren't like good friends, then it might be kind of awkward. if it's a big party and you guys are friends, then that's messed up that he didn't invite you. but if you're friends and it's only a little party, then maybe you guys aren't as good of friends as you thought =\ or you could've just slipped his mind .. lol i know that sounds bad, but it happens. hope i helped =] & good luckk! ♥

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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do

friends can be tough .. if she's really your true friend, she'll pick you. although she shouldn't have to pick .. i would first try to find out why they 'hate' you and try to get them to like you. i know i know that sounds bad, but hey that's how you make friends. if for some stupid reason your friend chooses her old friends over you, don't be upset. you're better off without her - TRUST ME. that too sounds so cliche, but it's the truth. if she doesn't pick you, screw her .. you'll find someone better. and if she does pick you, make sure it's for the right reasons. maybe you should point out to your friend that she doesn't have to choose she can be friends with her old friends AND you. if her old friends ditch her cause she hangs out with you, then screw them too =) haha good luck babee!! ♥ :D

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